(231) Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship

And Zhang Xiyao just smiled, because their elders didn't move, why was she embarrassed to move, so she just sat here like me.

Then we waited until Ling Mo, Ling Mu, and my son were all seated at the table, and then we started.

However, the breakfast table is relatively quiet, so almost no one speaks, in fact, I am used to it, just like Zhang Xiyao feels embarrassed not to speak, she always looks at me.

Fortunately, breakfast was eaten relatively quickly, so after a while, everyone was finished.

After coming to the side, Zhang Xiyao asked me in a low voice, "Are you all so serious about breakfast?" ”

"It's okay, I don't have anything to say in the morning, and everyone has only been awake for a long time, and they don't talk much." I replied.

"Oh my God, I feel so serious, I really don't understand, how did you persevere!" She shook her head and looked at me.

She probably didn't understand, but it was that serious, and then I said, "Don't take it too seriously, I don't usually get up when I don't want to have breakfast." ”

"Is this all right? Won't they talk about you? She asked quietly.

"Why do you want to say that it's my freedom to eat breakfast or not!" I say.

"That's right, but I think it's awkward to live with my elders, I'm going to get married in the future, I don't want to live with my mother-in-law, I'm afraid of conflicts." Zhang Xiyao said.

After hearing this, I glanced at Ms. Gao, "Then what do you think of my mother-in-law?" Is it easy to get along with? ”

When I asked her like this, she also secretly glanced at Ms. Gao, "I think your mother-in-law is okay, I feel very easy to get along with." ”

I nodded, "As long as she likes you, it's easy to get along with, and if she doesn't like it, then it's really okay." ”

I don't need to say anything about this, when He Yan was still there before, she didn't like me very much, and the attitude towards me at that time and now is completely heaven and earth.

"But judging by her attitude towards you, she seems to like you." Zhang Xiyao said.

"I think it's really good for me now!" I smiled and said that I was going to talk to her about the past, but thinking that she was likely to be with Ling Mu, I better not scare her.

"But I think it's better to have a relationship with my mother-in-law, it's better to live separately, after all, the son is a son, and the mother is also a mother, but the daughter-in-law is not a daughter-in-law, so as long as there is a conflict, it is simply a world war." Zhang Xiyao wanted to tell me like a person who had come over.

I was surprised, and then I asked her, "How do you say that you have experienced it, you are quite experienced?" ”

"Isn't that right, my mom and my grandma are just ......" she shook her head before she could finish speaking.

"Is their relationship so bad?" I asked.

"Do you know that feeling of pinching when you meet? And do you know what my dad is most afraid of? She looked at me and said.

I shook my head, "What? ”

"My dad is actually a person who is not afraid of heaven and earth, but the only thing he is afraid of is that when my mother meets his mother, he will be driven crazy." Zhang Xiyao said helplessly.

When I heard this, I wanted to continue listening and asked, "Have you seen it with your own eyes?" ”

"I met once when I was very young, and that time should have been the biggest trouble in our family, my dad took my mom out for a few days and didn't come home." She whispered to me, laughing herself.

"And then? And you? I asked.

"I was thrown at home, anyway, what exactly happened, I don't know, anyway, everything that can fall at home has already fallen, my mother has a temper tantrum, my grandmother is also a temper tantrum, if it wasn't for my father's strength that day, he dragged my mother away, and they definitely fought."

"Is it so scary?" I looked at her in horror.

"Yes, so this is the reason why my dad worked so hard to earn money, that is, he wanted to buy a house outside and move out quickly, and after buying a house, he rarely let my mom and my grandma meet." Zhang Xiyao said helplessly.

In fact, I also know that the relationship between this mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not good, and it is really uncomfortable to live together.

But what about her uncle and wife? I thought about it and asked, "What about Mr. Zhang's wife?" Does she get along with your grandmother? ”

"My uncle has seen the relationship between my mother and my grandmother, so he bought a house first and then got married, and he also talked to her wife from time to time about my mother and my grandmother, so she acted more carefully, and it was still pleasing to my grandmother." Zhang Xiyao said.

After I listened, "That Mr. Zhang and his wife are still quite smart." ”

"That's not it, he doesn't want to go through it anymore, but because of this, my grandmother thinks about their family with all the good things, which makes my mother even more unhappy, especially every year when our family reunites for the New Year, my dad has to do ideological work with my mother at home at least a week in advance, my mother is very impatient to say that he knows, he refuses to give up, especially when he arrives at the door, my dad has to emphasize it before knocking on the door." Zhang Xiyao said that she laughed.

And I want to laugh when I hear it, but it seems that her dad is pretty good.

"I told you later, I found out that in fact, my grandfather also had to do ideological work with my grandmother before the Chinese New Year, just to prevent our mother from fighting with my grandmother during the Chinese New Year."

"I feel that the men in your family seem to be quite good, and they each do their own daughter-in-law's work to avoid family wars." I said with a smile.

She nodded, "So that's why I don't want to live with her mother-in-law." ”

"I've been through you, and I'm sure I don't want to." I agree.

"But it's okay for you to get used to living together." She looked at me and said.

"I didn't actually live with them much, we were going to move back in, but then we hurt our foot and stayed for a while." I say.

Seeing me say that she would move back, Zhang Xiyao looked at me and said, "So you don't have to live together?" ”

I nodded, "Of course you don't have to live together." ”

"That's pretty good, but where's your own home? Far away? She asked.

I thought for a moment, "It's not far away, it's a little far away." ”

"Where the hell is that?" She looked at me speechlessly.

"In Nanshan District, Ling Mo used to be quite withdrawn and didn't like to be too noisy, so he built a house over there." I say.

Hearing me say this, Zhang Xiyao thought for a while and said, "Wait, is this it?" As she spoke, she took out her phone and found something on it, and then found a picture and handed it to me.

I was stunned for a moment after watching it, "Did you shoot it?" ”

"No, last time my friend went there to play, I saw that the flowers inside were so beautiful, I wanted to go in, she thought it was under the management of the scenic spot, but she was stopped, it was a private villa, not close, but she still took a photo, and then you said that I remembered, and I was free to take me to play." Zhang Xiyao looked at me expectantly and said.

Seeing the expectant look on her face, I smiled, "I didn't say it was there!" ”

"From your expression, I can tell that it is there, and besides, there are no other villas in the vicinity except there." She put away her phone and said.

Then I glanced at Ling Mo, who was reading the newspaper on the side, "I'll have to ask him about this, because I don't know when we'll move back." ”

After Zhang Xiyao heard this, "Don't worry, just tell me when you go back and are free." Saying that, she also sighed, "I am really rich, to build such a big castle in that beautiful place, as well as a special meadow, a sea of flowers and a swimming pool, what can I say, I can only envy." ”

Hearing him say this, I suddenly thought that Ling Mu's own home seems to be not bad, although I haven't been there, but I heard Ling Mo say that it is also very big,

After thinking about it, he said, "If you have time to go to Ling Mu's house to play, maybe you will like her family too." I said.

Seeing me say this, Zhang Xiyao immediately understood what she meant, and said, "I'm not particularly familiar with him, how can I go." ”

I smiled, "It's okay to go and see it, maybe I'll live there again in the future." ”

"Sister, can you stop talking nonsense?" She looked at me a little speechless.

"Okay, no kidding, I'm going to hang out with Ling Mo." I say.

"What about me? Shall I go out with you? Zhang Xiyao said with a look that I really wanted to leave.

I nodded, "Yes!" Then he turned his head and shouted to Ling Mu, "Ling Mu, are you okay now?" ”

"No, what's wrong?" He looked at me.

"If it's okay, you can send Zhang Xiyao, she said she wants to go back, she has something at home." I said.

As a result, I looked at Zhang Xiyao, she already looked like she wanted to eat me, and then gritted her teeth and said, "Who asked you to let him give it to me?" ”

"What's the matter, are you having a bad time?" I asked deliberately.

"No, no!" She said in a low voice.

And because of what I just said, Ms. Gao came out, "Xiyao, are you leaving?" After lunch, I'll leave. ”

"No, Auntie, I still have something to do at home, and I have to go to work tomorrow, and the hygiene at home has not been cleaned yet, so I have to go back and clean up." Zhang Xiyao estimated that she really couldn't find an excuse.

But I didn't expect her to say this, Ms. Gao liked him more, "There are really not many girls as diligent as you now." ”

"It's okay, where I live, I don't clean it and no one cleans it." Zhang Xiyao said helplessly.

"Alright then, Ling Mu, you can send Xi Yao back later." Ms. Gao gave orders to Ling Mu.

Although Ling Mu was a little reluctant, he still agreed, in fact, he knew that Zhang Xiyao was left here because of him.

Now the rest is their own business, I went back to my room to get a bag, and then went out with Ling Mo.

Originally, my son wanted to go too, but seeing that we didn't plan to call him, she went back to her room and did her homework.

Driving off, we first went to the playground.

When we arrived, we parked the car and we bought tickets and went in.

Today, Sunday, there will be more people than usual to play, but luckily it's morning, and a lot of people who are going to play haven't arrived yet.