A few gossips written before the Millennium Singles' Day
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It's funny, Jiu'er has always been an independent person, and has lived by herself since she was a teenager, cooking alone, washing clothes alone, and warming the quilt alone in winter.
Parents have also been quite relieved about Jiu'er in recent years, and basically haven't done anything too tangled after the rebellious period has passed.
Compared with the experience of desperately wanting to betray society and family at the age of thirteen, wandering out with a bag on his back, and finally being sent home by his police uncle, as well as all kinds of jaw-dropping rebellions when he was young, Jiu'er is quite quiet now.
But recently, my parents don't know why, they always like to talk to Jiu'er, and after careful analysis, Jiu'er finally understood, it turned out that the second always felt that Jiu'er's youth was gradually gone, but he was still alone, hiding in the suburbs to do things they couldn't understand, so they were a little anxious, hoping that Jiu'er would get married as soon as possible and raise a big fat boy.
The parents' wish is simple, they just hope that Jiu'er can be the same as other people's children, "You see who other people's children are." This is the most common phrase I heard when I was a child, and it is still in my ears today.
Jiu'er tried to explain to them that living alone was also an attitude to life, but unfortunately Jiu'er's language was too pale for the second elder to understand.
This matter is over, but every time I go home and accidentally talk about a girl I know, my parents can't wait to immediately go to the girl's house to inquire, and when Jiu'er explains that the girl has already married and had children, they have a long sigh.
It's not a white-eyed wolf in Jiu'er, I really don't dare to go home often in such a state, every time I always make it look like entering the game, and finally break up unhappily.
In fact, Jiu'er is a functional and very normal adult man, and like everyone else, he has a good desire to pursue love and happiness.
Jiu'er hasn't changed, but love has changed, it has become extravagant, and she has gradually moved away from life, without any signs of turning back.
For the girl who asked for a house and a car, Jiu'er didn't like it, but understood.
Life is very difficult, we live in a strange era, everyone is insecure, and we can't blame girls for worshipping money, in fact, it's just a fragile soul seeking comfort from material things.
From ancient times to the present, no dynasty has discussed the question of whether the old lady should be supported when she falls.
Now it will.
So it's dangerous now.
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Getting back to the point, we are fortunate enough to live in an incomparably wonderful and incomparably eccentric era, and we happen to coincide with the once-in-a-millennium Singles' Day, which is worth celebrating.
If you happen to be alone again, then congratulations, you have won the lottery, and it will be a feast to remember.
Do something to commemorate it, such as making an appointment with someone of the opposite sex you've always liked.
If you can't succeed, you have to try it, if you have the courage to live, will you be afraid of these?
Jiu'er prayed that all those who saw this long-winded would be happy.
Single or not.
This is the biggest wish on Singles' Day!
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Finally, I have to ask everyone for routine ***, subscription support, Jiu'er ***.
Recalling that the first half of my life was actually quite exciting, I went back and wrote an essay for everyone to laugh at.
recalled the proposition essay when he was a child, [When I grew up], Jiu'er wrote an article very awesomely, saying that he wanted to be a diver, and now it seems that this wish is more luxurious than love.
Recalling that relationship, it ended in winter.
Maybe it's Singles' Day coming, why are there so many memories?
Depend on!