(74) Take the opportunity to make a fuss

Zhang Yuling originally thought that after giving birth to a child, the relationship between her and Zhao Pang would be more stable. Children are the bond of their marriage and the crystallization of love. The birth of a daughter means that they really have the blood and family affection of water * melting. The three generations of the Zhao family are in the same house, which can be regarded as a happy one.

However, Zhang Yuling didn't know that the arrival of a child would often lead to family conflicts more easily than usual due to different parenting concepts, as well as more housework and increased economic expenses.

Some people say that if you want to know whether a man loves you or not, give him a child, see if he is nervous when you give birth, and see if he changes the child's diaper in the middle of the night, you can know whether he is a human or a demon.

This sentence is equally reasonable for the rest of your in-laws' family, if you want to know if they treat you as a family and have a child, you can see it in minutes.

Twenty days have passed, and it is extremely difficult. Zhang Yuling finally understands, why do so many people suffer from postpartum depression? He saw Yulin maternity jumping off the building before, and he thought she was making a big fuss.

It was only later, when Zhang Yuling was on the scene, that she realized that the physical pain was just the last straw that broke the camel's back.

The confinement was not going well, and the conflict with her mother-in-law deepened day by day. Especially after her mother-in-law disliked her and gave birth to a daughter. Her hatred for her mother-in-law turned into hatefulness.

Whenever Lucy Zhang holds the little person in the monster, there will be infinite love - the thin, thin, little body is still in swaddling clothes, she doesn't know anything, she has to bear the disgust and malice from her own grandmother in this world, when she thinks of this, Zhang Yuling's heart is like a knife.

Zhang Yuling felt that judging from this incident, her mother-in-law did not regard herself as a family at all, let alone the children as a family.

After the last time the milk was engorged, after Zhang Yuling wrapped ice cubes in a towel and applied a cold compress, the mammary glands were cleared, but the milk also became less. And because of her mother-in-law's patriarchy, Zhang Yuling wiped her tears behind her back, just like milk can sense Zhang Yuling's unhappiness, and it has become less.

The child often falls asleep after sucking, and wakes up hungry after not sleeping for a while, crying loudly. Children used to sleep for hours at a time, but now they wake up in 20 minutes. Especially at night, the baby's repeated crying made her tired. Seeing her daughter crying because of hunger, and Zhao Pang was resting badly, Zhang Yuling couldn't help it: "Zhao Pang, go buy milk powder, I don't have enough milk, I'll feed her milk powder." ”

It was already half past eleven in the evening, and Zhao Pang reluctantly went out with panda eyes. When he went downstairs to buy milk powder, he didn't know if there was a store open in the middle of the night.

Zhang Yuling held the child and walked back and forth in the restaurant and room.

When Zhao Pang went downstairs, he saw his mother, who had always slept late and watched dramas, standing in the living room, and when the mother saw her son looking like she was going out, she asked: "Zhao Pang, why are you going so late?" ”

"I'll go buy milk powder, Xiaoling doesn't have enough milk." Zhao Pang replied.

When the mother-in-law heard this, her face was longer than the donkey's face - "Not enough milk?!" After speaking, he shouted loudly upstairs, as if he was afraid that Zhang Yuling would not be able to hear, "There is not enough milk, what is that milk for?!" Bai has long milk, where is there milk powder sold on such a big night, isn't this a toss? ”

Zhang Yuyuling happened to be in the living room upstairs, and she heard her mother-in-law's shouting clearly, so she was angry, she felt that dealing with her mother-in-law's annual drama spirit, for the sake of family harmony, the usual sesame mung bean thing, can endure it. But once you find your mother-in-law who made a mistake, when it is particularly obvious, you have to make a big fuss before she completely gives in. Let her know that she is not easy to mess with, so that she can govern it. So Zhang Yuling made up her mind, took the child and walked out of the stairs, her eyes seemed to be with a knife, and she said as she walked: "I don't have enough milk, aren't I angry with you?" The child is so hungry that he is crying now, and he doesn't buy milk powder, do he want to be hungry?! If you feel sorry for your son, you can't feel sorry for your son's daughter?! It's not that I asked you to pay, what are you yelling about?! ”

When the mother-in-law heard this, the daughter-in-law dared to fight with herself, and her tone was even more bitter, so she said: "The milk is not enough, just suck more for the child, it is natural for a woman to feed the child!" Otherwise, what do you look like, where is there milk powder to sell at night, do you think my son's money is a big drain? Think it's easy, don't you? ”

Zhao Pang stepped forward, stood between the two and said, "Don't make any noise, what's the noise at night!" I'm going to buy milk powder, Mom, you go back to the room, Xiaoling, you go back to the room too! ”

But Zhang Yuling has long made up her mind to make a big fuss, how can she endure it like before. Today, I won't treat you, and if you don't clean up your clothes, I really don't have the surname Zhang! So, he calmly said to Zhang Pang, "Zhao Pang, you go buy milk powder, otherwise the baby will be hungry and cry for a while." Otherwise, there will be no place to buy it later, you buy the most expensive, my daughter was born prematurely, she must supplement nutrition, no one feels sorry for him, my own mother must feel sorry for him, who dares to treat my daughter as a person, I will not let him look good Zhang Yulin, the air seems to be frozen, nervous like a straight hanging, the war is about to break out, Zhang Lin's next few words are obviously for her mother-in-law, her mother-in-law remembers that Zhang Yulin must be crazy today, so arrogant, she and her son will turn around, and you will have this family in the future, if you let this woman be the future, Do you still have the right to speak? When you are young, you dare to give me a new certificate, so you also-for-tat, are you so bold? Who treats him as an outsider, which eye of yours sees me treating him as an outsider, don't spew blood, Zhao Pan stood in the middle in a dilemma, his haggard face, helpless, on one side is his own mother, and on the other hand, his wife, what should I do? In desperation, I could only persuade both sides, my mother didn't quarrel with Xiaolin, and said to Zhang Lin, Xiaoli, don't talk to grasshoppers, this fat and fluttering, a few words drowned in the two needles against the two women, full of gunsmoke, both of them are determined to manage and repair each other well, so Zhao Fat's words have no effect, Zhang Lin threw out a roll of his eyes, the corners of his mouth, you just say a few words, you treat my daughter as a person, hum The fortune teller said that I was pregnant with a son, how did you promise me, Said that he wanted to send me to the confinement center and said that he wanted me to eat a nutritious meal and said, son, you will bring it, but you see that I gave birth to a daughter, what is the confinement center nutritious breakfast mention is not mentioned, you come to take you and you don't even want to hug me, I don't understand, this is your own son's flesh and blood, is there such a big difference? During the month, you went to play mahjong when you had time, and never got the effect, is there a grandmother like you? Don't talk nonsense, you spent 50,000 yuan in hospital and still want to go to the confinement center, you dream, I can't get used to you spending money lavishly, obviously you don't want your child to eat this body What do you want to do with this body, you want to seduce men, you want women in the world to judge, what is it if your mother has milk and doesn't feed her child? Zhao Fatzi's posture is not right, and he can't persuade him, so he hurriedly walked upstairs to find his father-in-law, Zhang Yulin trembled with anger when he heard the wild man, if it weren't for the child in his hand, he really wanted to rush forward and slap his mother-in-law, he hated a few words popped out from between his teeth, do you think it is reasonable for you to speak to me like this? Don't forget, you also have an early day, hum, I won't count on you when I'm old, this person who can't even be a mother, mother-in-law raised her head high and pointed her chin to Zhang Lin's ass, okay, don't expect you not to count on me, I can't ask for it, I will call my parents directly, let them judge the reasoning, see how you, an elder, talk to me, see if it is appropriate for you to speak like this, as long as you put the child on the table, his mobile phone calls his parents, the rainy season is no longer aggressive, in the face of parents, his arrogance is no longer arrogant, It's pitiful, now I've been greatly wronged outside and complained to my parents, for my parents, my milk is not enough" Zhang's mother shouted on the other end of the phone, my daughter in the middle of the night, I slept with your father, and said what was the urgency, alas, we didn't let you marry you want to marry, you gave the phone to your mother-in-law, I want to criticize a few words, now it is normal for children to eat milk powder, so it really shouldn't be two daughters, but also their own daughters, in the mother-in-law's house suffered such anger, see what he thinks, the phone is turned on speakerphone, Zhang Mo's words came out word for word, his father-in-law also got dressed and went downstairs, Zhao Pan followed behind, his father-in-law and mother-in-law were not in harmony, and they had already slept in separate rooms, public Mingyue, sleeping upstairs prejudice, and not living on the first floor with his mother-in-law, he already understood a few copies in his heart when he went downstairs, Zhengse said, well, why do you talk to Xiaolin's elders don't look like elders, mother-in-law sees that the situation is not right, father-in-law Zhang Yulin's parents are blaming themselves for being wrong, no one is on their side, so they shouted angrily, and Sister Qiyanyan can't hang on her face, Xianglin's sister-in-law, who immediately evolved into a sad relative, you all said that I was wrong, so what should I do? Let me die, this family doesn't need me, I'll go, I'll go, okay, and then I was about to go out with my bag, Zhao Pang was so anxious that he shouted that his mother also stepped forward to try to stop him, and yelled angrily, let her go to a person who is dozens of years old, and played a child's temper, my mother-in-law raised her feet and really walked out, shouting as she walked, I go, I go, you don't care about me, I don't want you to care, I don't expect me to live my own life, I'll go, Zhao Pang is still ready to stop, but, the father-in-law is angry, pointing to the back of his mother-in-law, and leaving when he is angry, Like what to say, stop Zhao Pang again, it doesn't matter, wait for it, see if he dares to go, Zhang Yuling didn't expect her mother-in-law to come here to find it, but he didn't want to stop it anymore, today he has to see his mother-in-law, will he really leave this home, I didn't expect my mother-in-law to go out in the middle of the night and didn't return all night, Zhang Lin didn't dare to think about it, I think my mother-in-law ran away from home because of her own reasons, in case her mother-in-law has three long and two short, he Zhang Yulin can't eat and walks around, after all, his mother-in-law is not heinous, Zhang Lin doesn't change, he doesn't want to hurt his life, The next day, the mother-in-law's phone could not get through, everyone was worried about the disappearance of the mother-in-law, and privately looked for separate actions, the father-in-law went to find his old friend Zhao Pang who played mahjong to find a few old women who played with the mother-in-law, Zhang Yulin This is to go to the mother-in-law's sister, and wait for the relatives to stay at home, it is estimated that they will stay next week, the task is to wait for the mother-in-law to come back and immediately ventilate the news, end this difficult journey of finding a needle in a haystack, but after waiting for two days, no one can be found anywhere, and no trace of the mother-in-law can be found. But it wasn't until the third day when Zhang Yuling walked around from outside the community that she still didn't find her mother-in-law's shadow stone, so she looked up and saw that her sister had already taken her mother-in-law home