Warm flowers (5) [Long comment] How can bear paws and shark fins be both

Changqing finally decided to give up Feng Jue. Changqing did the right thing. If you love each other, you can't help but think a little about each other. Feng's family, especially his mother, did not accept her at all, as the text said, a marriage that was not blessed by her parents was a flaw. Unless both of them have no heart and lungs, unless they don't care about their parents. After all, marriage is the union of two families, not like love. In fact, as long as there are parents, there will always be a difficult relationship between parents and lovers, and there will always be one partner who is always in a dilemma. Even if such a marriage is married, how can it be completely sweet?

Things are always like this in the world, and it's hard to have both bear paws and shark fins. Of course, Feng is not bad, on the contrary, he is a very responsible man, but what can he do? He is a filial child, Changqing loves Feng, how can he be desperate to ignore his parents' feelings and make him so embarrassed? And even if Changqing and Kong broke away from the father-daughter relationship, Kong is also her father, and the scandal also exists. None of this could have happened before

For Feng's mother, in fact, I can understand. Any pair of parents in the world wants their children to live well, and it is undeniable that Changqing's incident has indeed caused resistance to Feng's promotion. Feng Jue understands Changqing, but Feng Ma Feng does not really understand Changqing's personality, in the eyes of outsiders, Changqing grew up in such a family environment, either has psychological problems or is dark, and his heart is deep. As a mother, how could she want her son to marry such a woman? So think about it from another perspective, it is understandable for Feng's mother to do this. It's nothing more than a different position. I think any mother in the world wants her son to be well.

As for Changqing, she is not wrong. She has her own insistence, how can she give up revenge because of love?

There is a sentence in the article that says it very well. Parents can't choose, and it's the only one. But the lover can choose again. And why hang yourself from a tree? I believe that time is the best healing medicine, and time can dilute everything.

Although I also like Feng, I think what's the point of persevering in this kind of love? This kind of love is too troublesome, and can two people really be so selfish and completely disregard the feelings of others? If you are in pain all day long, it is better to cut through the mess quickly and cut it in two. Besides, if you leave this tree, you will see a forest. If you stick to Feng like this, this kind of love will be too tiring and tiring.

I believe that with the passage of time, Changqing will eventually find happiness that belongs to her.

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