Chapter 097: The Way of Husband and Wife Getting Along
Li Hongmei was silent, not because she didn't want to comfort her, but because she didn't know what to say. 1357924?6810ggggggggggd
After all, her understanding of Liu Zhuang and Luo Hanxiao and his wife is almost zero.
Luo Hanxiao seemed to have been holding back for a long time, and he couldn't find someone to talk to, so he didn't wait for Li Hongmei to ask, so he said it to himself.
"Good sister, do you say this person...... When I married him, my family was okay. But afterwards, I found out that Zi'an's father was really just a useless existence. He's a nice guy out drinking and chatting with people or something.
However, financial management, as well as management and the like, is not at all. At that time, I gave birth to Zi'an, and the family property was almost lost by the child's father. If this continues, what will happen to me and my children?
There was no way, I was only a full moon after giving birth, so I began to run around outside, begging around, just to let someone do business for our Liu family.
I finally took the second order of business, but I didn't dare to let the child's father manage ......"
Li Hongmei stretched out her hand and gently held Luo Hanxiao's hand. This strong woman was trembling all over her body at this moment, and her eyes were full of tears.
"Sister, I can imagine what kind of strength you used to fight and fight in order to survive and prevent your children from falling to the point of misery."
Luo Han let out a long sigh with a smile, clapped her hands weakly, and raised his head, "Well, afterwards, little by little, bit by bit, we can still get out of this difficulty."
In this process, although the child's father occasionally pulls his hind legs, in general, it is also good.
The two of us were running around outside, busy, and we were barely a couple of women and husbands. It's just that a big family like the Liu family, if there are no descendants next to them, it will always arouse the covetousness and criticism of others......"
Luo Han smiled and shook his head, and her tears were forced back.
At this time, there are many people in the family who want their children's fathers to recognize their godsons, and those uncles and brothers and the like all want to stuff their children in. At this time, even Zi'an's body was affected a little. If you hadn't noticed it early, I'm afraid that the child would have been poisoned and died! ”
Li Hongmei's whole body was stuffed when she listened.
Speaking of which, the whole thing is a typical harem battle drama, if you watch a TV series, you will feel that it is a kind of enjoyment, but listening to Luo Hanxiao's personal experience...... But my heart was congested. In order to support a family, in order to protect her sick son, a woman couldn't take care of the others, and finally sacrificed so much, and there was a fire in the backyard...... Fortunately, Zhao Dashan of her family only has a superb brother like Liu Baocai, if it is a big family, how to deal with this day.
In the end, Zi'an's grandfather proposed that Zi'an have to have another younger brother, so if he doesn't succeed, he will take a concubine. This matter was also forcibly carried out by Zi'an's grandmother, and she began to look for a beautiful girl who could give birth in the village near Liu's house. I had no choice but to be forced to agree to let Liu Changxing take two concubines. ”
Li Hongmei's heart sank when she heard this, and she looked at Luo Hanxiao's big smile, and she felt so sad inexplicably. This shows that the family is red and black-faced, and Luo Hanxiao is smiling!
What about strong women in this era, because they take care of their careers, but they don't take care of their families, so their in-laws don't tolerate it, and their husbands don't like it. Such an ending, will one day also be hers.
Seeing that Bidu had been, inexplicably, Li Hongmei panicked.
"I originally thought that it was just three concubines who were randomly recruited, but who knows, once by accident, I learned a news that made me angry and shocked. That is, he, Liu Changxing, has long had an affair with two of these three girls. Moreover, one of them quietly gave birth to an illegitimate son outside. Hehe...... You say, you say, how could I have been mistaken for the concubine who was forced to accept it by Liu Changxing. It turns out that these things are designed by a family! What forced me to admit my stepson, that is, to wait for me to agree to take a concubine. Speaking of this, Luo Hanxiao's tears rolled down.
Li Hongmei took a deep breath, "Sister Luo, what should you do?" ”
"What should I do?" Luo Hanxiao sneered, "After learning the truth, I sent all the two concubines in a fit of anger." As for the other person's child...... What else can I do? You can't drown that bastard. Now, the child is with Zi'an's grandmother. Every time I look at that milk doll, my heart is blocked. Because of this incident, our husband and wife turned against each other, and the grandparents of the children regarded me as unfilial. Good sister, where I am in the family now...... It's worrying......"
In the end, Luo Hanxiao's tears rolled down. Looking at the teardrops on the back of her hand in a daze, Li Hongmei's whole body was cold.
It turned out that the world was more cruel and realistic than she imagined.
Children and offspring are so important in the eyes of these people. No matter how strong you are, if you don't have good offspring, you are blind.
"Sister Luo, obviously you can raise another child, why don't you stop fighting on your own?"
Luo Han shook his head bitterly with a smile, and suddenly lifted his shirt.
In her lower abdomen, there was a deep scar there.
"This scar was cut off horizontally by someone in order to block the child's father's knife. From now on, I will not be able to have another child. ”
This time, Li Hongmei was completely speechless.
"Don't mention it, we're happy to meet today, I like you very much. I feel that my family coming to you may be good for healing. Although the medicine prescribed by the divine doctor has been effective after drinking, Zi'an has been weak for so many years after all, and I have to take care of it for a while. You're quiet here, and I look good. ”
At this time, Li Hongmei knew that as soon as she carried the letter, Luo Hanxiao hurriedly came. One is to investigate the tea thing.
The second is to find a place for her own son to maintain his health.
Li Hongmei shrugged, "You also saw it, we are in the mountains, if you don't dislike it, let Ling Gongzi come." Anyway, I've got a bastard here who I've kept here with a Lai Pi Lai face. The room, there is also redundancy, that is, the aspect of food, it is estimated that it will be a little difficult. After all, it's not too convenient to eat in this mountainous area. ”
Luo Han smiled and clapped his hands, "This relationship is good, the things in my family, because of these small things, are constantly guarded against." Even if those people mess around, most of the family's property in the end is my child's. So no matter how much they toss, it's just some superficial things. ”
Seeing Luo Hanxiao's thoughtful appearance, Li Hongmei was also relieved in her heart.
Obviously, this woman has been wandering outside for a long time, and she also knows how to seek a way out for herself.
When he sensed the danger, he hid some deeds and shop deeds and the like. I'm afraid that even some liquid assets are hidden by her.
"Sister Luo, we don't want to worry about these things, let's have a good day with you today, and tomorrow, let's start to throw off our arms and strive for the future. Without men, the earth would turn the same. Without men, our days will be the same, haha......"
Luo Hanxiao was amused by her, and casually talked about Zhao Dashan.
Knowing that Zhao Dashan actually went outside to pick up work and help people build houses to do such hard work, Luo Hanxiao was a little shocked.
"Big sister, why do you have to toss your own man? With your cleverness, how can you find some decent things to do outside, why do you still let Dashan do those jobs? ”
Li Hongmei shook her head, "Sister, although my family's mountains are also smart. But he didn't have a long-term economic concept. There is no long-term vision for development or anything like that. Forcibly squeezing him into the business industry, I'm afraid it's not too appropriate. It's the work of these farmers he is familiar with. For example, when it comes to building a house, Dashan is very good at it. He knows how to get a job, how to do it better.
I don't beg him to make too much money, I just hope that he can give full play to his own characteristics in the field he is good at, and break out of his own sky, which is enough. ”
Luo Hanxiao was a little stunned, "What do you mean, you don't expect the mountain to develop in great strides, just like now, as long as you do what you are good at, it is enough?" ”
"Well, why do I have to think that those big shopkeepers outside are good, so I must let Dashan follow to be the big shopkeeper? Those who are officials are good, do you say, I also want Dashan to be an official? ”
Luo Han smiled and frowned, "Don't people all climb to a good place, is it possible, you still don't want your husband to have a chance?" ”
By this time, Li Hongmei knew the contradiction between Luo Hanxiao and Liu Zhuang.
"Sister Luo, I think you must have been pointing at Lord Liu Zhuang before, so you would always pull him in the direction of a strongman. But in the end, Master Liu couldn't complete your goal, let alone meet your expectations, so in the end he was a little embarrassed. With you, it's just barely coping, right? ”
Luo smiled and thought deeply.
"It seems like this. In the early days, because I wanted to build him as the owner, I have been trying to make him develop with people from outside. When I gave birth to my son, I let him go outside to do those business things. In the end, he did these things very unsatisfactorily, and almost lost the manor. If it weren't for that, how could I have jumped into business after the full moon? ”
Li Hongmei took her hand and went up the mountain.
Pointing to the sparse homes at the foot of the mountain.
"Sister Luo, do you think that such a random house has more natural colors, or build all these houses in a bunch, the planning is excellent, and it looks beautiful, but is there still a natural feature?"
Luo Han smiled and looked at it, and smiled, "What you are talking about, of course, is such a natural construction with natural characteristics." If you deliberately build it, what is the difference between it and creating a delicate and beautiful back garden? ”
Li Hongmei nodded vigorously, "So, do you think that you have to devote yourself to making your owner the person you want, isn't this forcing him to be difficult." The way for husband and wife to get along is that one party has to forcibly change the other. Let him give full play to his strengths and make a career he likes, which can make the relationship between husband and wife last longer than creating something difficult for him. I think there is no great reserve between you and Master Liu, on the contrary, you have an emotional foundation. It's just that all your emotions in the back have been wasted by the years......"
Luo Hanxiao looked at her in shock, and then glared at the village below. His face was a little moved......