Chapter 913: Long Talk
Under her gaze or pressure, he hesitated a little, but did he really want to marry Rong Xiaoxiao? Is that really that good? If it is true, I am afraid that there will not be so many divorces and extramarital affairs now.
"Sister, how could you suddenly think of this question? Didn't you and your brother-in-law get that card either? Why do you have to force us? Besides, this marriage is usually done by old men and old ladies, how can they be compatible with such a beautiful sister? As he spoke, he looked at thousands of faces, thinking to himself, she really wasn't normal today.
was stunned by his words, this is reasonable, and it is touted, and it really makes her a little reluctant to continue to ask him, but there are some things that she still has to ask, otherwise when people ask, she doesn't know how to say anything.
However, she is still different from parents in the traditional sense, she needs to understand their thoughts first, and then give an answer that matches their ideas. However, parents in the traditional sense only follow their own ideas, and let children blindly do things according to their ideas.
"Hehe, I'm my sister, now we don't have other relatives to urge you to get married and have children, so I can only come. Otherwise, how can you keep letting you be unmarried and infertile? She tapped him on the head, "Tell me what your attitude is towards marriage and family?" ”
She also knows in her heart that she can't show him all the red colors she has clearly, and it's better to keep some for herself, after all, sometimes being a parent still needs a certain prestige.
Her expression was unusually serious, this was a serious question, naturally she couldn't talk about it with laughter, "What I told me was serious, you must think clearly before answering me." She reminded him that this matter is really sloppy, and it is actually something that everyone should think about before getting married.
It's just that ordinary people can't think of this problem, but they are pushed by time and the world, and when they reach a certain age, they get married, have children, and then have a lot of misfortune and suffering. Some people have the courage to leave, but their lives are very different from before. Some people don't even have the courage to divorce, so they can only continue to moan and wail a few times in the mire of pain.
Ling Yuxuan's attitude also became solemn, he thought about it seriously for a while, and then said rationally: "Rong Xiaoxiao and I are indeed very affectionate, if the two of us don't see each other for a day, it will feel like every other autumn." It's something I've never done all over again in my life. It's just that I want to talk about getting married and living a complete life of rice, oil and salt, I'm afraid that neither of us is ready! ”
What he said is also the truth, although it is like a husband and wife, but after all, it still feels different, without that certificate, just like everyone is free and feels that he is still single. But what about the certificate? I'll still think more about what to do.
Another point is that both of them have such a large consortium behind them, and it is not so simple for them to deal with this economic benefit alone. Now although the two companies also have cooperation, but this is a cooperation between enterprises, both sides have their own project departments responsible for this matter, and the two of them do not have to spend too much energy to take care of this matter.
Wan Qianqian didn't think so, she felt that things were very simple, she stared at him, and said slowly, "What do you need to prepare for marriage?" Materially you don't have to think about anything, but spiritually, you're all adults! When this person reaches a certain age, isn't it normal to want to stay together for a long time when he meets someone he likes? ”
She couldn't help but think of her first marriage with Gu Tanfeng, when the two of them could be said to have not told anyone, not even a simple wedding. Wan Dad and Wan Ma agreed, Lu Yunxue also acquiesced, and the two young people were together so naturally, although there was an accident later, and the two were separated for five years.
But now that she thinks about it, she still has love for Gu Tanfeng. is even grateful to him, because he has the two babies Xinyue and Xinyi.
Ling Yuxuan nodded, then shook his head again, "Sister, like us, of course, basic materials don't need to be considered. But you have to think about it, do you think, the consortium behind Rong Xiaoxiao's family is not weaker than our Ling family, even if I want to get married, can your family agree? This marriage is a big deal, I can't be so hasty. ”
Hearing his words, Wan Qianqian couldn't help but wonder, "What do you mean by sloppiness?" Is it true that if you keep thinking about it like this, you are serious? ”
She also can't understand some of their thoughts about the current trend, but she can also understand that some people have a fear of marriage, after all, the pressure on people in this society is extremely great, and it is possible for anyone to have pressure in their hearts. And in whatever way this pressure manifests itself, it is possible.
Ling Yuxuan shook his head, of course he didn't think that thinking about it all the time was a serious attitude, but he just felt that he hadn't thought it through in his heart, and he needed to think about it again, "Sister, although the relationship between me and Rong Xiaoxiao is very good now, who can guarantee that it will always be good in the future?" What if you really don't love it then? ”
Thousands of people were stunned, it is true that the beginning of every love and marriage is because of love, but how many of them finally parted ways because of the trouble?
This is the most real kind of existence, and if you don't consider this, it's really sad to start a marriage. But thinking too much, how do you start this married life? Who can guarantee that their hearts will not change in the next few decades? Who knows what will happen?
"Yu Xuan, we all have unknown, unpredictable difficulties and pains in our lives, even if we eat, we may choke, but have you ever heard of anyone who will refuse to continue their life for this reason?" She said earnestly. This truth should be understood by everyone, and no one can avoid it.
After Ling Yuxuan heard this, he nodded, it was indeed so, "Sister, that's right." But I think I'm not too old to laugh at all, and it's good to live a few more years freely. After all, if you get married, if you are always spawned, it will not be good. ”
It's actually a bit far-fetched for him to say this, and Thousands of people shouldn't be too urging him. He was also a little worried about dealing with some things in both families after marriage, although his family relationship was simple, but Rong Xiaoxiao's side was quite complicated.
Wan Qianqian knocked him on the head again, "What is this reason called?" Love can be between you and Rong Xiaoxiao, don't you worry that such a good girl will be robbed by others? Do you know that although there is no shortage of beauties in this society, there are few beauties with such a quiet temperament. She reminded him, in fact, she still remembered Lin Lilai.
Seeing that he was still silent, she couldn't help but remind him, "Have you forgotten about Lin Li?" If the two of you had gotten married early and announced the world, maybe their wedding would not have taken place. ”
At the mention of Lin Li, Ling Yuxuan's heart still moved heavily, after all, it was the woman she had loved with all her heart, although she hurt herself deeply, but when she thought of her, she still had a different kind of feeling. It's just that the current Rong Xiaoxiao is really good, and it fills his heart, and Lin Li is like a kind of faded old photo, deep in his heart.
Everyone in the world says that women are affectionate, but men are not necessarily ruthless. The person who once loved, that feeling was just deeply covered up by them.
"Sister, don't talk about it, I will seriously consider marriage with Xiaoxiao, and I will talk to Xiaoxiao." He thought about it seriously for a moment before he said, "But I've talked to Xiaoxiao, but she doesn't seem to want to get married right away." ”
Wan Qianqian glanced at him, and then said seriously, "You, Xiaoxiao is a rare good girl." If you don't even ask for marriage, how can you know her attitude? "It's true, if a man doesn't take the initiative, can he let a woman take the initiative? Although Rong Xiaoxiao chased him at the beginning, it can't always be someone else's woman who takes the initiative, right?
Ling Yuxuan nodded, he had thought about it carefully, and he had also examined his heart, he really loved Rong Xiaoxiao, this kind of feeling was different from any woman before, and his feelings for Lin Li were also different. For Rong Xiaoxiao, he wants to be happy and wants her to be by his side at all times.
This feeling is like getting a treasure and wanting to protect it well, but I'm afraid that I won't be able to handle it well, and this distress is in my bones.
"Sister, I understand. I will definitely have a good time with Rong Xiaoxiao, and I will eat her firmly before I talk about anything else. ”
Ling Yuxuan quickly decided in his heart, no matter what, he must treat Rong Xiaoxiao well, so that she never wants to leave him again in her heart, and then have a somewhat sensual marriage proposal, no matter what, something like Lin Li's must not happen to him again.
Indeed, if that kind of thing happens again, I'm afraid that he, Ling Yuxuan, will really start to doubt his life from now on. And in order to prevent that from happening again, he will also make his own great efforts.
Hearing his assurance, Wan Qianqian nodded, "Well, you work hard yourself!" "In the end, of course, you can only rely on yourself, and how can others help?
Ling Yuxuan nodded, "Understood." But sister, what are her parents going to talk to you about in the afternoon? You'll be sure to help us then! Even if it's to get married, don't push us too hard, right? ”
He was also really worried that he would be urged to marry too tightly.