Chapter 936: The Ignorant Man
Lin Li ignored her eyes, and ate the food in front of her seriously, she knew that next, it might really take a lot of tongue to argue with her, and it was very clear that the truth. So now she had to comfort her stomach.
She calmly took a sip of the soup, "You don't doubt your subjective feelings for thousands of feelings, you really want to have a good hobby, make her good, and even want people all over the world to be good to her according to your wishes, but," she said this, she accentuated her tone and looked at her fixedly, "What have you done for her?" You love her, you do it yourself, why should someone else do it? ”
Wan Ma was completely stunned, "But I really love her!" She didn't understand, was there something wrong with her previous methods? She couldn't understand it, and she didn't think about it again.
Lin Li had no choice but to stop the food she was using, "Auntie, in terms of her current condition, what does she need most now?" Someone took care of her, but how do you do it? You don't like Zhao Kai for taking good care of him; angry that Wan Dad did not come to fulfill his responsibilities; But you are a mother, what have you done for her? Why can't you take good care of her yourself? ”
After hearing this, Wan Ma still looked incomprehensible, "Where do I have any ability?" Her father is obviously rich, why didn't he give her flowers and not use them? I went to him to help her get something, shouldn't I be? ”
I really can't figure it out, have I done less for thousands of feelings these days? Even Wanqianqian has been here a few times, and she must take care of Wanqian's feelings. Although I used to manage her less, I knew that she was living a good life, how could this girl say this about herself?
Lin Li was not in a hurry to convince her, she quietly finished the meal in front of her, and then looked at Wan's mother seriously, "You can eat quickly, let's talk when we are full." "Only when people don't have any external influence in the body can they chat well, better say what is in their hearts, and be more receptive to other people's opinions.
Wan Ma complained about thousands of feelings and life with some incomprehension, and took this as her own appetizer while eating the food in front of her. Lin Li glanced at her, "Auntie, doesn't the taste of this dish suit your taste?" ”
She swallowed the food in her mouth and quickly shook it with her hand, "No, the food here tastes good." In fact, after all, Wan's mother's living expenses are relatively limited now, and she doesn't often come out to eat, as long as she changes her taste, she feels that she can still do it.
Lin Li smiled, "That's good, take care of your stomach, so that you can have more strength to discuss problems with others." There was a hint of ridicule in her tone.
Mother Wan couldn't help but laugh after hearing this, "Dr. Lin's speech is always so reasonable, could it be that our family Qianqian will have such a good relationship with you." In her impression, it should be that Qianqianqian really wants to make a friend like Lin Li.
Lin Li naturally told the truth, "I was conquered by Sister Qianqian's personality charm, so I wanted to be friends with her." After finishing speaking, she stared at Wan Ma's face, this woman is really interesting, is it that things have come to this point, does she still feel that thousands of thousands of people are not as good as thousands of feelings?
Or is there something that she can't look down on in the depths of her heart? The reason is because she was carried? No matter how much effort she has made, what kind of achievements she has achieved, how much has it helped her?
People, there are many times when this is indeed the case, you have decided in your bones that a certain person is not equal to your identity and status, no matter what, you feel that she is inferior to you, under the guidance of such thoughts, you can not correctly understand the other party's price or his sincerity. It's a sad truth, but it happens all the time.
While eating the food in front of her, Wan's mother said: "Actually, our family Qianqian is also very capable, but her father and I may have really neglected her at that time." She suddenly realized that if she didn't say something good, it seemed that Dr. Lin would not be very happy. I must have a good relationship with Dr. Lin now.
Lin Li laughed, "Auntie, we won't talk about Sister Qianqian today, let's just talk about you and Wanqianqing!" ”
Although the atmosphere at the beginning was not bad, she felt that she wanted to completely convince this Wan Ma that it would not be particularly smooth. She is also a bit old and stubborn, she has lived with such paranoid beliefs for most of her life, and it is almost impossible for her to change now.
"Okay. I'm a mother, of course I want to do more for her, but I don't have the ability, and now I can't take care of myself, what can I do for her? "Wan Ma is like a person who crawled out of one pit and fell directly into another, she only emphasizes what she can't do, but avoids talking about what she has done.
Lin Li looked at her, "Auntie, everyone has their own abilities. Of course, this person is different, some people are very capable, and they can do things that many people can't do; And most people are limited in what they can do. But no matter how limited the ability is, as long as it is alive, it has its own ability. They all have their own things to do. ”
She had to use a solid reason, to frame her first, and she had to make her realize that she was definitely capable.
After hearing her words, she nodded, but immediately shook it again, "Doctor Lin, what do you think a person like me can do?" I want to help my Qianqing well, but what can I do? I don't have enough money to live on. When she thought of this, her eyes were very gloomy, and her mood was a little low.
Finally, she took the initiative to shift the topic to herself, which is a very good thing. You can talk about this topic well.
"What can you do, to combine the current situation?" She could have had a good chat with her yesterday, but today she just mentioned it, and then stared at her face, hoping that she wouldn't forget what she had told her so quickly.
After listening to her words, Mother Wan couldn't help but be stunned, she naturally remembered what she had said repeatedly yesterday, so she assured Lin Li and said, "Don't worry, I will definitely cooperate with Zhao Kai and take good care of her." It's just that you said this Zhao Kai, will he really love us Qianqing? Won't he abandon her? ”
She looked very worried, and looked at Lin Li a little nervously. She really didn't know, if something like this happened, what would she do? She really doesn't have that concept.
Lin Li let out a long breath, "Auntie, only care about the facts and what is happening, for what has not happened, whether it will happen in the future or may happen, we don't care so much, don't worry about the future, just live a good life now." ”
In fact, everyone should be like this, only if you live a good life in the present, as for what will happen in the future, that is the future, even if you are worried now, you are so anxious that you can't live the present, so what can you do?
Or the more you worry, the more you worry, the more things will go to the bad side.
Wan Ma nodded as if she didn't understand, and then she started to eat again. Yes, how could she have understood it all at once? Some people have lived all their lives and have not been able to understand the truth, if she is just a few words from Lin Li, she will understand, it is not realistic!
However, she thought about it for a while, and still asked seriously and suspiciously, "Doctor Lin, you say, how can she think that her mother is a bastard in my family?" She really minded about it, and couldn't accept that she wanted her beloved daughter to talk about herself like this, "I really think of her in whatever I do." ”
If you only look at her from the perspective of a mother, it is definitely not right to talk about her like this. She still has a certain amount of love for her children, but she seems to do it from a different perspective. She only thinks about how others want others to be good to her children, but she never thinks about it again, the child is just your own, you just treat her well, what do others have to do with you?
"Can you give me an example or two, how do you treat your children well?" Although Lin Li felt a little tired, but with the professional ethics and literacy of a doctor, she still took Wan's mother's situation seriously, after all, she was the adoptive mother of her best friend, and if she wanted to help herself, she would definitely help.
Wan Ma was calm and calm, "I won't say anything far away, and you won't understand it." Let's take Wan Qianqing's car accident as an example, I went to Wan Qianqian as soon as possible and asked her to be responsible for Qianqing. If it weren't for her, how could she be like this? ”
Lin Li was not only a little stunned, but this person's thinking was really not an ordinary problem.
"Wan Qianqing's car accident this time is completely her own fault, what does this have to do with Wan Qianqian? Why should she be held accountable to her? She doesn't pursue the responsibility of thousands of feelings, but she is already quite generous. Lin Li's tone was a little heavy. On the one hand, she felt that there was something wrong with Wan Ma's thinking, and on the other hand, she was also a little upset about Wan Qianqian.
Hearing her say this, Wan Ma was a little afraid to speak, originally she thought that she had done an excellent job, but now how did she feel like she had done something wrong?
"But I'm not here for all kinds of feelings, you see that she has become like this, if no one is responsible for her, won't her life be completely ruined?" She's a little stumbling.