There are so many erhus, and I also fell in love with one alone.

We're the kind of friends who will always be friends.

When everyone else is gone, she's still there.

When everyone else was laughing, she cried for me.

When I despaired, she opened the door to my heart.

When I succeeded, she opened her arms.

She said that when I can no longer play beautiful music for you, I will choose to leave. I disagree.

Yes, we can't live without it. Even though I'm thousands of miles away from her now, she's always there waiting for me, and when I get home, she's only willing to spin for me.

My she doesn't have a lover yet, maybe later, she will share a lover with me.

That person must not know her at first, but before long, he will love her as much as he loves me. Therefore, I was determined to love someone she loved too. A person who understands the true meaning of life, is truly elegant and noble. A real man who can love me and love her who I love. Not even jealous of the male piano.

Erhu, the girl I love, the longer I spend with her, the more I realize her strengths, and I will definitely find more in the future, and I will tell you when the time comes!

I saw Yu Dan write about herself, and she said that she had never learned mathematics well, and she had never done the right calculations. She then learned Chinese. Her happiness is to put a lot of books on the floor, read them together, and feel like she is in a good atmosphere of literature. And I don't have this kind of happiness, and I don't know when I will be truly happy.

Everyone has a different life, and being arranged exactly the same is painful and helpless. Forget it, do a few years of work related to your major, and then change careers. In this way, I am worthy of everyone and myself.

I especially miss my erhu. It's been a long time now, love, I dare not forget.

After reading it, she moved on to the next one.

As an actress, she is now reading widely and reading as many books as possible.

This time, she read an article called "Living for a Dream".

Lately I've been wondering how people should live. There is a saying that if a person thinks about why he is alive every day, then he must have a mental illness, but fortunately, I have only recently started to think about this carefully.

There's a story in psychology: imagine you have a blank piece of paper in your hand that's big enough. Now, your task is to fold it 51 times. So, how tall is it?

Is a skyscraper that tall? No! You guessed it wrong! You think you're overestimating the numbers, but in fact, I'm telling you, this thickness is more than the distance between the Earth and the Sun!

I don't know what you guys think, but I'm blown away anyway.

Over the years, my greatest passion has been writing. But my family taught me that I had to be good at literature in addition to literature. So, I studied economics and walked on the road of securities without hesitation.

Why? Because the economy is hot, so as to feed yourself.

Someone once said, "It is far more important to make good use of existing capabilities through planning than to tap into so-called potential." “

After listening to his words, I understood that if a person only does one thing he likes most in his life, then his life is like a piece of paper that has been folded in half, and he can always reach the peak. If you always feel that what you already have is worthless, and you have to keep tapping your potential, want to get what you don't have, and do what you haven't done, then life will never reach a certain height.

Just like a person who frequently changes jobs, he thinks that his life experience is very rich, but in fact, his work is like a pile of paper piled together, which has not been folded, he is always half a bottle of water dangling, and he is not professional.

Fortunately, after thinking about it, I decided to do only two things in my life: learn the knowledge of economics and management accounting, and write seriously. If I had been working hard to write and learning what I liked in literature, broadcasting, journalism or directing, then I would have a deeper literary background and attainments than I am now. But now, I'm splitting my energy between two things, and obviously I'm not good enough at either.

People in our country want to climb to the sky in one step, want to buy a house as soon as they graduate, want to work feverishly for 2 years, become a leader, think about a lot of unrealistic things, the age for foreigners to buy their first house is almost forty years old, and the majority of people in our country hope that they will succeed quickly, have a house, a car and love.

As the old saying goes, no one can start a business in an instant when you start a family. Nowadays, more and more people choose to start a business first and then start a family, choose to marry later, get married and have children in their thirties, the impact on adults and children is negative, coupled with environmental pollution, some people are even infertile.

My family, in order to avoid me from taking detours and successfully enter a good industry, let me study an industry that I am not very interested in, however, it is precisely because I have learned this kind of major that I am not very passionate about, and I am far from success.

My dad once said, since you're already good at writing, why can't you put aside your hobby of writing and learn professional knowledge?

You can write at the age of 40! However, if I don't write for twenty years, by the age of forty, I may not really be able to write. People tend to think that what they already have is what they deserve, for example, I can write, but I am not innate, and the writing elf will not be loyal to me without hesitation.

We should choose a career that makes us feel happy, walk slowly on the road of life, everyone can only live once, the same destination, the same worldly ideal of making money, under the premise of the same family background, the same education and the same character, no matter what, we can achieve the goal, there is no need to be earlier than others. If I had figured this out a few years earlier, I would never have studied economics, and if it wasn't for a good job, I would have studied Chinese.

When I was an undergraduate, my family wanted me to join a Big Four accounting firm. In fact, it is very tiring there, there are people who die of overwork every year, and the wage level of the "Big Four" has fallen from high income to medium level. In 1996, the average annual wage of employed persons in Shanghai was 10,663 yuan, and 13 years later, in 2009, the average wage has increased fivefold to 58,336 yuan.

In contrast, the salaries paid by the "Big Four" to junior auditors have only increased by 200 yuan in 13 years.

However, undergraduates with the same or similar major as me still rushed to go to the Big Four, graduate students rushed to go to investment banks, and after the misfortune of Pan Jie, who died of overwork, "many people in PWC, one of the Big Four, where she worked, "had the heart to leave". Hot dancer, pipa player, piano grade 10, high jump champion, debate team member - the young Pan Jie also wanted to find a job "two days a week so that I can go home and cook soup with peace of mind". Who would have thought that after the Chinese New Year, sleeping would become an unattainable thing. After three months of continuous busyness, she passed away with regret.

Therefore, there is no point in overdrawing life. The deceased is long gone, and the living should be long. Learning a major that you don't like to learn and doing a job that you don't like to do is itself overdrawing your life, not to mention that this profession is still so hard?! If you do a job you love, even if it's hard, you'll enjoy it, but what if the job is forced to do it?

That small psychological problem can turn into a big problem. If we don't like to do this work, we will have a wrong understanding of the real intensity of this work, and even if one day the leader does not let us work overtime, we will still feel that this work makes us tired. Once we don't want to work well, we will shirk our responsibilities and run away from reality, because all psychological problems stem from distorting facts.

Freud told us that avoidance is a psychological defense mechanism, but if we try to defend all the time, then we can develop obsessive-compulsive disorder, social anxiety disorder, multiple personality, and even schizophrenia.

Living for a dream is the healthiest, and an important psychological law is that no matter how painful things are, you can't escape them. That being the case, why should we allow ourselves to suffer?

I would like to suggest to the majority of middle school students: you can study whatever major you want to study, and if you are strong in any aspect, you must strengthen it, make it stronger, and make it a career for the rest of your life.

Only in this way can we be happy forever. Otherwise, forcing ourselves to fall in love with a subject we don't like will always go through a long and painful process, and in this process, we will constantly make psychological hints: I don't like this, this is my weakness, and I will never be able to do it well.

A relationship that is both intimate and independent of each other is better than a thousand ordinary relationships. After you pass the college entrance examination, please strengthen and study a strong subject for life, which is better than all-round development. From now on, please live for a dream!

After reading it, I read another article "Sparrows in the Haze".

In the morning, when I was about to walk to the company, I saw a small sparrow, which was holding a french fries in its mouth, flying happily. There are a few of its little friends next to it, walking fast or flying low, and they seem to be looking for food. The little sparrow looks cute when eating, throws it on the ground to eat a bite, picks it up and flies a few steps, and then throws it on the ground, as if it is afraid that its food will disappear in an instant.

Not far from the little sparrows, there is a small fountain in the big hotel, where they can go and drink if they are thirsty.

I think it might not be particularly difficult for a little sparrow to find food in such a metropolis, because there will always be debris around the garbage cans, and garbage cans can be found everywhere. But I'm afraid they'll find it too cold, and I'm afraid they won't be able to adapt to the city's recent heavy pollution.

The smog is getting worse and worse, and even if residents go to work with a tree in their hands, they still feel a dull pain in their noses.

Yesterday, not far from here, in addition to college students, kindergartens, primary and secondary schools have been completely suspended, today's news is that local students who are late or do not go to class are not considered absenteeism, not a violation of discipline.

In the news, it was said that there was a bus driver who drove the wrong road because of the fog, and when I think about it, it was really foggy all the way from southeast to northwest.

When I was a child, the air in the place where I lived was good, the blue sky, the green trees, and the air was fresh every day.