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Xiao Wentian didn't realize that this matter had something to do with her at this moment, at most, she just thought that her mother and father might have some opinions on some situations at home, and wanted to ask her for some ideas.

After Wen Xin expressed some worries in his heart, he asked, "Do you think that the relationship between your mother and Aunt Qian Bing is your best understanding of friendship?" ”

After hearing these words, Wen Tian realized that these things still had something to do with her!

So Wen Tian nodded without hesitation after seriously thinking about the real answer in her heart: "To tell the truth, before I knew the relationship between my mother and Aunt Qian Bing, I didn't have any opinion on the word friendship, because I didn't feel that my mother had a particularly good friend, so I didn't know what friendship was, but after seeing the friendship between my mother and Aunt Qian Bing, I suddenly had a very solidified understanding of the word friendship." ”

After Qian Bing heard this, he immediately replied: "Have you ever thought that this kind of solidified understanding is likely to limit your understanding of a certain feeling, because not all friendships in the world are like me and your mother, and there are some friendships, they have known each other since childhood, and then they pretend to get along slowly, everyone understands themselves more and more, and they are more and more able to understand each other, and then they have been getting along like this and become best friends, and there are some people who are at the juncture of life and death. It's normal to be sure that each other is each other's best friends, and if you just take the friendship between me and your mother as the standard of friendship, you are likely to make fun of the range of friends you make. ”

At least, in Qian Bing's opinion, the range of circles for making friends will be very large, so if you always use very, very, very good friends, such requirements to ask everyone, it is likely that your social circle will become very narrow.

At least in Qian Bing's opinion, she is a person who can be called half of the entertainment industry, after all, he often does the host of some entertainment programs, and he also knows many people in the entertainment industry, so those can be called her friends, but her best and best friend is only Wen Wen, which is the problem of the circle.

If Xiao Wentian has no way to understand these things, it is very likely that her social scope will be limited because of the unclear division of these circles.

Qian Bing said very seriously, and Wen Tian, who was sitting there, listened very seriously, Wen Tian could understand in her heart what was the reason why her aunt and mother were sitting here today and saying these words to herself, it was nothing more than because they were worried about themselves.

Since they are worried about themselves, she will behave well, and they will not be so worried!

Seeing that Wen Tian listened so seriously, Qian Bing looked at her with a headache after talking about the words she wanted to say, and said, "You can't just listen to you, do you?" You have to understand what Auntie just told you, can you understand what you just said? There is still a difference between bosom friends and good friends, you have many, many friends, but bosom friends may be one or two. ”

Because Xiao Wentian is in a kind of situation, her thinking tends to be more mature than ordinary children, but she has not completely reached the level of adults, so some things may be more troublesome to explain, because if she can't explain it very detailed and clear, it is likely to cause some disgust and opposition in her psychology, and now this result is also a headache for everyone.

After hearing Qian Bing's explanation, Xiao Wentian nodded seriously, and then said, "I know what you mean by these words, Auntie?" You don't have to be in such a hurry, I can understand, how to distinguish the boundary between friends and bosom friends? ”

You can't get along with a friend, and suddenly you become a bosom friend, or a bosom friend, get along with each other and then become a friend, there must always be a boundary between them to distinguish these things, right?

After hearing this, Qian Bing frowned at first, and then said: "You are worried about this matter, in fact, there is nothing difficult to distinguish, if you want to treat it as a friend, she can actually do it, that is, a bosom friend, it must go further than a friend, but you can be friends with him first, you can slowly get along with him and become a bosom friend, once the two of you become bosom friends, you will be the same as me and your mother, although the way you get along, There may still be some differences between us and us, but the possibility of slowly degenerating into friends is actually quite small, and you don't have to worry too much, because you are still young, you feel that there will be a lot of opportunities to make friends, and you will slowly understand, you don't have to be like how I get along with your mother now, and pour out your heart and lungs to each other, because, you are very likely, get along with each other, there will be some small contradictions, and then you don't want to continue to get along, so when you become close friends, It's okay to work each other. ”

Everyone has the boundaries of bosom friends and friends, and this distinction is clearly different, so what Qian Bing has to do now is not to guide him to make mistakes, or to ask him himself to investigate the origin of these things, but what she has to do is to ask Xiao Wentian not to continue to waste too much thought on the matter of friends.

Although it is appropriate to be good to friends, it is more wasteful to be as good as ordinary friends as close friends.

After listening to these words, Xiao Wentian nodded, she seemed to understand something, but she didn't seem to understand everything, so his expression should be very serious, and she didn't look like a child.

After discovering this, Qian Bing couldn't help but smile and said, "Okay, okay, don't have a headache for this kind of thing anymore!" When the time comes, you can continue to ask your mother for help, such as this kind of questions that you don't understand, you can ask him, you just think about some things will be more mature than those children, but after all, you don't have the adult experience, so you can understand what these things are all about, so you just ask your mother, there is nothing to worry about, she will definitely be able to give you a more perfect explanation. ”

Xiao Wentian only has these problems because she is too strong, so she is not used to thinking about her mother for help, and when she gets used to it, she will not have these problems anymore.

After hearing Qian Bing's words, Wen Xin looked at him and said, "Well, about what Auntie told you just now, do you have anything you don't understand, and you want to ask your mother for advice, or ask for advice." ”

After listening to this sentence carefully, she thought about her usual distinction in some things again and again, and then said: "Okay, what I'm more curious about is that if I can't accurately tell whether I should be friends with him or a close friend, then what should I do best?" ”

Wen Tian has a headache for this, because she thinks that her friends should be like her mother and Aunt Qian Bing, but the two of them are now telling themselves that friends also need the difference between ordinary friends and bosom friends, which is difficult for a child to understand even if her mind is more mature.

After hearing Xiao Wen Tian's question, Wen Xin said with a smile: "This matter is actually very easy to solve, you don't have to have too much headache, in fact, before you can't be sure that she can become ordinary friends with you, or true friends, you can get along as ordinary friends, and when the two of you understand each other thoroughly and can be sure that each other is a bosom friend, you are doubly good to him, isn't it all the same?" ”

Before everything is determined, treat him with a normal heart, and wait until it is determined to be doubly good to her, this is actually the best thing to do, at least Wen Xin seems to be the best way to solve the problem, and it will not make Wen Tian feel a headache when he gets along with his friends, and it can also make him easy to solve in the face of these things. Reading, a better reading experience comes from Aiwang.