When we read every novel, we hope that the hero and heroine will have a happy ending, a smooth sailing love, and a strong man who can only take a scoop of water for 3,000 weak waters.

That's because unconsciously, we think of them as ourselves. Everyone wants and longs for a love that has a beginning and an end, which can go through the changes of the years and withstand material tests.

Therefore, with good fortune and blessings, we always pray sincerely on special days, please grant me true love.

But when true love comes to us, we consider many factors, family background, what kind of occupation...... Wait, in the face of reality, fragile love is violently impacted......

Love is tested by these factors, helpless struggle, and in the end, love becomes a veritable luxury to look up to, out of reach.

We admire Cinderella's love, praise Cinderella for reaping the prince's love, but we don't know the hardships behind Cinderella, and we don't know how much Cinderella wants to escape from the prince's gorgeous cage.

Will the love of the poor and the imperial power and wealth last long? That's just a beautiful mythical story.

After the initial splendor of love, all that remains is ordinary life......

As countless stories tell, the differences between the city and the countryside, the differences between the cities and the cities, are all beautiful at first, thinking that with love, anything can be overcome and anything can be destroyed.

Love, with its mysterious power to change the world. It's a pity that in the end, it all ended sadly. Such as "Double-sided Tape", such as "Mother-in-law is Coming", many, many ......

Personally, I think that in a way, the right to the door is really important, and to a certain extent, it makes sense. Young girls should not be carried away by the excitement of the moment, let alone pounce on the strange foreign land with him for the sake of so-called love.

It's only going to end up with a bruised end. Don't always pin on the omnipotent love, it is really fragile and can't withstand collisions, life and love complement each other.

But there can be no love in life, only habits, only nature, only suitability.

But there is no life in love, it is illusory, it is a mirage......

A man said, "I love my wife and my family, but I am separated from each other, I also have needs, I am a normal person." No matter what happens to me outside, I still cherish my family, and I will not choose to end the marriage, on the contrary, I will work hard to run it and maintain it. ”

I think people who have this kind of thinking are all faint souls, excuses, to be a biao and to set up a memorial arch, pretending to be contemptuous is more shameful than selling silver. I don't have to bear any responsibility if I want to be happy outside, and my marriage will not be affected, anyway, the historical task of inheriting the family has been smoothly transitioned.

Some people say that this is the reality, and marriage is like this now.

The two parties coming out of the closet will come to an agreement, a transaction that will be fixed together temporarily or permanently without destroying the family. Money is no longer the first place, but the mutual need of each other.

We are confused, do we keep up with the times, or are we unique......

I'm hesitating, and I think more women are hesitating too. No matter what, please always have a heart to cherish yourself in this confused hesitation.

Only in this way will we become like King Kong, invincible to all poisons and undisturbed by demons.

Because never let down your heart, only it can give you all your love.

No matter how much you love, no matter how much you love, you must protect yourself and treat yourself well.