In the fourth chapter, it is the mother-in-law who is in charge

The life after marriage is quite peaceful, and the family is also very hardworking, going out early and returning late every day, operating a few acres of production land.

The chemical factory where Song Ziyang works is a private enterprise, which has not been established for a long time, and the benefits are not very good, and Song Ziyang has no sense of responsibility to do things, so the factory stopped the work for him, and Yang Cuiping is not clear about the specific situation. Song Ziyang has not gone to work, as if he has been removed from the factory.

At that time, the gap between urban and rural areas was very large, and it was difficult for rural households to find a job, and the recruitment condition of the chemical plant was to pay 1,500 yuan before they could enter the factory to work, and many rural families tried every possible way to find a job for their children, but many families could not come up with 1,500 yuan.

Song Ziyang made a lot of noise at home, and instead of forcing his parents to make money for him, his father-in-law and mother-in-law hoped that his son could get ahead, so he gritted his teeth and gave him 1,500 yuan.

As a result, he worked in the factory for less than a year and was fired from the factory.

The mother-in-law was not light, and often scolded and scolded, "I didn't let him go at the beginning, he quarreled at home every day, forced him to make money, and his brother also helped him think of a lot of ways to enter the factory, this uncompetitive thing...... "Mother-in-law hates iron and steel, and Song Ziyang is also afraid of his parents, and he doesn't dare to say anything."

Later, the factory also sent someone to the house, who came to ask Song Ziyang for money, saying that Song Ziyang owed the factory thousands of yuan. The person who came said, "If Song Ziyang does not return the money in the factory, he is ready to go through the judicial process and sue Song Ziyang."

Yang Cuiping was a little worried when she heard this, of course, she couldn't get a few thousand yuan.

After a few months, the factory sent several people to the house to ask for money, and the mother-in-law quarreled with them, and the people from the factory couldn't do anything, and then the matter was over. Yang Cuiping asked Song Ziyang why he owed so much money to the factory and what he did for it, Song Ziyang said that he came back with laundry detergent and fertilizer in the factory, and asked his parents to sell them, but his parents sold the goods and did not give him money, so he did not have the money to settle the bill to the factory, Song Ziyang kept saying how much his parents owed him...... Yang Cuiping is not good at asking her mother-in-law, she is worried that her mother-in-law really owes Song Ziyang money for laundry detergent and fertilizer, she went to ask, her mother-in-law scolded, so she never asked her mother-in-law, for several years, I heard from my mother-in-law that all the money was given to Song Ziyang, they spent a lot of money for Song Ziyang's evolution factory, and they were bent on hoping that Song Ziyang could get ahead, who knew that he lost his job and owed so much money to the factory. At that time, Yang Cuiping knew that it was Song Ziyang who spent the money outside.

But it's been a few years since the incident, so what if you know?

There is no work, and I can only stay at home all day and do farm work with my parents, my mother-in-law scolds Huai all day long, and scolds Yang Cuiping together, Yang Cuiping is also aggrieved, and she doesn't know these things.

Yang Cuiping also thinks from her mother-in-law's point of view, and she also understands her mother-in-law's mood very well, so she also tries to do more things, talk less, and don't make her mother-in-law angry. Yang Cuiping thought, since she has become a family, then live a good life, although this family is not as good as her own mother's family, it is also her own choice, whether it is good in the future depends on her own acceptance, since it is a family, you have to get along with them. Yang Cuiping has always believed that (if you want others to cherish yourself, you must first cherish others). So Yang Cuiping thinks about them everywhere, never talks nonsense, is so cautious, and everything is fine.

A lot of vegetables are planted in the field, Yang Cuiping and Song Ziyang water at home together every day, mother-in-law and sister-in-law go to sell vegetables every day, and there are a lot of silkworms at home. During that time, Yang Cuiping was pregnant, but she still insisted on getting up in the middle of the night every day to feed the silkworms. To be honest, Yang Cuiping has never done much work in her parents' family, and after getting married, she doesn't want her parents-in-law to be unhappy, so she has always insisted on doing more.

This family is the mother-in-law in charge. The mother-in-law has a very strong personality, and she has to say everything. My sister-in-law also has a weird personality, and she doesn't care if she hurts people when she speaks, whether you can stand it or not, she has to say it. Where the family goes out, they never greet their families, they leave directly where they want to go, sometimes, they don't come back for a day, you don't know where she is doing at all, you can't come back for dinner, and when she comes back in the evening, she knows where she went and what she did, and my sister-in-law is the same, sometimes I went out for two days before I came back, and the family didn't know where she went, and when I came back, I said, I went to the same school.

My sister-in-law is very bold, often I don't see her come back very late at night, I want to go to her, but I don't know where she is doing anything, and I don't come back until midnight, I know that she went to other people's fields to steal mulberry leaves, and she is not afraid when it is so dark.

Mother-in-law also has no plan to work, the morning is cool, she is at home here and there, can not go out, at noon the weather is very hot to work outside, in the afternoon not early to go out, at night and can not go home, often it is very dark, only to go home, and to take the cow, and to carry things, and so back, the key or something forgot on the mountain, and ran up the mountain to get it, and when it came back, it was more than night. When she came back and saw that everyone else was at home, she would curse. This was the case for almost three days. Mother-in-law has no clue about work, so she didn't finish it, and she went to do two things, and she didn't finish it and did three things, and as a result, she put a flat where she was, and she didn't do anything well, and her father-in-law often scolded her when she got angry, and her mother-in-law also had a thick heart, thinking that she was very good at work, as if the mountains could be carried back. As a result, I didn't make a name for myself.

At first, Yang Cuiping was very unaccustomed to it, and she was also very worried about her, afraid that she would not be able to see and fall, so she asked Song Ziyang to pick her up, but Song Ziyang didn't go, and after a long time, she realized that her mother-in-law was so used to it, you can't change her at all, her family knows her like this, and they don't care about her.

Yang Cuiping is not used to working outside at night, as soon as it gets dark, she has to go home early to cook, and her mother-in-law often comes back late, so she scolds the pig and the dog, and Yang Cuiping does not dare to say anything, so she scolds.

One day, a person suddenly came to the house, saying that he was a friend of Song Ziyang and came to play with him, Song Ziyang left with him, and he didn't tell anyone in the family where he went, and he didn't come back until the next day, and after a few days, that person came again, and Song Ziyang left with him again. Later, that person often came to the house to find Song Ziyang, Yang Cuiping thought he was doing something outside, sometimes he came back for a few days when he went out, and came back to ask him where he was doing something, he would say here, and then he would say there, Yang Cuiping was very angry, wanted to talk about him, and was afraid that others would say that she had offended her friend. Later, that person came again, and the mother-in-law scolded the person, scolded the person directly, and scolded the person away, and that person didn't come to find Song Ziyang.

Later, Yang Cuiping learned that that person was a gangster, who had nothing to do all day long, was idle, stole chickens and dogs, and bragged. Later, I heard that the man had been imprisoned for robbery and had not been heard from for many years.

My mother-in-law and sister-in-law went to sell vegetables every morning. Yang Cuiping is far away from her mother's house, and she has no friends she knows, so she has no place to go, so she can only stay at home and work, and after a year, her mother-in-law does not give Yang Cuiping and Song Ziyang a penny of pocket money, and she wants to buy things but has no money, so she only bought Song Ziyang a pair of slippers at the stall in the summer, two yuan and five cents, two vests, and two yuan and five cents a piece. Yang Cuiping wore clothes brought from her parents' home.

Yang Cuiping wanted to buy socks, so Song Ziyang said to his mother, "Yang Cuiping has no socks to wear, you give her some money, and she will buy a pair of socks." The mother-in-law gave Yang Cuiping ten yuan, and at the same time gave her sister-in-law ten yuan, she said that she treated Yang Cuiping like a daughter.

In fact, my sister-in-law sells vegetables every day, sells grain at home, and sells piglets, all of which are handled by my sister-in-law, and my sister-in-law is not short of money at all.

As long as it is related to money, Song Ziyang and Yang Cuiping will not be allowed to handle it. Song Ziyang's hair was very long, so he asked his mother for money to get a haircut, at that time, a man's haircut was eight cents, and his mother-in-law only gave him eight cents, and he wouldn't give a penny more. The food at home is bought back by my mother-in-law, laundry detergent and toilet paper, very little each time, laundry detergent only buys half a catty of orchid brand, every time I wash my clothes, there is no more, and often a lot of clothes are piled up and can not be washed. My sister-in-law is very ghostly, and every time she hides a little laundry detergent and secretly washes her own clothes. My sister-in-law often secretly sells the family's food and secretly saves money.

Yang Cuiping was pregnant, and she had no money to buy anything she wanted to eat, so there were four pot-bellied women on a team that year, and when she saw others buying fruit to eat, she wanted to eat it herself, but she didn't dare to say it. was six months pregnant and had a very small belly, Song Ziyang's sister-in-law took Yang Cuiping to check it once, saying that the nutrition did not keep up, the child in the belly was very small, and Yang Cuiping didn't dare to say it when she came back, but the sister-in-law listened to what the sister-in-law said, and the sister-in-law came back and said, "My sister has a very small child in her belly, and she said that the nutrition has not kept up." As soon as she finished speaking, her mother-in-law's face suddenly fell, "Eat, eat, it's a big deal, I'll lend you a loan to eat." ”