Suppose my brother doesn't pass the exam.

As soon as Huo Changan's words came out, she regretted it first.

The mother finally smiled, and when she asked like this, would she make her mother unhappy again?

However, she really wanted to know why her mother valued utilitarianism so much.

Is it important enough to ignore their emotions, to be able to step on a shattered faith, and to get whatever you sacrifice?

Kim obviously didn't expect her daughter to ask her, "Why do you ask that?" ”

Huo Changan smiled a little embarrassedly: "Uh, that's it, I suddenly thought of it, curious ......"

Jin was silent for a while, then raised his head and beckoned to Huo Changan: "Chang'an, come and sit." ”

How can Huo Changan say a "no"?

She walked slowly, almost stubbornly.

The atmosphere in the comment area of the live broadcast room suddenly became tense.

[Why did Chang'an's mother wave and shout, and the next action in my brain was to slap it]

[Upstairs is too dark]

[I'm going to go, young lady didn't say the wrong thing, don't you give questions]

[But I inexplicably feel that the slap plot is the smoothest]

[Because it is the boss who masters the violence]

[Young lady, don't get too close, wait until you see it and run]

Huo Changan sat down next to the Jin family, not very close, not very far.

The slap that everyone made up in their brains didn't happen.

"If your brother doesn't pass the exam, I will scold him, scolding him severely," Kim first answered his daughter's question bluntly, "Do you know why? ”

Huo Changan lowered his head, and didn't dare to look at his mother, just shook his head.

"If I don't scold you and punish you, if you leave the Huo family in the future, other people will bully you." Kim didn't show any emotion this time.

Whether it is happy or unhappy, there is no emotion, and it is not at all like the usual joy, anger and sorrow are written on the face.

Others will bully them?

Huo Changan was stunned.

Yes, if my brother doesn't pass the exam and leaves the Huo family, a lot of people will laugh at him.

Dad was born in the list back then, and now he is an official of the six departments. The façade of the Huo family is placed here, and naturally there will be people to compare and point out.

And she, how much was she provoked by Shi Wanyue enough? Counting the other warblers and warblers that Mu Boyang was favored by in the previous life, all kinds of moths that came out -

She can still hide, as long as she doesn't enter the palace and doesn't get involved in the struggle for power.

It's a big deal that being ridiculed can't compare to Shi Wanyue, she doesn't care, in terms of intelligence and scheming, she really can't compare, she loves to laugh, so let them laugh.

But my brother has no way out, the manly husband is alive, not to mention making meritorious contributions, not to mention making a name for himself, and not to say anything about sealing his wife and son.

At the very least, you have to be able to get a foothold.

"Mother, I understand this truth," Huo Changan sighed, "but...... But why should it be used this way? ”

This way of hurting them.

And does this way really work?

Are some things really because they don't work hard enough, and can they really change just by working hard?

Take calligraphy and painting as an example, in addition to diligent study and hard practice, calligraphy and painting are also very particular about aura talent, she is indeed inferior to Shi Wanyue in this regard, even if she practices more, that is, she is at the level of a medium-sized person, and it is impossible to be outstanding.

In her previous life, she was in the palace, and every step she took was so difficult. Could it be that she didn't work hard enough? As soon as you enter the palace gate, it is as deep as the sea, winning or losing is life and death, who will not fight hard under the weight of death?

Jin's words were very cruel: "How to treat you, I can choose the way, but out of the gate of Huo Mansion, everyone else will treat you in the most cruel way." ”

Huo Changan sighed slightly.

Everything my mother said sounded right, but it was very sad.

The truth is always brutal.

[Why do I feel that Chang'an's mother understands the law of the jungle very well]

[The law of the jungle is right, you can press to death from a young age, and something will happen]

[Beating is necessary, but you have to point out the way, if you fall, at least teach how to get up, how not to fall next time]

In the comment area, a large number of people came out to brush up on the concept of education.

Huo Changan didn't know if what his mother said was right, but Huo Changan felt that it shouldn't be like his mother.

Perhaps, as one of the comments said, hitting is one thing, but you also have to tell them how to not fall in the future, or this road just doesn't work, can you take another way.

Kim seemed to begin to recall: "In the past, your grandfather's family was also a famous family in Gangbuk Province, and I was very young at that time, but something happened to my family. ”

"Because he offended the chief official of Jiangbei Province, your grandfather was framed and imprisoned, and the family's land and property were confiscated, leaving the sacrificial field, which could not be confiscated according to the law, and reluctantly stayed."

"The people who should be dismissed have been dismissed and can't afford to raise them. In the end, we are left alone. The side branches that had the ability to make a living also ran away and left Jiangbei Province, fearing that they would stay and be implicated. ”

"So, your grandmother took me and my two younger brothers and started from scratch. I have tried everything to make a living, and I have thought about how much I want to earn my family business, all in order to survive. ”

"Fortunately, God favored it, and finally opened a way in the duck egg business. It just so happened that the term of office of the chief official in Gangbuk Province expired and he left, so that we could spend money to ransom your grandfather. ”

"It's a pity that I have been imprisoned for many years, and my body and bones have long been gone. I didn't have a good life for two years when I came back, so I went. Your grandmother has also suffered many disasters and illnesses because of her years of hard work. ”

"I didn't tell you about these things before, because you didn't feel anything about them. If you don't experience it yourself, how can you understand the pain, at most you should listen to the story. ”

It's just a few words, but after really experiencing it, I know that when people don't go well, every day is as difficult as a lifetime. When you see the end of your life, you wish you could live one more day. ”

The corners of Huo Changan's lips floated with a slightly astringent wry smile.

She couldn't understand this truth better!

Maybe the eldest brother and the younger brother will not understand, but she is the one who has really experienced it.

Therefore, because my mother understands what it is like to be bullied, she attaches so much importance to fame and fortune, so she should do whatever it takes to fight for which one to win?

Huo Changan muttered: "It's just that sometimes, if you exhaust your mental strength and sacrifice everything, you may still be defeated in the end......

Kim's answer was categorical: "But if you don't fight, you'll never see a win." ”

Huo Changan smiled bitterly, she didn't want to change her mother, decades of experience can't be changed in a few words.

It's just that only she can decide how to go on her own path, even if others want to work hard, they may be able to help her for a while, but they can't help her for a lifetime.