Chapter 6, The Best Mother-in-law,
The mother-in-law has a strong personality.
Yang Cuiping has been married for half a year only to find out that no one here has spoken to her mother-in-law's family. Yang Cuiping was very strange and asked Song Ziyang, "They all live in the same bay, why don't these people greet your mother when they meet your mother at the end of the road?" Song Ziyang said, "None of the people in this bay talk to them," Yang Cuiping asked why, and Song Ziyang said that her mother-in-law often quarreled with the people in the bay.
At first, the people in the bay will not talk to Yang Cuiping when they see Yang Cuiping, Yang Cuiping takes the initiative to greet every time she meets someone in the bay, and slowly the people in the bay talk to Yang Cuiping, Yang Cuiping often chats with them, these aunts and sisters-in-law will say: "We dare not play with you, for fear that your old wife will scold you when she sees it," many people said this, and said it a few times, Yang Cuiping said, "Why", they said, your old wife is unreasonable, she will think that we are provoking you.
At first, Yang Cui was a little unconvinced, but later it was indeed like this.
After a long time, Yang Cuiping learned that her mother-in-law had a bad relationship with a team member.
The grandparents' family lives in Shangwan, and the mother-in-law's house is a mile away from the grandparents' house and lives in Xiawan. In the past, when my mother-in-law was not separated from her grandparents, she also lived in Shangwan, and at that time, she often quarreled with people in Shangwan. Mother-in-law has a strong personality, and likes to be greedy for small gains, when she sees others better than her, she is red-eyed, and she always likes to encroach on other people's points. Many people in the team said to Yang Cuiping, "Whose land, fields, and hillsides, as long as it is next to her house, you will be unlucky." "I'm always fighting for boundaries with others. My mother-in-law always gossiped about others, and she used to work in a large group and often gossip with others.
Later, my mother-in-law and my grandparents separated, so they built the house in Xiawan, and the people in Shangwan said, "This plague god is finally a little far away from us, and we will be quiet in Shangwan in the future." ”
The house moved to Xiawan, and the relationship with the people in Xiawan was not bad at first, and it didn't take long for a quarrel to occur.
There is a family in front of the house, and the daughter-in-law of this family also has a strong personality, and she and her mother-in-law are steel-on-steel-on-iron, often quarreling, and even fighting.
There are several families in Xiawan, all of them are a large family surnamed Wang, there are four brothers in this family, and the mother-in-law's house is the eldest daughter-in-law, who often quarrels with her mother-in-law, sometimes for several days in a row, until her throat is hoarse, she can't speak, and she only sees her mouth moving, so she stops.
The eldest daughter-in-law had heart disease and went to the hospital several times, and the doctor said that she couldn't be angry. But her mother-in-law didn't care about this, and still didn't let go of her troubles. As a result, the eldest daughter-in-law's condition became more and more serious, and she died not long after, leaving three children, the eldest in his teens and the younger only a few years old.
People surnamed Wang said that the eldest daughter-in-law was angry with Yang Cuiping's mother-in-law. Yang Cuiping's mother-in-law was also ashamed, and she didn't dare to pass by the grave of this eldest daughter-in-law for several years. (The grave of the eldest daughter-in-law is buried on the side of the road)
There is also a family surnamed He in Xiawan, who is the daughter of the Wang family and the son-in-law of the recruitment. The He family has three daughters, Song Ziyang used to like the second daughter of the He family very much, and the family didn't meet it, but Song Ziyang's parents didn't know how to do things, or they wanted to play tricks, anyway, no one looked for an introducer to come to the door to propose, but there were several times to invite the He family to come to the house for dinner, and the invitation was very enthusiastic, the He family thought that the Song family was going to marry their daughter, but they had dinner at night and didn't mention anything, and the meals were usually eaten by the way. The He family got angry when they went back, and they didn't officially propose marriage anyway, so they promised their daughter to another family in Shangwan, and the Shangwan family was also powerful, and the mother-in-law didn't dare to provoke, so she made a feud with the He family, and often quarreled with the He family without incident, so everyone in Xiawan had hatred with her mother-in-law.
My mother-in-law's family is all alone, borrowing from the east and borrowing from the west, and they all go to Shangwan's grandfather's house to get it.
Grandparents and grandparents have also separated from their brother Li Guoqing.
Yang Cuiping's mother-in-law and father-in-law often secretly went to her grandmother's house in the middle of the night to carry her grandfather's food back.
Yang Cuiping had just gotten married, and a few times she saw them coming back from grandma's house carrying millet and corn, so she asked them, "How do you go to grandpa's house to carry grain?" The mother-in-law said, "It's borrowed from grandma's house," Yang Cuiping was puzzled, so she asked Song Ziyang, Song Ziyang said, "They often steal grandpa's food, and I have said it many times, telling them not to do this, they want to steal." Song Ziyang said to his parents again, "Don't go to grandpa's house to carry food anymore, if there is no food at home, if you want to borrow it, you have to borrow it to the bright place, borrowing is borrowing, and it is repaying." But the father-in-law said, "Babies, grandma's things are not taken for nothing." ”
Yang Cuiping couldn't get used to these sneaky things, and these grains were stolen by her grandmother from her brother Li Guoqing's house, and Yang Cuiping didn't dare to say it, for fear of causing trouble.
In fact, my brother and sister-in-law also knew that they often stole their things, but there was no evidence, so they didn't make a fuss. Later, my brother lied to my mother-in-law and asked my mother-in-law if she had stolen their food, but her mother-in-law definitely didn't admit it, so my brother said that it was Yang Cuiping who told them.
Since then, her mother-in-law has been stealing things from her grandfather's house, and she won't let Yang Cuiping know. But Yang Cuiping often found that they came back with the things they carried in the middle of the night, and asked her mother-in-law, but her mother-in-law said that they bought it.
Yang Cuiping's mother-in-law often goes to other people's fields in the middle of the night to get other people's crops, and she has also been bumped into by others, but she is not bumped into by the main family herself, and others will not say it, so no one has ever troubled her, but the people in the team hate her.
My mother-in-law likes to tie up officials and rich people, and looks down on people who are worse than her, as long as the cadres and rich people work at home, she will take the initiative to help. If she can't compare to her people, she will find trouble and scold others.
Yang Cuiping's clothes and diapers during confinement were washed by her sister-in-law, so Yang Cuiping gave her sister-in-law a few clothes and a mid-length coat, Yang Cuiping's clothes were all worn when she was in her parents' house before, and they were all good clothes. My sister-in-law is usually reluctant to buy clothes, and she doesn't wear them very well, many of the clothes are old clothes given by the workers in the factory, and my sister-in-law has never worn a coat.
My sister-in-law is not particular, and the room where she lives is not tidy, and the quilts and sheets on the bed are very old.
Yang Cuiping said to Song Ziyang, "When a girl is older, she should dress better, her room should be tidy, and her bedding should be clean and tidy, so as not to make people laugh." Who knew that Yang Cuiping said this to Song Ziyang, and Song Ziyang didn't discuss it with Yang Cuiping, so he took the bed sheet cover from Yang Cuiping's mother's family and gave it to her sister-in-law. Yang Cuiping was angry and said, "These should be your parents' affairs, how can you take my things to your sister?" You didn't buy it for me, it's my dowry, and there are only two sets, and I can't use them myself. Song Ziyang said: "I am just a sister, I want to be kind to her, I have already given it all, forget it." Yang Cuiping didn't want to be unhappy because of this matter, so she swallowed her anger and forgot it, but she felt uncomfortable.
Yang Cuiping has just reached the full moon, and it is the Chinese New Year, which is Yang Cuiping's second year in the Song family. Because the child has just reached the full moon, Yang Cuiping did not go back to her parents' house for the New Year, because she licked a grandson at home, and she lived a harmonious life this year.