This matter is indeed more tricky, and it will not be as simple as imagined to deal with it, just a person who does not understand the internal rules of the Rong family, and can only obey their orders How to make decisions and how to deal with this matter can only cooperate with them.

"Xiaoxiao, are you sure that this is what your parents want to talk to me about?" Thousands of people looked at Rong and asked with a smile.

She nodded seriously, "It should be this, there is nothing else besides this?" Ling Yuxuan and I should have gone to see them, and they shouldn't be able to find anything wrong with us? She was a little distressed, and she didn't understand what kind of medicine her parents wanted to sell in this gourd.

After listening to her words, Wan Qianqian said with some sorrow: "But I may not be able to help with this matter." Did your uncle or aunt tell you what you should do? "She can be a lobbyist in the middle, but I'm afraid she can't do anything. Of course, when it comes to persuading the two of them, she is the best candidate.

"I didn't say anything specific." Speaking of this, Rong Xiaoxiao was a little embarrassed, after all, she always felt that there was too much generation gap with her parents now, and she was not very willing to communicate more with them. When I went to see them, I just looked at them, most of them didn't even eat a meal, they just met and left without saying a few words.

Wan Qianqian glanced at her, and then looked ahead, and she had already arrived downstairs in the mall. She knows in her heart, how many of today's children are willing to communicate with their parents? I'm afraid that this kind of barrier to communication between children and their parents is really incomprehensible, and the only way to do it is to find someone who can act as a medium for them.

"Xiaoxiao, in fact, our parents will be really good for us, but sometimes the method may not be appropriate, we have to understand them more." She can only talk about it now, every family has its own way of getting along, after all, Rong Xiaoxiao has also been treated like that by her parents, and it is understandable that she has palpitations or a certain estrangement.

And it will take a long time to eliminate that barrier.

Therefore, even between people who are close to each other, they can't use too radical methods, otherwise once the injury occurs, some even spend their entire lives unable to eliminate the traces.

Rong Xiaoxiao nodded obediently, "I remember, Sister Qianqian!" "Although Wan Qianqian is not a parent in the traditional sense, she will not give her and Ling Yuxuan any pressure or obstacles in their relationship, but after all, she is also a sister, and she can't be too public, after all, she has to make her happy and like.

Hearing her say this, thousands of hearts are still very happy. For the situation in her family, it is almost the same. But when you wait to eat, you have to get a good understanding of the relationship between her and Ling Yuxuan for the two of them, do you have any plans? Like to marry or not to marry? As long as it's what they really think in their hearts, it's fine.

"What floor is it for food? Shall we go up or do we go shopping first? "This mall hasn't been open for a long time, but there are a lot of people, and it looks quite splendid, and this grade is not low.

Rong smiled and looked at the time, and said directly: "Let's go up to eat first, eat well, continue to shop when we have time, and if not, next time!" "She's really feeling a little hungry, and besides, she has an urge to eat good food when she comes here.

"Good!" The two of them went directly to the sixth floor with all kinds of food from the elevator, first a restaurant, and then found a place and began to sit and wait for the food to be served.

The business here is really booming, there are quite a lot of people around, and the two of them came quite coincidentally, so they sat down, and a few more people came behind, so they naturally had to queue up.

The speed of serving the food is also quite fast, and after a while, the food will also arrive in front of them.

Before eating, Wan Qianqian asked a question, "Xiaoxiao, your relationship with Yu Xuan is so hot, have you ever thought about giving yourself a guarantee?" For example, take a certificate or something? She wanted to make it as easy as possible to ask the question, so the wording had a bit of a hip-hop twist.

Rong smiled when he heard it, and sure enough, he laughed, "Sister Qianqian, I didn't expect that your words would be so humorous." In fact, what do you say has to do with whether there is a certificate or not? There are a lot of people with certificates, but what can they do? ”

What she said is certainly reasonable, and she agrees with this point of view, but it does not represent tradition, and if you want to persuade people to stabilize the relationship, you can't always use the reason in your heart.

At this time, she suddenly felt helpless, in fact, how many people in life now say insincere words and persuade others with reasons that they are not convinced? Can this really be good?

"Xiaoxiao, the certificate really has nothing to do with the relationship, but it has a certain relationship with the child, if you want to register the child now, it also needs to have the marriage certificate of both parents. In addition, in many cases, women are always in a vulnerable group, in order to find a basis for themselves to protect themselves at the legal level. ”

Hearing her words, Rong Xiaoxiao also nodded, "Yes, indeed." So sister, I think women need to be self-reliant, not to find a legal guarantee for themselves. Can the law really guarantee a woman's happiness? ”

Of course, the law only protects some things at the material level, and as for some things at the spiritual level, there are really very few things. The law does not require a person to love another person, nor does it stipulate that once a person is married, he or she must grow old with him/her. It is mostly a reminder of people's responsibilities and obligations.

And if you have responsibilities and obligations to one person, you are destined to fail another person who you love deeply and the other party loves you deeply. That's why this world is full of pain and suffering.

In the name of responsibility and obligation, many people denounce others while can't help but do hurtful things. In many cases, this society is also living in deep suffering.

When that day is clearly stipulated by the law, you don't have to care too much about fame and fortune, and don't hurt anyone in the name of responsibility and obligation, and this society can truly prove it.

If there is love between two people, then cherish each other, love each other, and live together; And once the love is gone, then break up well, as long as it is sincere, it is a mutual understanding breakup, it should be blessed by everyone.

Breaking up is not the cause of a bad life; And the breakup is to make each other's lives better.

After the two of them said that, they couldn't help but be silent, and both of them went through a struggle of ideas, and then said softly: "In fact, to put it bluntly, this society always thinks that women are weak, so there will be many stories, as long as women are really strong and no longer position themselves in the position of the weak, the situation will be different." ”

Indeed, if there were no more vulnerable people in this world, there would be so much harm to me?

After hearing this, the two not only smiled similarly, but it is true, if a woman is strong enough to match a man, why worry about being abandoned by a man?

"Needless to say, our goal now is to get our stomach to taste these delicacies."

The two of them stared at the steaming food on the table, and their eyes lit up. The people regard food as their heaven, and only when they have eaten enough can they have the strength to talk about problems.

"Well, it tastes pretty good!" Wan Qianqian put a bite of crispy tofu in his mouth and ate it excitedly. She feels that in fact, the two are still somewhat similar in some aspects, and in terms of their dedication to love, I am afraid that it can be said to be the same.

Rong smiled and said as he spoke: "Well, the taste of this house is really good, you see that there is also this beef tenderloin, but it is tender." "Both of them are also senior snack goods, and the food is eating and tasting is quite in place.

The dishes were all served, and the two of them chatted while eating, and Wan Qianqian felt that he should still understand the attitude of the two of them towards marriage, so that when Rong Zhongde asked them, he would give his own reasonable advice.

"Xiaoxiao, if the parents want you to get married, do you agree? Have you communicated with Yu Xuan about this? She really didn't ask Ling Yuxuan herself, it seems that she should still care more about him in the future, and some of their thoughts should still be understood.

Rong Xiaoxiao swallowed a mouthful of food, "Sister, didn't I say everything, in fact, what does it matter if you get married or not?" As long as two people really love each other, then they are together well, in case they don't love each other that day, the two of them get together and disperse, go their separate ways, and then go to find their own happiness, isn't it also good? ”

Although Wan Qianqian agreed with her point of view in her heart, she subconsciously felt that such words would definitely not be explained in front of Rong Zhongde and his wife.

She smiled, "Sister knows that you think like this, have you communicated with Yu Xuan?" Many people think like this when they don't love each other enough, but once they meet the right person, the person they think about in their hearts, they want to stay with him, hoping that there is an external force to bind themselves well, and to give themselves a qualitative general! ”

"Sister, how can you think so? Ling Yuxuan is the one I love the most when I grow up to be so big. But I feel that the more I love him, the more I must give him enough space to live freely. I did communicate with Ling Yuxuan about this question, he is a bit traditional and wants to get married. Both of us will respect each other's point of view. ”

She felt that thousands of words were a bit absolute, who could say that love must firmly trap each other?