11. The mountain rain is coming, and the wind is full of buildings
The reason is that the baby is constipated, and the hospital said that it was caused by improper addition of complementary food.
At that time, I learned that although my mother-in-law agreed on the surface, but in private she was still afraid that the child would be hungry and not grow up, so she secretly fed a lot of food.
Before I could talk about my mother-in-law, she jumped out first and said that the problem was my milk, and that my genes were not good, and that the child was a bad stomach disease brought about by the mother's womb.
The doctor saw that my mother-in-law kept chattering, and saw that I looked helpless, so he kindly reminded my mother-in-law, saying that after giving birth, you can't ignore your mother's condition, both physical and psychological, otherwise it is easy to suffer from postpartum depression.
Regardless of this, my mother-in-law immediately woke up from a dream, and as soon as she returned home, she hyped up that my previous temper was due to postpartum depression. She also said that my symptoms were exactly the same as what she had seen in the so-called magazines.
Seeing that her husband didn't think so, she moved out of those magazines that said that there would be terrible consequences of suffering from this disease, one by one. What is indiscriminately angry, has a strange personality, abuses children, and even kills children and commits suicide.
In the end, I don't forget to count the current women are really delicate, and they can still be depressed even if they have a child. How hard they worked at that time, it was not easy and so on.
And after that, whenever I took the baby with me, she was nervous and watching. She wouldn't even let me take the baby with me in the bath. All day long, she kept babbling and asking me to wean quickly, so that she could lead the child to sleep.
In her eyes, I became a big bad wolf at all, not a child's mother. Her complaints and dissatisfaction with me have also intensified, and sometimes I really feel that in her eyes, I am wrong to even take a sip of water.
And in order to prevent her from adding complementary food again, I hurriedly came back to feed the child at noon, often touching her little belly, and immediately finding the reason if something was wrong.
And so the quarrel between us just got bigger and bigger.
My husband said a few words for this at first, but after a long time, I guess it was annoying. simply excused himself by saying that the company was working overtime and didn't come back until late every day.
When I came back, I also played games until midnight. During this period, as long as I said a few words to him, he would get angry at me, saying that he worked hard enough, why should he deprive him of even a little hobby? He also said that he didn't gamble or prostitute, he just played games, and I should be content.
There were many times when I came back drunk, and after entering the house, I cried so hard that I was urinating, do you know how difficult it is for him to be caught between me and my mother-in-law? also said that other people's daughters-in-law can get along with their in-laws, why can't I?
His tears still hurt my heart a little at first, but then I saw more and more numbness. In the future, as long as he is so drunk again, I will directly hold the baby and dodge away, and let his mother come to serve.
Every now and then, I inevitably have to be taught a lesson by my mother-in-law, saying that it was because I didn't know how to please her son that he was so drunk.
What broke me the most was that even if I didn't talk to her, she would be able to stay in front of our bedroom door and scold herself for more than an hour.
I just took it silently, watched, and thought.
What the hell should I do?