Yu Jin nodded in acknowledgement, and Mama Gui hesitated for a moment and continued to say unceremoniously: "You eat fast, too much, too salty, and more meaty, and you like dishes with heavy flavors, and you don't let Yahuan serve the cloth vegetables." Other ladies will sit at the dinner table and wait for the maid to serve, and the maid will have the maid ring to serve the rice and vegetables, and the lady will not stretch out her chopsticks to pick up the vegetables on the plate, let alone eat pickles. Because she eats salty and eats a lot and has to go to the toilet, it is inconvenient for the girl to go out to the toilet, so she will not eat pickles and drink tea. “

Yu Jin nodded and was taught, lamenting in her heart that the full man did not know that the hungry man was hungry. Running around on the rivers and lakes to be hungry for a full meal, fortunately the master will make some kinds of pickles to season, otherwise how to feed so many mouths. She has to face a lot of difficulties, and she has to spend a lot of energy to practice literature and martial arts, practice skills and piano, and never go hungry when she can eat enough, of course, pick up what can resist hunger and eat with thick taste. How to practice martial arts without eating, that is physical work, can you not eat fast when time is tight, otherwise you don't know when you can eat the next meal.

Mama Gui looked at Yu Jin's face, and decided that since she had said it, she simply finished speaking: "You walk with a big step, you are tall yourself, if you take a fast step and follow the nobleman, it is easy to step on the skirt and hit people because you can't hold your steps." The ladies wear long skirts and have jade ornaments that press the skirt to fly, they walk very steadily without shaking or shaking, and there will be no jade jewelry colliding jingle sound, you will definitely not be able to walk. The old slave was appointed by the old lady to serve the eldest lady, and the old lady said that the bad habits of the eldest lady should be changed, and the old slave may not be treated by the eldest lady, so please take more care of the eldest lady. Mama Gui respectfully apologized.

Yu Jin's face turned red when she was said, she smiled embarrassedly and helped Mama Gui up and said, "Mama, don't give me a salute in the future, you are a powerful old man in front of your grandmother, don't call yourself an old slave in front of me." I will respect Mama according to the etiquette of the elders, please just bother to guide Yujin, Yujin will not embarrass Mama. “

Mama Gui secretly breathed a sigh of relief, she was most afraid that Yu Jin would be smart and not be taught, and she was completely relieved when she saw Yu Jin's sincere attitude.

Mama Gui was as kind as a stream, and immediately changed her words to call herself, she said: "Miss, I see that you often send food to people, I am very worried that something will happen to you, and I often sweat in my heart. The noblewomen and ladies who live in the compound will not easily give imported things to others, let alone eat the food sent by others, do you know why? “

Yu Jin was a little surprised and asked, "Why is this, aren't people close to each other giving each other something to eat?"

Mama Gui nodded and agreed: "What the eldest lady said is right, it should be the case in principle." However, if someone makes a mistake with it, poisons the food you give, or gives you medicine that causes infertility and miscarriage, how can you tell that you did not give the poison to you! The women who live in the compound, everyone has a lot of hearts, you don't hurt others, and if you get in the way of others' eyes, some people will harm you. “

It's not that Yu Jin hasn't heard the master say this, but she just didn't expect it to have something to do with her, "Mama, isn't it only Gong Dou who is like this, is it possible that the backyard of a wealthy mansion is also so powerful?" “

Mama Gui said firmly: "That noble girl didn't learn a few tricks from her mother before she got married, such as your mother, you must think that she is very sincere and will not fake and harm others, why don't you want to think about why Aunt Meng and Aunt Ding have only one child!"

Yu Jin looked at Mama Gui speechlessly, Mama Gui said disapprerovingly: "Don't look at me, your mother was born in the General Zhuguo Mansion, and the old General Zhuguo's wife is a person who doesn't rub sand in her eyes, what if she is unwilling, it's not because she gave birth to two daughters and was suppressed by her aunt for three years, until she gave birth to your uncle, the situation was better." Because the old Zhuguo general had no rules, his favorite concubine gave birth to the eldest son of your grandmother first, and your grandmother even gave birth to two daughters who were not treated by her mother-in-law in the house, at that time, the old Zhuguo general was only the son of a petty official family, and was not knighted, your grandmother was already very aggrieved, she summed up the lesson and let her daughter suffer again, and she must give some pressure to her daughter. Therefore, your mother will not allow your aunt to gain face, give each of them a son, and then sterilize her, so that your aunt will not be on her nose and face because she has many sons and daughters. “

Yu Jin asked worriedly, "What about my grandmother, has she ever done this?"

Mama Gui smiled and said: "Your grandmother has been decisive in her life, she married your grandfather at a low price, and was favored to give birth to three sons and two daughters. Later, your grandfather was rescued from hiding due to battle injuries, and he gave birth to your fourth uncle and fifth uncle when he was out to save his life, and your grandmother and your grandfather had a very unpleasant quarrel! You should know what those two concubines are like.

You are very lucky, Zhu Gongzi is willing to swear in front of the emperor and the envoys of the two countries to marry you only in his life, that is just an oath, don't take it seriously. If the man's vows are counted, there are happy women everywhere, and resentful women from there. Is there a young man who is not riding a horse and leaning on the bridge, full of red sleeves. There are a few people who are truly not tempted. Haven't you heard that the peasants overcharged three or five buckets and still want to change wives and buy concubines! If you want a man to pass through the thousands of flowers, the leaves will not stick to the body, unless there is a habit of broken sleeves, it is impossible at all. “

Yu Jin said in her heart that if the man she married was a man with broken sleeves, she might as well be a playboy! At least the latter knows how to love women, and the former is more annoying to not touch women at all. She smiled bitterly and asked, "Is there really no one who exists for a lifetime, can't you live without fighting or fighting?"

Mama Gui persuaded bitterly: "Can the eldest lady find this example in this dynasty, how many arrogant young ladies want to monopolize the favor of their husbands, but after three or five years, they have not been defeated by newcomers." If the housewife is weak and not favored by her husband, she will have nothing to do in her life, and there are not a few who are old and lonely. “

Yu Jin's eyes turned to Yue Zhenzhen on the side, and her heart moved, Mama Gui enlightened her like this, she wouldn't have the idea of letting Yue Zhenzhen be Zhu Yuchen's concubine!

Mama Gui is old and refined, and immediately understood what Yu Jin was thinking, and she said firmly: "Don't worry, eldest lady, Zhen Zhenning is a small wife and not a big concubine, how big a bowl to eat, and she won't think about things that don't belong to her." If you don't have this determination, your grandmother will not send her to serve you, I just hope that the eldest lady can point her to a good family.

I just told the eldest lady so much, just to let you understand that the backyard is not a river and lake, and you can draw a knife to each other without saying a word. Living in the backyard relies on scheming and means, to see whose wrists are hard rather than fists, and everything must be taken into account. Sometimes you have to smile when you face your enemies, and you may speak ill of your friends.

To live in the circle of noblewomen is to learn to adapt to the circle, not to be excluded, and you will be constrained everywhere. You can't just stay in the backyard and live a completely closed life, you will participate in whoever gets married, marries a daughter, celebrates a birthday, mourning, etc., interpersonal relationships are very complicated, no friends mention each other, you may be guilty of a mishandled husband and children in vain, aren't you afraid? “

"Mama, I'm already scared when I hear you say this, please take out the ability to press the bottom of the box and teach me how to do things, I don't ask for harm but only for self-protection." Yu Jin solemnly saluted and begged.

Mama Gui helped Yu Jin up, and said in a serious voice: "Mama doesn't want you to hurt people, because your grandmother admired you so she sent me over, I'm over sixty years old, I didn't want to worry about it anymore, your grandmother asked me to support you because I saw that you were a manufacturable material." Remember the saying that if you are not careful, you will lose everything.

Because of your negligence, mentioning the second brother a word less, it may bring disaster to the Yue family. Recklessly, the consequences are unimaginable. Your grandmother wants you to take on the burden of protecting the family, she has worked hard for the Dingyuan Marquis Mansion for decades, and how many ups and downs have she gone through to get to where she is today. Although you are the daughter of the Yue family, you are meticulous and do not lose to men, who said that women in the backyard can't strategize and win thousands of miles. Your grandmother's chess pieces were never white. “

Mama Gui was very proud, the brilliance on her face at this moment made Yu Jin have an illusion, she seemed to be a military advisor who shook a feather fan and commanded thousands of troops, not a mama hiding in the backyard.

On the day of the Shangyuan Festival, Zhu Yuchen happily came to Yue's mansion, sent Changhe into the backyard to spread the word, and invited Yujin to visit the lanterns on the Shangyuan Festival, but was directly rejected by Gui Mama.

Yujin began to renovate her life in the backyard, because her skin was rough and dark, and she was not allowed to eat pickles or drink tea; Because there is no waistline, a wide belt is tied; Because of his fast walking, his head is surrounded by pearls and greenery; In particular, the phoenix hairpin rewarded by the Empress Dowager is inserted on the head, and if it falls, it will be a big crime of disrespect and will be killed. Yu Jin can only keep one step without stepping on an ant, and move the lotus step lightly.

During the meal, Zhenzhen was beside the dishes, and she kept whispering: "Miss, your mouth is too open."

"Miss, your spoon can't make a sound."

"Miss, you can only clip a bean sprout with vegetables."

"Miss, you can't gnaw bones, you should wait for me to help you pick bones..."

It's like a soul, and Yu Jin is called big. In this way, it is okay to let her eat full, but only sixty percent full is not allowed to eat, and it is easy to gain weight if she is full.

After eating, he was not allowed to go out of the house, and he replied that he should cover his face with dark skin. You have to be served in a thatched house, you have to be served by washing your hands, you have to be on duty at night when you sleep, and you are not allowed to do it yourself when you take a bath...

Yu Jin was going crazy, and scolded in her heart, this aristocratic life is simply not a human life, there is no privacy at all, and there are maids waiting for every step. However, it's really not good not to wait, the things on the head and body are very heavy, and the movement is loud and clanging.

Leng Hui was not spared, like the four little girls in Anxin, she was repaired by Mama Gui under various guidance every day, she simply walked and sat crookedly, and there was no correct place on her body, which made Leng Hui cry bitterly, and secretly complained to Yujin, saying that Mama Gui was so picky that she couldn't even walk now.

Yu Jin was hungry and wanted to eat a small stove, because Bai Zhao was ordered to cease fire because he went out to run errands, and received food from the big stove every day.

Under the guidance of Mama Gui, the dim sum made by the big stove became smaller and smaller, and the round orange cake made was only bigger than the thumb, and it was required to be eaten in three bites. Yu Jin often bites her fingers. Because the dim sum is too small, you have to your orchid fingers and pinch it, which is not enough for Yu Jin to eat in one bite, and Mama asks for three times before she is allowed to eat it, which is really sad.