a)

Before Wen Zhu went through the divorce procedures, Chen Meijuan promised Wen Yuanfang to persuade Zhu Yuliang, but she only told Zhu Yuliang the fact that Wen Yuanfang had gone to Jiyang Middle School to find her, and did not bother to persuade peace.

Chen Meijuan knew that this little sister next door, who was even closer than her own sister, had made up her mind to do something that ten cows couldn't pull back. Moreover, in Chen Meijuan's concept, marriage is originally a contractual relationship; It's just that this kind of contractual relationship is a legal relationship certified by the state and the government, and it cannot be dissolved casually, but it must be dissolved, and it can be dissolved as long as one party wants to do so. Therefore, divorce is not something that the sky has fallen, let alone something that is against the grain.

On the night of the power outage, it is usually the time when Zhu Yuliang, Brother Zhiguo, and Sister Meijuan drink tea, eat melon seeds, and chat around the kerosene lamp. On the eve of Zhu Yuliang's divorce, the three had a chat at Cai's house.

Cai Fuguo: "I don't want Yuliang to divorce in my bones, which brother doesn't want his sister to live a happy and complete life?" But I also respect Yuliang's wishes, and the marriage that I feel bad will barely survive, and both parties will suffer for a lifetime. No matter what, I am on my sister's side, and I will always be a strong support and backing for my sister. ”

Chen Meijuan: "It's good for you and Wen Yuanfang to be separated for a while, distance will produce beauty." When the divorce is divorced and both parties are free, try to see if you love each other more or hate each other more; In this way, both parties can precipitate their emotions and needs, and it is not too late to decide whether to remarry or not. ”

Zhu Yuliang: "Tell my brother and sister frankly!" Wen Yuanfang is my first love and the only man I have so far, and it is self-deceptive to say that I don't love him. Although we didn't have too many flowers before we got married, we also had a very warm and romantic love memory after we got married.

But since giving birth to Jingjing, my passion for him has lost a little bit after every time we get together. In this way, our love nutrients are exhausted, and in the end, only the shell of a marriage remains. Now, I don't want this shriveled and boring shell anymore.

Perhaps according to Sister Meijuan's theory, the flower of our love withers before the family affection is cultivated, which is the worst fate of love, so this marriage is difficult to continue. And family affection is based on kindness or blood; I don't think Wen Yuanfang has any kindness to me, even if I owe him something, it is more than enough to pay him back. He keeps saying that he owes me, so please ask him to make it up to me! If one day I feel that I owe him again, maybe I will agree to remarry him. ”

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(b)

Before Wen Yuanfang asked Chen Meijuan to help persuade peace, he also found Li Fan and Liu Yuelan and asked them to persuade Zhu Yuliang to give him a chance to save his marriage.

When Li Fan heard the news, he was shocked and puzzled. He asked, "How did you get to this point of divorce?" Haven't you always had a good relationship? Yuelan was still very envious of your sweet love? Oh, you are now my direct leader, I still call you 'Lao Wen' by the original name! Ha ha! ”

Wen Yuanfang smiled bitterly: "Lao Li! Which of us is with whom? Alas – we also came to this point unconsciously. After all, I haven't cared enough for Yuliang for so many years, and I can't blame her. I just want everyone to help me convince her that I can't afford to lose her and my daughter. If I didn't have their mother and daughter in my life, I don't think it's interesting to live. ”

Liu Yuelan said bluntly: "Old Wen! Do you regret it now? It is not good for a husband and wife to live apart for too long. You are now the leader of Lao Li, don't blame me for speaking straight! Home is home, and home is not a place where positions, principles, politics, and consciousness are spoken. Home is a place where feelings are spoken, and when you feel good, two people can live by; I don't feel good, even if all the reason in the world is taken up by you, people still refuse to live with you. ”

"Dr. Liu is absolutely right! I didn't realize this before, I always felt that a manly husband can't be burdened by the love of his children, he should go beyond the small family and take the world as his own responsibility...... Now that I think about it, it's still not realistic enough. Since I love Yuliang, I should take care of her rhythm; Or don't marry her in the first place. I married her again, and blindly asked her to fly with me, blindly trying to use my own values to transform her, which is actually a kind of denial and betrayal of my original choice, which is a very stupid approach. Wen Yuanfang looked humbly taught and benefited a lot.

Liu Yuelan saw that Wen Yuanfang's attitude was more sincere and modest, so she opened the conversation: "Now I can tell you, I haven't had a chance to tell you before." A woman giving birth to a child is a pass, and a woman having a difficult birth is even more of a ghost pass. It's not that I claim my own credit in front of you, and it's not that I want to speak for Lao Cai. At that time, if Lao Cai hadn't called me to inform me to go to Meichi to fight the fire, he later racked his brains to persuade Meichi Hospital to let me deliver Xiao Zhu, according to the skills of Meichi Hospital...... Xiaozhu's mother and daughter are 100 percent...... It's true! Xiao Zhu had already passed out at that time, and it was a coincidence that only Lao Cai's blood was a perfect match for her. So, I mean: Your husband's duties and obligations have been fulfilled by others, and your status in Xiao Zhu's mind is definitely not as good as before! ”

After Wen Yuanfang listened to Liu Yuelan's words, his face was a little unbearable.

Li Fan saw that his wife was too straightforward to speak, so he came out to play a round and said: "The husband and wife live separately, and they are not only Lao Wen and his wife, but I have never heard of anyone who divorces at every turn!" The key is that Xiao Zhu's personality is too strong, and he can't rub sand in his eyes, so he is still too young. Let's go to Tongxin Pavilion as soon as possible, and try to persuade Xiao Zhu to change his mind! ”

(c)

That time, when Wen Yuanfang came out of Liu Yuelan's mother's house, Li Fan gave him a ride. The two men chatted as they walked.

Wen Yuanfang: "Do you think that the marriage change between me and Yuliang is anyone's middle?" ”

Li Fan: "Do you mean Lao Cai?" I've heard some rumors, but I don't believe them. Some people also say that there is something between me and Xiao Zhu. Judging from the relationship between Lao Cai and Teacher Chen, as well as the harmony between Xiao Zhu and their couple, Xiao Zhu and Lao Cai should not have an improper relationship. But Lao Cai may have a personal affection for Xiao Zhu, which is also human nature. A woman like Xiao Zhu, who is a woman who shows off her wisdom, will be in love with any man, and there is nothing to make a fuss about. ”

Wen Yuanfang: "What I want to know is that although Lao Cai and Yuliang are now in a relationship of brother and sister, will they have another agreement?" Maybe after Yuliang and I divorced, Lao Cai and Teacher Chen would also divorce? ”

Li Fan: "Only God knows this, and you will only know the truth after you and Xiao Zhuzhen divorce." ”

Wen Yuanfang: "That's it, you and Doctor Liu try to help me try our best to persuade me to make peace." If Yuliang agrees to continue living with me, we will find a way to transfer her out of the Material Bureau, or transfer her to you as an accountant.

If she insists on divorcing me, I will go with the flow and agree to give her her freedom; But we still have to find a way to get her out of the supplies bureau. In short, only by letting her move out of Tongxin Pavilion and leave the Material Bureau can I know whether she and Lao Cai are innocent; At the same time, it is more likely that I will get back together with her. If she continues to live in Tongxin Pavilion, it is estimated that our polyamorous relationship will not be sorted out for the rest of our lives. Do you think that works? ”

Li Fan: "Haha! Now that you are my leader, of course I have to respect your opinion and must support you! Besides, we've always had a good personal relationship. According to my observation, Xiao Zhu is a very sensitive and intelligent woman, and she hates men designing and arranging her the most; If she had perceived our intentions and plans, would she have been even more disgusted with us? Aren't we self-defeating? ”

Wen Yuanfang: "Of course, we have to do it skillfully and reasonably, so that Yuliang can't be suspicious and resentful of me. Anyway, one word: My Wen's wife-snatching battle has begun, and I implore my brother to continue to support him! Let's discuss the specific plan! ”

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(iv)

A few days after accepting Wen Yuanfang's request, Li Fan specially took a rest day and made a special trip to Tongxin Pavilion with Liu Yuelan to persuade Zhu Yuliang not to divorce. They advised her that she should consider all aspects and never divorce easily; After all, marriage is a lifelong event for a woman, because it is never easy for a woman to find a man who she can afford and love her.

When Zhu Yuliang heard them say the word "easy", he said with some excitement: "Brother Li, Sister Yuelan!" You are my relatives in Jiyang. In the past nine years, you have all seen the bits and pieces of how we get along as husband and wife. In the first three years, Wen Yuanfang and I lived a normal life as a small couple, even if they were separated, they were also normal separations, and there was always the sweetness of reunion.

But after being pregnant with Jingjing, oh yo! It all changed overnight. It's not like I don't really love him now, I just don't want to live this kind of life like this. How do you think my home has ever been like a home? The family has a total of three people and has been living separately for many years.

I don't care if he's the head of the commercial bureau now! The higher you climb, the heavier you fall; I don't know when I will fall to the ground again, and be trampled on the soles of my feet again. Life is too short, and I feel that Jingjing and I can't stand the toss anymore; If he wants to toss, he will toss alone, and my daughter and I will untie him! Therefore, I didn't divorce this marriage easily, I just wanted to live a peaceful and peaceful life. ”

Of course, Zhu Yuliang did not tell Li Fan and his wife that the letter of commitment was a fuse for her request for divorce, and she would never mention this matter to the fourth person in the future. Regardless of whether she divorced Wen Yuanfang or not, she hoped that her daughter's father could spend his life safe and sound.

Li Fan still persuaded in the generous tone of the big brother next door: "We are all mortals, and we have no foresight. If we knew in advance what we were doing was wrong, we wouldn't have done it again. We are here today not to talk about politics or stance, but only about character. I think Comrade Wen Yuanfang's character is still above board and excellent, after all, he has been trained in the big school of the army. I've never heard of any problems with his lifestyle or finances. Therefore, when we choose a person as a spouse, we must ultimately implement the word 'character'. ”

Zhu Yuliang said: "Big brother! I never thought that Wen Yuanfang's character was bad, I just felt that he and I were not in the same way, and the values were different, which led to different demands, so I couldn't live this life. Moreover, everyone is different in judging whether a person's character is good or not, and the criteria for judging are different from each other. I only know that our parents taught us from an early age: whether or not you are kind is the most basic criterion for judging whether a person's character is good or bad.

Let's take an example! Several of us are now living in Jiyang, the ancient capital of Yueguo, let's also take history as a mirror! Yue Wang Goujian must be a hero in the eyes of the people of Jiyang, and the people of Jiyang I have come into contact with are proud of being Goujian. But in the minds of the descendants of Wu and the people of Jiangsu, Gou Jian is a traitor who can't be worse.

For the sake of Xue's own shame, Gou Jian did not hesitate to sacrifice the Yue national daughters Xi Shi and Zheng Dan to make sugar-coated cannonballs, and used the 'beauty trick' to confuse Wu Wangfucha, causing the husband to indulge in his love for Xi Shi and abandon the government, and forced Wu Zixu, who dared to admonish, to commit suicide, and his tricks were extremely despicable.

In order to weaken the financial resources of the Wu State and live up to the trust of the husband, Gou Jian steamed all the rice seeds that were paid tribute to the Wu State, causing the people of the Wu State to have no harvest and starve all over the wilderness, and his intentions were extremely vicious.

After the completion of the so-called plan to restore the country, Gou Jian, in order to prevent the so-called 'usurpation', carried out a 'cunning rabbit death, lackey cooking' style of cutting off the civil and military ministers who had contributed to the revival of the Yue country, which was extremely ungrateful.

If you want me to say, Wen Chong was forced to kill himself, and Fan Li was forced to flee, all of which were the result of their aiding and abusive, and they were all to blame, and there was nothing to sympathize with. Of course, I don't think that's a sign of kindness enough. Excuse me! I'm a bit of a stretch.

At the beginning, a big factor in my admiration for Wen Yuanfang was that he expressed his disdain for these practices of King Goujian of Yue, and he especially sympathized with unfortunate women such as Xi Shi, Zheng Dan, and Queen Yayu of Yue, believing that no matter how good they were, they were all victims of a patriarchal society. Therefore, Wen Yuanfang hates the old society, the old order, and the old morality of inequality between men and women; He believes that the root cause of the unhappiness of Chinese women for thousands of years is the concept and system of inequality between men and women.

To be honest, Wen Yuanfang's thoughts really touched me at the beginning, and I felt that I was going to marry such a compassionate and talented husband. However, later on, I found out that he did not make an effort to practice the value system he admired in reality, and he lacked the empathy and responsibility necessary for a great husband to treat the women he knew were insulted and bullied.

In nature, ambitious animals still know how to protect female animals; Why has humanity lost this instinct instead? If the equality of men and women we pursue is only reflected in the equal enjoyment of the right of men and women to suffer crimes, then I would rather not have this equality between men and women.

I knew I was going far. In a word, the pain of living with Wen Yuanfang is greater than the sense of happiness; Since such days are far away, why don't I get rid of my suffering sooner? ”

Li Fan and Liu Yuelan have been quietly listening to Zhu Yuliang's "speech" and are deeply impressed by her logical thinking. They never expected that this peerless beauty in front of them would have such a deep and rich ideological realm, it turned out that they really underestimated her!

Since Zhu Yuliang's determination to divorce is supported by such a powerful theoretical system, it is obviously impossible to persuade her to change her original intention according to ordinary words of persuasion.

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