CHAPTER XXXIV
Seeing that my mother was very satisfied with Jack, I was finally relieved, she should not arrange for me to go on a blind date in the near future, and I finally didn't have to report to strangers every time, starting with the first little red flower in my kindergarten.
But, as we talked, Jack suddenly looked at me, and seeing how sad he looked, I knew, yes, he was starting to mutate, no, he was transformed.
I quickly pulled him up and said to my mother, "Mom, let's go to the bathroom." ”
Before my mom could answer, I dragged Jack to the bathroom, and then my mom screamed hoarsely, "Daughter, don't follow your son-in-law into the men's bathroom......"
Mother, do you slander your daughter like this? Your daughter is biological, not a pervert!
I pushed Jack into the men's restroom with a playful look around me, and warned him in a low voice: "Jump out of the window, remember to put away your clothes, don't lose one, especially the underwear, if you lose it this time, I won't buy it for you next time." ”
Jack nodded, looked at his surroundings again, and bargained with me, "Can you not jump out of the window?" I've gained weight lately, and the window is narrower, and I'm afraid I'm stuck. ”
I resolutely refused, jokes, a dog running out of the men's bathroom for no reason, wearing a red bow tie, holding Jack's clothes, anyone would have a lot of doubts. For example, whose dog is this? Whose clothes are you holding? How did he get in? How did he get out? All of this will definitely attract the police, and then look at the surveillance, I just have eight mouths and can't explain it.
Seeing that I came out alone, my mother asked my son-in-law why he hadn't come out yet, had he forgotten to bring the paper?
Mom, he's not your son-in-law yet, and besides, in such a fancy place, you discuss that the toilet without paper will cause people to vomit......
I said that Jack had left beforehand, but my mother didn't believe it, saying that the door was there, why didn't she see Jack go out?
I was stumbling, and my mother suddenly frowned, jumped up and went to the bathroom. I thought my mother was in a hurry to urinate, but after a while, several men came out of the direction of the toilet, all disheveled, carrying their pants, and shouted, "A woman has entered the men's toilet, hurry, get her out!" ”
My mother, who was followed by a depressed woman, saw me and suddenly said with a crying voice: "Daughter, my son-in-law jumped out of the window and ran away, how dissatisfied he is with you......"
I was stunned, and quickly took my mother away from this place of right and wrong, and before I could explain, my mother decided, she would not leave, and she would find her son-in-law for me, when to find it, and when to go back......
I looked at Jack in the distance, and I was very embarrassed, my grandson really couldn't escape the fate of sleeping on the street.
Cohabitation Scene 25:
Regarding white lies, most of us think it's nothing, good intentions, whether he lies or the truth, as long as it is subjectively good, even if I deceive others, but I am not guilty, and some people even feel that white lies are a manifestation of a person's high emotional intelligence. You think, a person can't even tell a lie, what kind of stupid he has to become, after all, if you tell the truth everywhere in this society, it can only show that you are really stupid.
But there were two incidents that changed my mind.
The two couples only have one daughter, love like a treasure, and later poured everything they have, sending her to study abroad, however, there are too many temptations and risks in capitalist countries, this daughter is not tempted, and she avoids risks, and devotes herself to her studies, which can be described as a model of a good student. It's just that a good student may not have a good job, a good job may not have a good future, this daughter can't stand the fate of being unemployed after graduation, and she doesn't want to return to China to face the disappointed eyes of her parents, so she can't think about it for a while, and stands on the roof of a skyscraper.
Before jumping, she hesitated and called her parents. At that time, her parents were in good spirits, saying that they had just finished square dancing and were preparing to make jajanjangmyeon, and asked her how was she doing, and whether the work was going well? If the work doesn't go well, go back to your home country. She said that it was very smooth, she entered a large company, the company's colleagues are very good, the salary is also very high, the bonus is also good, and the leader said that she will be promoted to the head of the department within a year......
The call ended, and both parties were satisfied. She feels that her parents are in good health, have a pension, and the domestic pension mechanism is improving, even without her, they will live well, but if they know that their proud daughter is a failure, and it will drag them down, it is better to ......
So, she jumped down, ninety-nine floors, very fast, and at the moment of a light, there was no Iron Man, Spider-Man.
However, what she didn't know was that her mother was sick because she missed her, and she was calculating her return date every day, thinking that she would be able to return to China after graduation, but her daughter had found a good job, and as a mother, she couldn't stop her daughter's future, let alone drag her daughter back...... However, she would rather her daughter not have a job as long as she returns home.
In the end, when the news of her daughter was sent back to China, her mother also closed her eyes, and the warm family of three fell apart from then on.
I told them about the news, saying that it was this white lie that separated the family that had been living a good life, and that if the daughter and the mother had told the truth, this tragedy could have been avoided. Therefore, white lies can sometimes cost people's lives, and it is a real headache to say or not to say. They scoffed at me and said I was completely confused with the concept, some kind of white lie. It's just an excuse for the tragedy.
Lao Sun said: "Qin Xiaomei, do you know what a real white lie is? It was I who said that you look so good with long hair and look a lot like Kim Hee-sun, but in fact, Kim Hee-sun and you have only one thing in common, and that is gender. I also said that your cooking is better than what is sold in restaurants outside, and you are a master of the hidden kitchen, but in fact, we can't afford to buy food from restaurants outside. I said that you are not suitable for wearing high heels, and you are very temperamental when you wear flat shoes, but in fact, you are only a little shorter than me when you wear high heels, and my manly self-esteem can't stand it...... So, this is a white lie. ”
We collectively "smacked" him.
Jack asked me if I had told a white lie? I thought about it and said, "I don't." ”
They don't believe it at all.
Well, if they knew that the fritters in the morning were leftover the day before yesterday, in fact, the Internet fees were paid annually, and the money they paid on January was actually cheaper than me, and the vase they broke was actually not an antique, but I bought it from Taobao for 150 yuan, and they paid me 1500...... I guess they're going to kill me.
So, I never tell white lies, I just tell the truth.
Some people say that telling the truth is harsh, and white lies not only lubricate relationships, but also boost self-confidence, so why not?
However, there is a mother, her daughter is not very beautiful, in order to build her daughter's self-confidence, she mobilized the surrounding neighbors and relatives, and said to this daughter since she was a child, you are the most beautiful in the whole community, the most beautiful in the whole city, even if the four beauties are unearthed, they are very inferior to you...... Well, that's not what they said, but every time I meet this daughter, I will praise her, it's really beautiful, much more beautiful than xx...... xx is recognized as beautiful, more beautiful than xx, this daughter is very confident, every time she chooses a class to spend a school flower, she feels that she is not as beautiful as herself, because they are not as beautiful as xx, and she is much more beautiful than xx......
Occasionally, this daughter will question why she is so beautiful why she doesn't receive many love letters, and why the girls in the class say that she is ugly and weird? So, her mother said that those boys have low self-esteem and dare not pursue you, while those girls are jealous of you and that you are more beautiful than them......
Until this daughter went to college and fell in love with the school grass, she confessed to the school grass, and was rejected by the school grass again, she said at the time, I am so beautiful, why don't you like me? The school grass left her two words: hehe.
Because of this incident, she became the laughing stock of the people around her, and the people around her gave her a nickname: Snow White. Because Snow White is the most beautiful, and she, although she is an ugly monster, has a heart that feels like she is a beauty.
Later, she jumped off the building, and before jumping off the building, she said that she hated her mother, hated why her mother kept lying to her, hated that she didn't give her a good look, hated that she gave her confidence, but it was fake confidence...... She will not forgive her in this life and in the next......
I think her mother was wrong, this lie seemed to be well-intentioned, but it cost her own daughter's life, so sometimes she had to tell the truth, even if the truth was harsh. Just when I had this idea, my colleague dragged a green dress and asked me if I looked good and did I match her?
I took a look, the dress was beautiful, but on her body, it was like a caterpillar blowing its nose, how ugly it was. So, I hesitated for a moment and said, "It's beautiful, it's a good match for you, it's just tailor-made for you......"
She put it on happily, and then she was ridiculed, so she came to rebuke me, saying that I was so hypocritical, that I didn't even tell the truth, and that I was hurting her......
Later, another colleague just bought a boot and came to ask me how it was, I learned the lesson from the previous time, and said to her sincerely, the boots are beautiful, but they don't match you, your calves are too thick, and this boot completely exposes your shortcomings. The colleague was a little unhappy when she heard this, but she thanked me anyway, saying that I was the only one who told the truth, and she also felt that this boot was not worthy of her.
Later, I listened to her talk about me in the bathroom, saying that I was so low in emotional intelligence that I couldn't even say a good word, which was really stupid.
I'm very distraught.
Jack comforted me that I would not give advice on everything in the future, even if others asked you, you would say that you did not know......
Later, someone came to me and asked me if the movie was good, I said I didn't know, someone asked me if the temperature of the air conditioner was high, I said I didn't know, someone asked me if it looked good to wear red clothes during the holidays, I said I didn't know, some people said, it's a good day today, I said I don't know, uh, it's good......
Later, colleagues all said, what happened to Qin Momo, could it be that he was under too much pressure at work, had mental illness or something?
Damn, I was so miserable by Jack.