1. For most people who have just entered society, a house can extinguish a dream.

2. The sense of security is not to take it back, but to give it back.

3. Uninteresting people are often the blades of U Thant, and children are "not interested" in learning, often because they feel that they do not have the ability to learn well, or no matter how hard they try, they cannot meet the requirements of their parents; Old people are "not interested" in anything because they feel that they are not capable enough, or what they do is not as good as what young people do, but American and European people are willing to say that I am afraid, so they lie to themselves and say, I am not interested at all!

4. Why are many rich people unhappy at all? Because when they have money, they find that money is not what they want to pursue at all.

5. Will persistence be successful? The answer is wrong, this is the consistent concept of success, if you insist on success, Yang Lijuan, who is chasing Andy Lau, will become Andy Lau's wife.

6. Instead of withering in waiting, it is better to bloom in action.

7. Spend a part of your past to buy a future.

8. Don't use your life to ignite the halo in the eyes of others.

9. Your potential is like your consultant, if you trust him at the beginning, he will work harder and harder and do more and more things for you. But if you don't trust him in the first place, and the second district relies on other Dongxu, he will slowly move away from you, and when you need to use it, he will never come again.

10. Fear is such a coward, when you touch his bottom line, accept the result of the change, and then start to prepare to fight with it, it doesn't know where to hide.

11. A successful career development person earns ten times more in one month after ten years than in the year ten years ago.

12. In today's ever-changing society, how can it be possible to expect a company or industry to have the fastest development for ten consecutive years? The rapid development of the self may need to be achieved by adjusting the direction of the career, but the mortgage makes us afraid to do any professional action.

13. With today's housing prices, excluding those rich second generations, there are only two situations for ordinary people to buy a house, one is that the parents of both parties contribute money to subsidize, and the future and development of this kind of person is basically controlled by their parents. The second type of person is to sacrifice too many development opportunities and pawn dreams to achieve a house.

14. There are two kinds of love, one is to hold on to it, if you are nervous, he will be nervous; One is to drag it easily, you are comfortable and he is comfortable.

15. A sense of security definitely does not come from marriage, if you enter marriage with a sense of security, 80% of this marriage will have problems.

16, I don't have the courage to live alone, what can I do without you, it's better to marry well than to do well, these around us every day, do you really believe it? In fact, the people who say these words are insecure people.

17. The expression of true love is not to expect the same reply from the other party, don't love yourself as loving others, those who hurt others, self-harm, great sacrifices, and do not find out that it is actually not love, but fear.

18. We often regard dependence as love, and when we see that others have gained good without ourselves, we will be inexplicably angry in our hearts, and feel that the other party does not love us anymore. In fact, true love is to give each other freedom, and also to give oneself freedom.

19. Ability = talent * time, if you don't succeed in one thing, it is not necessarily a lack of talent, but a lack of time.

20. If we don't believe in ourselves and are afraid of losing at any time, we will eventually be enslaved and become slaves to our sense of security.

21. In a safe environment, tear down the walls in your mind and take a small risk! Try to arrange a trip for yourself with only one square meter of your house. Try doing what you've always been embarrassed to do in a small group or two that you'll never go to again and never regret again; Try calling those positions that are desirable and don't go, try to sell them yourself。。。。。

22. Principle: Those things that make it easy for you to get a sense of security! These include caring too much about your parents, a card that can be swiped at will, a mission that doesn't make mistakes, and a job like a pensioner. That will teach you to become a slave to security!

23. Give yourself a fear of reimbursement, and you will find that the things you used to worry about almost never happen.

24. Many people are afraid of public speaking, in fact, what you are really afraid of is not to talk badly, but that you are not able to face the situation of smashing, which is the deep lack of confidence and fear in your heart.

25. Facing fear with your back is the most terrifying, but if you really turn your face to face it, you will find that there is nothing to be afraid of.

26. Have you ever been forced into a corner of fate? Have you ever tried to touch the bottom line of something you can't even think of? Then remember to ask yourself: what would I do if I failed and a new guy came along/a new situation?

27. Have you noticed that the sense of security is not what you want from others, but a feeling of being needed deep down? Have you ever noticed that security is not about taking something from someone else, but about giving something to the world? Have you ever noticed that the sense of security is given and not returned?

28. We think about work when we eat, think about making mistakes at work, worry about breaking up when we are in love, and still look at our watch when we hug... We can't do something specific at the right time, so we're still mortal.

29. A baby giggles while playing, not because the game will give him anything. We don't have fun playing an instrument, it's not because we're going to get piano grade 10 through this. We laugh when we listen to jokes, not because we want to record them and show them off to others. We don't feel like we want to do it because it decompresses me. Because happiness is happiness, and the happiness of investment is unconditional.

30. When you are truly and completely engaged in the things of the moment, no matter how simple and humble the matter is, you can feel endless fun. Any yoga instructor will tell you that you are seriously engaged in your breathing, something that you do countless times a day, and you can feel a lot of fun.

31. People who don't care about more money and less are willing to work hard often feel that as long as they can do this job, it is the greatest reward for him. In fact, when a person does things for the sake of the work itself, rather than for the after-work salary, he is often able to do his best work and is sure to receive the most compensation.

32. Life is like a mirror, and it is necessary to identify those who maintain a very high degree of devotion to life, the right to embrace, and the right to hug her. A boring person uses "no interest" to isolate himself from life, so life also avoids him.

33. Look for those deep interests that cannot be satisfied, such as hey, growth, surpassing oneself, happiness, director, tranquility... They will make you happy for a lifetime.

34. Successful attempts can reap results, and unsuccessful attempts can reap wisdom.

35. What is happy? It's just to do things fast and happy!

36. People who are "not interested" in anything are afraid of taking risks and failing at all, so they are not invested at all, and it is difficult to get results, even a little progress. When a person begins to prevaricate with "not interested" in his own life, life also begins to disinterest him.

37. Invest in life with love rather than expectation, and you will find that ability and fun follow suit.

38. Find a long-term, deep, and unsatisfying pleasure for your life. Let this eternal pleasure lead you through the impermanence of life.

39. We are the wizards of our own lives, we build a fantasy world for ourselves, and then let this fantasy slowly come true in reality.

40. If you are gold, you have to increase your gold content to a certain level before you become a gold mine. When you are excavated, you have to go through a very painful grinding, washing, soaking, and you have to melt away the impurities, bad habits, and five points in your body. Then it has to be shaped, polished, polished, and finally financed into a very valuable shining gold!

41. The "Dao" will not change, but the "Fa" will simply change, and the way of doing things, the "Shu", will change frequently.

42. The value of a thing does not depend on the value you judge now, but on the value in the future situation, which is called future value. Those who know how to watch the earth blossom and bear fruit will never be obsessed with what is lost.

43. The sunk cost is actually the cost that has been lost, and the additional cost for this loss can only break the blood flow in the end. People who are afraid of loss, lose the most.

44. People with goals sail through difficulties, and people without goals avoid difficulties and drift. The Voyager keeps approaching the target, and the Drifter keeps smashing to escape the fear.

45. Your life is like your home, but let others come in and arrange it. But don't forget, it's you who lives in it for the rest of your life. So the best way to get your parents to stop questioning is to start acting as soon as possible and then show them the facts! You might as well imagine your dream of being on the board of a public company, where you and your parents have a say in "you" as a company. They hold a certain share. They have the right to speak, they have the right to express their opinions, and you have the obligation to listen, consider, and be the biggest shareholder on the board of directors about your life.

46. We are very obedient to become a group of people with brains and no hearts, a group of people with logic and no emotions, and a group of people who talk about height but not respect. We Zhang Chengwei are the way others ask us to be, and we are proud of it. And just like that, we lost ourselves.

47. When the cost of waiting and procrastination is much higher than the cost of his actual action, he will slowly fall into a vicious circle of waiting and not acting. I call this pattern "waiting for death".

48. What is the growth? That's a measure of your heart. You can feel your growth, you know in your heart what you will grow in, like an oak seed, which will grow into a tall acquaintance without teaching. Everyone in the world can grow to be the best they can be, and we have all the resources to grow into it.