Chapter 5 Delicate and sad
No one knows what Zhou Jiao's grandfather's family thinks, and even grandma talks to grandpa about remarrying her daughter-in-law in private, is she afraid of bringing an oil bottle?
As a result, 16 years have passed, Zhou Jiao's mother still maintains celibacy, and she follows the chaos of the Great Northwest and Qinghai with the regiment year after year, but she does not come to the Great Northeast.
I heard Grandpa Zhou's comrade-in-arms say that the child couldn't get out of the grief of losing her lover, and he had to give her time.
Hehe, then who gave Zhou Jiao time? Who gave her a childhood that lost her father's love and mother's love?
When she was a child, Zhou Jiao's personality seemed to be well-behaved, but in fact, her whole body was full of spikes, she was sensitive and stubborn, she looked at people coldly, and she was also incompatible with the so-called family. Only Zhang Guoqing, who was two years older than her, told her that he could lend it to her own mother.
When she was young, she envied Zhang Guoqing the most, and he was the only one in several nearby villages who was ten years old and still sitting on his father's neck. Even if he made a mistake, his mother still found enough reasons to shirk responsibility, and even if it was crackling, it didn't hurt at all.
The two of them were bullied by children, and their mothers could keep pointing at each other's homes and scolding Kui, until the other party beat the children before leaving. When supplies are scarce, an egg is also very precious, and his mother secretly gives it to him, and he will leave it and stuff it in her mouth.
After going to and from school, regardless of the wind and rain, the cold and heat, they discussed revenge on their cousins at home, except for her grandparents, that is, Zhang Guoqing grew up with her.
Last year, there was a place for everyone to join the army, and she gave it up for her.
She still remembers the sentence: Who will accompany you when I leave? If I leave you like your father, who will really feel sorry for you.
At the age of 16, after finishing junior high school, seeing that her grandparents were getting worse and worse due to the old injuries of the war, she planned to marry Zhang Guoqing.
When she got married, her grandfather handed over Zhou Jiao's father's pension to her, and she didn't expect her grandfather to give it to her when her mother sent her over the years. Her grandfather's eldest son and eldest grandson are the most important in his heart, and no one really arranged for her except for her grandmother and aunt. Even my aunt also wants to rely on her grandfather's family relationship to let her grandchildren become soldiers in the future.
The four children of the uncle's family are all more pampered and domineering than her, and they can't wait for the Lin family to be their grandfather's family, she is not in good health when she is young, and almost all the special offerings milk powder and malt milk essence sent by the Lin family have entered the stomachs of the four of them, and they are raised tall and tall.
When she was 10 years old, she was still as weak as a chicken, and her grandmother couldn't stand it, so her life was better, and she slowly recovered in the past few years.
The honest uncle and the full-eyed aunt have been sucking the retirement pension of the two old people and the child support sent by her mother over the years. It is the eldest grandson who gets married and builds a house, and the second son who marries a high-ranking girl wants to buy three turns and one ring, and even marries a daughter who wants to marry three times and one ring, and the younger son has been in high school and has exhausted his grandparents' savings.
Fortunately, there are only four births, and if there are people like some people, they will be seven or eight, and it is estimated that the bone marrow will be sucked dry.
The grandfather and grandmother of the big family have been assimilated by the rural uncle, and they can no longer see the reserved scholarly family when they were young, but fortunately, the grandmother still taught Zhou Jiao's ancestral medical skills and an embroidery, and only at this time can she find back the shadow of the Huang family in the capital.
Grandpa was satisfied that he could leave her father's pension and hand it over to her. What's more, grandma secretly hid from everyone to give her a small wooden box of jewelry.
Zhou Jiao was really worried that when her grandma went, the bottomless aunt would use tricks to urge her to marry into her mother's family, and no matter how good her grandfather's house was, no matter how good her grandfather's house was, it was not a place she wanted to stay.
Mother Zhang looked at Zhou Jiao worriedly: "Jiaojiao, there are no parents in the world who are not, you have also given birth to a child now, do you think your mother will not love your mother?" Your dad went and your mom couldn't get over this hurdle in her heart.
Your mom is probably afraid to see you think of your dad. Your mother was only 18 years old at the time, and there were some girls who couldn't accept it, and if she really didn't want you, she wouldn't send things and money to your grandmother. ,
We all know that your grandmother's family supports the entire Zhou family across the village, and I estimate that the salary she receives will be subsidized by you. Besides, if your mother hadn't been so affectionate, she would have found someone else to marry. You see that she has an identity and status, and she is still beautiful. I got married and came back with your dad that year, the two of them wore military uniforms to hold a banquet, and the people in the eight villages of ten miles were a sensation, that was really a talented woman, we have never seen such a right.
Later, even the cadres from the township came to the door to eat. After so many years, don't talk about your mother, even we can't think about it, it's a pity.
If they were, you'd be in the city now, and I heard that when you were born, your father sent a telegram saying that he was happy. It's just that my little five sons are blessed to marry you, otherwise you are now older, and you don't have to stay in the countryside to go to your grandfather's house to arrange a job in the capital. ”
Zhou Jiao smiled and said: "It's okay, I don't blame her, I don't even know what she looks like, where to think, even if I meet a stranger on the road."
Besides, let me go to Kyoto in the Lin family is also under the fence, who knows if those aunts are good, my household registration is in the capital, and I didn't see them really come to pick it up.
If you have the heart, why did you go earlier? Tomorrow, I can just say a word to my grandfather. They are connected, and her leader is still my grandfather's old comrade-in-arms. ”
Zhou Jiao hurriedly changed the topic, for her, the original Zhou Jiao's life experience can't affect her, she is now married, has children, a lover, and her own home.
If Zhang's mother is still single when she is old, she will support her. She will definitely send money to this day. As for the rest, I'll wait until we have the opportunity to meet.
I've been dodging for more than 10 years.,It's possible to dodge again.。。 How do you pull out the people who live in your own world? It is estimated that my grandfather's family has also tried various methods.
As for her grandparents, her high-ranking family doesn't need her, they have already provided materials to raise her to grow up, do they have to take her over to live in the compound?
Besides, Lin Lishan, the mother of Zhou in the Beijing courtyard house under her father's name, has been transferred to her name. Who is willing to send someone under the fence.
Maybe in the eyes of the Lin family, their father and daughter are the main reason for her daughter, she should be lucky that Zhou Jiao married Zhang Guoqing, otherwise what should we do if our husband and wife cross over?
Zhou Jiao thought about it, and she still told Zhang's mother earlier, and also revealed some of her thoughts by the way. After thinking about it a few times in my heart, I calculated the next reaction of Zhang's mother.
In order to improve the relationship between her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, she also has to tell her own plans. Besides, as for Zhang's mother's partiality towards their husband and wife, she is not worried that Zhang's mother will be blushing.
The most important thing is that there is too much food and clothing in these years, and it will be eye-catching to send things over for a long time, and the next few years are not very peaceful, and it will save trouble, and after marrying, her mother-in-law's family is where she will live in the future.