1. The mountain rain is coming, and the wind is full of buildings
"How far can you go for the people you love the most?"
Not long ago, I received such a message in my mailbox for some reason, and the content was just a few words. Looking at the sender, I wasn't impressed. At the time, I thought it was probably a mistake, or it was just some boring spam ads, so I didn't pay much attention to it.
But how could I have thought that such a message would completely devour my life in the future, like a poisonous weed growing madly in the underworld.
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I'm a first-time mom working for a construction company as a department manager, or more precisely, a former position. When I returned to work four months after giving birth, I had naturally gone from manager to assistant.
And the little girl who had been in the company for less than a year when the child was full moon and bought things to visit me has now become my top boss.
Pregnancy in October and childbirth once made me upgrade to a happy mother, but also made my years of work almost go to waste.
But even so, when I saw my lovely child, I felt that it was all worth it. I believe that as long as you are willing to work hard, there will always be a turnaround.
What gives me more headache right now is another thing.
My husband and I met when we were in college. After he graduated two years before me, the two of us agreed that we would not go back to our respective hometowns and would settle down in the university city.
He was very competitive and admitted to the civil service, but not in this city, but in a small county town.
After working for several years, it took a lot of effort for him to finally be successfully transferred back from the county, ending the tormented days of our long-term separation.
After that, the two used the little savings they had saved over the years to make a down payment on a commercial house, and then roughly renovated it, so that they finally had a formal nest, and the wedding was simply done.
Two years after marriage, the little life we had been looking forward to finally fell to the ground.
Even though I was exhausted, when I saw my baby for the first time and held her to my chest for the first time, I was moved to cry and laugh for the first time, and I will never forget it.
However, I didn't wait long for me to immerse myself in this joy, and a very real problem was put in front of me: the mortgage and the car loan that I only came in at the beginning of the year had to be repaid, and I didn't have much savings at present, so I had to go to work as soon as possible, so who would take care of the child?
Ask a nanny, money aside, look at those babysitter abuse videos on the Internet and we panic. My mom died of illness when I was very young, and my dad remarried, so he didn't have time to take care of me.
In the end, with my husband's proposal and insistence, we took his parents from his hometown in the north.
To be honest, I was a little worried at first, after all, my husband and I have lived alone for so many years, and we have long been accustomed to the freedom of the two of us.
But as soon as I saw my mother-in-law just entered the house, she put down the big bags of local products brought from her hometown, hugged the child affectionately and happily, and thanked me for adding prosperity to the family, and asked my husband to treat me well in the future. I immediately felt that I was really worried.
After having my mother-in-law, I really felt a lot easier. Doing housework, helping to take care of my confinement, cooking, she is thoughtful and meticulous. At that time, I was still glad that I was really lucky to meet such a good mother-in-law.
Of course, my daughter-in-law also has the appearance of a daughter-in-law, treat them politely and respectfully on weekdays, and after the confinement I share the housework with my mother-in-law, often take the two elders out for a walk, and buy some clothes or nutritional products every other day to honor them. Even my husband said that he was relieved to see that I got along so well with my in-laws.
I thought that the days would be so happy to spread out, but I forgot that there is another sentence:
The road knows the horsepower, and the people will see it for a long time.