Chapter 146: Love

When I was a child, due to the lack of teachers in the school where I worked, my parents had to take a lot of classes every day, and I had to take evening self-study at night, I often followed my parents to their school, sat in the classroom, listened to their lectures, although I couldn't understand anything, but I liked the atmosphere of learning, and sat in a classroom with high school students at night to study, read small picture books, draw some small animals, I felt very happy.

There are many famous quotes posted on the walls of the school, such as "Teenagers are easy to learn and difficult to succeed, and every inch of time is not light", "Teenagers don't know how to study hard, and old people regret studying late", "Threesomes, there must be my teacher; Choose those who are good and follow them, and change those who are not good", every time I walk in the corridor, I always like to stare at these sentences, over and over again, and never get tired of it. When I was two years old, my parents bought me illustrated editions of "Three Hundred Tang Poems", "Three Hundred Song Ci", "General History of China" and four famous books, as well as "Grimm's Fairy Tales", "Hans Christian Andersen's Fairy Tales", "One Thousand and One Nights", "Pinocchio", "365 Nights at Bedtime", "The Wizard of Oz", "The Little Prince", "The Adventures of Tom Sawyer", "Robinson Crusoe", "The Little Princess" and other classic fairy tale books or famous books, and my mother would tell me stories every night, one after another, until I fell asleep. In addition to telling me stories herself, my mother also saved money and bought me hundreds of boxes of stories and music tapes, so that I could immerse myself in the sea of stories every weekend. Gradually, I fell in love with knowledge, reading, and learning.

When I was a child, my parents' salary was not only used for the living expenses of our family of three, but my father also had to support his two younger brothers who were studying, and life was always very poor, the winter in my city was very cold, and fresh vegetables in winter were very expensive, so we only ate radishes and cabbage all winter, and my parents hardly bought me new clothes, and my clothes were all old clothes from my cousin or aunt, and this life did not improve until I was in the third grade. But I never felt poor, because I knew that I was spiritually rich as long as it was the books and tapes I wanted, and my parents didn't buy them for me.

My father's favorite quote is "Xiongguan Mandao is as true as iron, and now we are stepping forward from the beginning". Whenever he encounters a setback or difficulty in his life, he always says these two words, and every time I hear these two words, my heart is filled with strength.

My father never told me about the difficulties of life, from childhood to adulthood, he always cared for me and my mother in every detail, washed dishes, swept the floor, washed clothes and took out the garbage, he did it all in an orderly manner, and the outside things never let me and my mother worry about it, at work, my father always worked diligently, dedicated and dedicated, even if he took more than 30 classes a week, and took chemistry classes in the third year of junior high school and senior high school at the same time, he never complained about being tired, his throat hurt and he was dumb, he continued to attend class after eating a few lozenges, even if there was no overtime pay, he never complained, On the contrary, he said that he couldn't even eat enough when he was a child, but now that he has food and a warm home, he can let more students be admitted to college if he lectures more, how worthwhile it is.

Sometimes, my father will let them come to the house to eat, saying that it is to improve the food for the children in the third year of high school, although my family does not eat well, it is all coarse tea and light rice, but I understand my father's intention, he wants to let these children relax, and at the same time experience the warmth from the teacher, so that the children who leave home can eliminate their insecurity and devote themselves to the intense study without distraction.

It was my father who made me understand what hard work is, what is contentment, what is helpful, and I often think that if people are so innocent, then our society will be full of positive energy, people's lives will be happier, and the country will be more prosperous.

My mother was an optimistic and literary woman, and every time I was unhappy, she could always write a paragraph to comfort me, and there was one passage she wrote well: "Life does not need to be famous in history, just peace of mind and peace of mind; You don't need friends everywhere in life, you just need to know yourself; There is no need for regrets and sorrows in life, just to move forward bravely; There is no need to look forward to life too much, and hard work will be full of flowers. "My mother never buys very expensive clothes and jewelry, but she will spend a lot of money to buy books, she loves to read, read all kinds of books, and also likes to make handicrafts, she is ingenious, the animals and plants made of beads are always lifelike, the Qingming Riverside picture under the cross-stitch is amazing, and the Tiananmen Square woven on the back of the sweater makes me unforgettable for life.

Although she is not a good talker, she always gives people a sense of love and mystery, which makes me feel full of support and protection, and I always discover the wonder of this world.

My parents always supported me unconditionally, whenever and wherever I was. As a child, I was scared to go to kindergarten, and one of the reasons I slept on the top bunk was when I took a nap. Maybe the upper bunk was very short at that time, but for me as a child, the steps leading to the upper bunk were an insurmountable chasm.

I didn't dare to climb up or down, every time I took a nap, I had to go through a huge struggle in my heart, and even if I climbed into bed, the great fear made me unable to sleep, and the two-hour nap time at noon every day was a great pain for me. At the same time, because the bathroom is not on the nap floor, we have to go downstairs first, and then go to the deepest part of a small building outside the building to solve the convenience problem, so the teacher does not allow us to go to the bathroom during the lunch break.

Every day at noon for two hours, I tossed and turned, in addition to being homesick and scared, I just wanted to go to the bathroom.

It didn't take long for me to take it anymore, I told my parents that I didn't want to go to kindergarten, and my parents didn't scold me, nor did they tell me that "if you don't go to kindergarten, you can't go to elementary school", "we are so busy, if you don't stay in kindergarten, no one will care about you", but from that day on, every day at noon, my father would pick me up and go home.

I was not particularly brave by nature, but my parents never felt that this was a shortcoming, whenever I made the slightest progress, my parents always praised me unreservedly, whenever other people asked me how I was studying, my parents always said that I was very good, others asked me if I was well-behaved at home, my parents always said that I was very well-behaved, and my parents' answers made me work harder and try to make my real situation worthy of their expectations. These are all small things, but how many parents can do it?

Not every grass is suitable for the destruction of the wind, some weak grass, a blow will wilt, everyone's personality and qualifications are different, family education needs to be taught according to their aptitude.

At present, I have not yet formed my own family, but I have a grandma in her nineties, grandparents in her eighties, and grandmothers in her seventies, my youngest cousin is only eight years old, and my nephew has just been born for a few days.

I am confident in the future because I know that my extended family will always be my strongest support, no matter where I am.

Each family has its own atmosphere, which is called family style, and if the family style is positive, the family will always maintain vitality. Filled with Haoran righteousness, the whole family will have a high-spirited and upward atmosphere, so that people can live with confidence, even in difficult situations, they can be strong and self-reliant.

The family is the tiniest component of society, and family civilization is not only a projection of social civilization, but also can change the social atmosphere. The construction and inheritance of a good family style is beneficial to the country and the people, every family should be duty-bound to build a good family style and family education, thousands of families, will be condensed into a vigorous force for the revitalization of China, let us start from the family, through a specific thing, for the "my dream" to help, for the "Chinese dream" to help!

After reading it, she read another article called "Shide".

In the blink of an eye, I have been at this school for a year.

Over the past year, every day has been new and special for me.

To this day, those past times are still fresh in my memory.

As a new teacher, I entered the industry with a sense of sacredness and pride.

At that time, two years after graduation, I wandered around the campus, feeling like a student, so I deeply remembered my definition of a good teacher.

In my heart, a good teacher is a teacher with teacher ethics.

Teacher ethics refers to the moral norms and codes of conduct that teachers must abide by in their educational activities, as well as the corresponding moral concepts, sentiments and qualities.

Teacher ethics is the essence of teachers' work, and its connotation can be summarized with "teacher love as the soul, learning from high school as the teacher, and being a model".

First of all, we must love our students; Secondly, we must continue to cultivate our internal skills, thoroughly understand the courses we teach, understand every knowledge point, better teach our students, sublimate our love, and teach the students the knowledge that is poured with love; Finally, we must be upright, upright, do not obey orders, although we do not obey orders, only by teaching by example, treating students equally, knowing honor and shame, being strict with ourselves, leading by example, and having a decent style, can we become a role model for students.

In the minds of students, teachers are the guiding light, and whether they are good students or bad students, they are eager to be affirmed by teachers. Therefore, from the first day of class, I focus on developing students' self-confidence.

Many students have just entered college and have difficulty understanding the major courses. In order to let them better understand the course knowledge and enhance their self-confidence, I try to explain to them in the most simple and easy-to-understand language during class, and after class, I try to study the next day's course and never slack off.

If I feel that some students have difficulty understanding the course, I will find them after class, ask them if they have any doubts, answer them, and reflect on their own teaching shortcomings, so as to teach the course with clearer sentences.