"What do you look at me? Do you want me to die? Last time your grandmother came to our hospital, I didn't mean to pretend not to know, I really didn't know! "Dr. Tan Linwei thought I was joking with him, so he started to adjust the atmosphere with me.

"I see! Because you're late! I mean, look at me, the same as the last time you injected me, right? I casually scanned it with my eyes, and the room where Dr. Chen lived, the rough room, and there was a green thermos on the ground, and it seemed that he would have to carry it away later!

"It's not a big difference, it's just that today's dress is quite gorgeous!"

Dr. Chen Linwei doesn't think that I came to him today because of what happened that day, right? How can I listen to him praising me, a dignified doctor, will actually say that my dress is beautiful, it seems that Dr. Chen Linwei is really not such an ordinary person, he knows the standard language when socializing, and he also knows that sentence can be said to your heart, and he used to be a famous psychiatrist!

In that case, let me ask him in a different way!

"Doctor Chen Linwei, then let me ask you one more thing, that is, you said that there are often some dead people around a person, what is the matter?" I just said that I only want to ask one thing, hey! It may be that I only realized now, the money I gave to the driver just now is really too expensive, especially that dollar, which should never be given! What's more, the driver didn't mean to thank me at all!

"Is that guy working there? This is normal! Like our doctors......"

"It's not the professional kind, but I often see some strange things in my mind or around me, and even if I don't see it, then I will listen to others say bad things!"

"You're talking about your Lunhong University, right? These situations are not uncommon for you, do you know how I met Aunt Wang, who is the dormitory manager of your girls? ”

"Did she come to you to see a doctor?"

"How do you know? Did she tell you? ”

"Nope! I'm guessing because I've heard about Aunt Wang! ”

"Her daughter didn't go missing by herself, I heard her mean that her daughter was taken away by someone she knew, just like a girl of your age, if she is still alive now, I occasionally saw your Aunt Wang pulling my friend at a friend's party, I remember when she said, "My child, it's so tall, you know?" Did you see that? ”

"And then?"

"What she said was that it was as high as her knees, but when we went to the restaurant again, she still pointed to her knees, and I told her at the time, what are the characteristics of your child, can you remember? She said that the child has no characteristic birthmarks, just an ordinary little girl, I said, so good, since it is an ordinary little girl, she will definitely grow up, always take her height to say things, it will not be easy to find, you must find a solution, such as go to the police first, and then register the DNA in the database, waiting for the DNA of similar children to be compared! Moreover, those who abduct and sell children and those who buy children must receive relevant sanctions from the law! So what she needs to do now is to ensure that her mentality does not collapse, I told her, I have been in contact with many parents who have lost their children for so many years, and the better parents are tired, but they have found their children, and the bad ones, the parents have died, but the children have come back, which is extremely miserable, so I want her to go in the best direction, that is, to live her own life while looking for children, not only for herself, but also for the children to be able to see a healthy mother when they come back in the future, both physical and psychological! ”

"That's why Aunt Wang is in such a good state of mind now! It's all thanks to Dr. Chen Linwei! ”

"I can't say that, I'm just an auxiliary role, it's more that the patient needs to be aware of his own faults, and there are many ways to take responsibility for his own mistakes, some people wash their faces with tears every day, but some people use the time to make up for it in the future. Your Aunt Wang belongs to the latter species, and now she and I are good friends, but at that time, she didn't see it, she grabbed a random person and asked people if they saw her child, which not only has no effect at all, but sometimes has the opposite effect, such as being regarded as mentally ill by others, do you know how many times your Aunt Wang has been desperate in the process of looking for a child, and how many times has she thought of death? ”

"I don't know!"

"You've seen the stars you're born with, right? That's as much as that! But every time she survived on her own! ”

"Dr. Chen Linwei, you are too modest! I don't believe there is no encouragement and enlightenment from you! ”

"Absolutely! But the outside world is always the outside world, and your psychology is your inside, it is difficult to change the inner things with external force, especially everyone's body is an independent existence, so in the end, it is always your strong heart that defeats your inner demons! ”

I nodded as if I didn't understand, thinking that Dr. Chen Linwei was very powerful, but in fact, I understood what he said, and I knew more! I didn't contradict Dr. Chen Linwei, because I felt that what came out of other people's mouths would make me feel very comfortable, I don't know what kind of psychology this is, it may be an understanding, or it may be an empathetic trust!

"After a while, if you can't find me, you can also go and talk to your Aunt Wang, now her basic problems can be solved, after so many years, she is about to become half a psychological counselor!"

"However, I heard from them that Aunt Wang and her husband, the chef of the third canteen, are about to go to other schools to look for children!"

"I've heard of this before! But it doesn't matter, even if your Aunt Wang goes to other schools, you can still occasionally call her and chat with her when she is not busy? ”

"Doctor Chen Linwei, can't I call you? Don't you also carry your phone with you? I think Aunt Wang's mentality may still be wrong, because once when I returned to the dormitory building late, I saw Aunt Wang wearing a men's big vest and no pants underneath, so I walked in the direction of our lover's tears at Lunhong University! Lover's tears, you know? Dr. Tan Lin Wei! ”

"I know! In fact, if you want me to say, it's not a big deal, because a patient still has a recovery period and a recuperation period, and a person with a mental illness is the same reason! Just like your Lunhong University, the outside world always says that people in your school can only enter and not leave, which means that no one will come out alive, but I have seen a lot of outstanding talents in your school, and now they are all working for the benefit of the school! So, no matter what kind of place you are, there will be some outstanding people! You have to learn from those people, this is the only way to exercise your heart! ”

"But I just got very good with Aunt Wang on the front foot, and Aunt Wang on the back foot was much farther away from me, but I played well with a person I don't like, and I was two-faced and three-faced, why is that? Where am I? Dr. Tan Lin Wei! ”

"Let me say so! Everyone has the right to be comfortable with whom, it may be that one day you think that Aunt Wang is good with you, and Aunt Wang is happy with you, but the next day you are wrong, Aunt Wang feels it, so Aunt Wang prefers to chat with relaxed people, which is also understandable! After all, she is a person who has been strongly stimulated! You're not married yet, you don't have children, are you? Then you won't understand the pain of being a woman, not only the pregnancy in October, but also the follow-up care is more laborious, slowly, the child from a piece of meat in the mother's body, has become an indispensable person in life, think about it, do you have the feeling of losing a kitten and a puppy? It's a hundred times more painful than that! ”

"Doctor Chen Linwei, let me ask you another question, that is, I always like to nag, and when I encounter something unsatisfactory, I will always scold thousands of times in my heart, what can I do?"

"It is normal for people to have negative emotions, you don't deliberately avoid it, you have to accept it, accept your own shortcomings, if you can correct it, of course it is good to change it, because life is a process of continuous improvement of yourself, only in this way, people will have a lot of pursuits, a lot of dreams and ideals. But if you really can't change it, don't worry, I'll teach you a method, that is, you can still scold in your heart, but don't say, can this be done? ”

"Then I'll work hard, because I'm born with a bad temper, so I'm afraid I won't be able to control it!"

"There is no innate willingness, this is not a reason for man to find out for himself, if a wolf is put in a nest from an early age, he will become very docile, not only will he not eat sheep, but he may also fall in love with sheep! In fact, beasts are the most difficult to tame, because they have few feelings, but people are different, because people have feelings, they will know what they are doing and what they are going to do, so since animals can control their teeth, then why can't people? Think about it, isn't that the truth? ”

"Dr. Chen Linwei, I feel that after telling you, my mentality is suddenly much better! It can really be described as sudden, not gradually, but suddenly! ”

I used three suddenness in a row to talk to Dr. Chen Linwei, and I could see that there was a sense of satisfaction and happiness on his face, and there was also a sense of melancholy that he couldn't go to work immediately because of his short rest!

"Dr. Chen Linwei, do you know why I like to call you by your name?"

"I don't know!"

"Because when the hospital calls for a doctor, it calls the name. I feel like you're a sick person now, fragile and in need of relief! If anyone can tell a psychiatrist about the distress in their hearts, or even tell their psychologist about the nightmare they just had in the middle of the night, then who will know who you really felt at that time, including now, who you will talk to! ”

"You have heard of a psychiatrist who treated 100 people with mental illnesses, and they all got better, but he himself ......"