Rejecting people is an art!

Chen Qiang once rejected a relative, who was a distant cousin of Chen Qiang, who had basically never met!

Chen Qiang only vaguely remembers seeing it once when he was eight years old!

It was a person that Chen Qiang should call his cousin, and their family was going to travel to Luancheng, and later after knowing that Chen Qiang was in Luancheng, they were going to Nancheng Garden to borrow it for a few days!

Originally, this cousin only said that there was one person, but it didn't matter if Chen Qiang thought about it, and later said that there were four people!

Chen Qiang could only explain that he couldn't live at home, and the quilt was not enough, so it was recommended to simply stay in a hotel, and Chen Qiang could be responsible for helping to set it!

Chen Qiang didn't expect that his sincerity would be misunderstood by his cousin as not wanting to receive them!

Later, Chen Qiang learned from his father that his cousin was angry because of this, and every time he called to greet him during the holidays, he would not call Chen Dezhi!

The family also blamed Chen Qiang for not being flexible enough to handle things, so Chen Qiang was very depressed for a few days!

Later, after he was busy with work, Chen Qiang forgot about it!

However, after Chen Qiang became a secretary, he learned that there are 100,000 ways to reject people, but unfortunately Chen Qiang used the stupidest one, that is, to tell the truth!

Chen Qiang later discovered that there are many ways to reject a person, specifically it varies from person to person!

The most unsuccessful of Chen Qiang's rejection is Jiang Xiaoxiao, because Jiang Xiaoxiao knows Chen Qiang too well, no matter how calm Chen Qiang is, Jiang Xiaoxiao can still find information from between his teeth!

However, after Chen Qiang arrived at the district committee, he still successfully refused once!

Jiang Xiaoxiao has been wandering around the Luannan District Government for a long time, the Nancheng Old City Renovation Project, Zhongheng Technology, the Southern New Town, and the Smart City, Jiang Xiaoxiao's figure can be seen everywhere!

"Chen Qiang, you also came to work at the district committee office?" Jiang Xiaoxiao asked!

"You should have known about it a long time ago, right, and there is something else to hide from you?" Chen Qiang replied!

"I'm busy right now!" Jiang Xiaoxiao said!

"You can see it!" Chen Qiang replied!

"Is Secretary Chen here?" Jiang Xiaoxiao asked!

"You have to ask Wu Cheng about this!" Chen Qiang said!

"That's it!" Jiang Xiaoxiao said!

"I don't know, I just came back for a while!" Chen Qiang said!

"You've become cunning!" Jiang Xiaoxiao said!

"I'm just telling the truth! You're thinking too much! Chen Qiang said!

"Now that no one is here, why hasn't Secretary Chen promoted you yet?" Jiang Xiaoxiao whispered!

Chen Qiang didn't reply!

"I'm going to make a document right away, and I'll talk to you later!" Chen Qiang said!

"Ignore me, I'll go find Wu Cheng!" Jiang Xiaoxiao went to the next office after speaking!

Chen Qiang was relieved, Jiang Xiaoxiao's questioning with firepower at any time is easy for people to leak flaws!

But fortunately, Chen Deyuan happened to be really not there, which also verified Chen Qiang's statement that he had just come back, otherwise if Jiang Xiaoxiao found out that Chen Qiang was dishonest, it would be even more difficult for Chen Qiang to refuse Jiang Xiaoxiao in the future!

Chen Qiang actually just came back from Liu Changfei's office, and he really didn't know Chen Deyuan's situation!

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After Chen Qiang became a secretary, in addition to rejecting Jiang Xiaoxiao, a mobile fortress who was "active" every day, he also needed to accurately judge and refuse unnecessary troubles in time!

The first is the question of the feast! This mainly refers to the corporate banquet secretary, especially Wu Cheng, Shi Dawei and Chen Qiang!

Some companies will break down individually, and he will run to Chen Qiang's office and say:

"Secretary Chen, are you free at night? I asked Secretary Wu and Secretary Shi to have dinner together, please join in! The person in charge of a company said!

"I'm not going, there's something going on at night!" Chen Qiang replied!

"Secretary Wu and Secretary Shi are also going, it's the holiday, let's get in touch with the feelings! Nothing! The person in charge of a company said!

Chen Qiang smiled faintly after hearing this!

Because Chen Qiang and Wu Cheng are very familiar with each other, Wu Cheng obviously has to work overtime to complete Chen Deyuan's speech the next day in the evening, how can he have time to go out to eat!

So Chen Qiang judged that the other party must have lied!

"I really can't go because of something, thank you for your kindness!" Chen Qiang said!

In fact, Chen Qiang didn't have anything to do, but he knew that this company would definitely ask for something when he invited the three secretaries of them to dinner, or it would be better not to go!

The second is the issue of receiving gifts! If Chen Qiang was in the office, he would definitely not accept it!

However, Chen Qiang remembered that when Li Zhongheng gave Liu Changfei something, Chen Qiang didn't know at all, Chen Qiang had no experience at all!

When Chen Qiang leaves the office, Chen Qiang occasionally receives some anonymous gifts!

Chen Qiang opened it and saw that it must have been given to the leader, because it was a cigarette, and Chen Qiang was a non-smoker!

This kind of gift is not claimed or sent a message, it is an income that cannot be accounted for!

Therefore, Chen Qiang resolutely asked the leader to send another person to sit in an office with him in the office!

Chen Qiang asked the newcomer to pay special attention to the problem of such strangers' visits!

But no matter how you do it, some problems still exist!

The third is the question of visits! There are often people who come to meet Liu Changfei!

There are people who need to do things, there are people who need to intercede, there are people who need to greet by the way, and all kinds of situations are very complicated!

Except for those who came to find it temporarily, most people would contact Chen Qiang in advance and come to see Liu Changfei after making sure that Liu Changfei was free!

For those who came to Liu Changfei temporarily, unless Liu Changfei originally mentioned it, or Chen Qiang judged that it belonged to someone Liu Changfei was willing to see, ordinary people Chen Qiang would help him block out!

For those who make an appointment to come and ask for a meeting, Chen Qiang generally does not agree immediately, in principle, he will report to Liu Changfei first, and Liu Changfei will notify the other party to come over at the appointed time after confirmation!

For the person Liu Changfei wants to meet, Liu Changfei will take the initiative to determine the time! For people he doesn't want to see, Liu Changfei often doesn't express his opinion, or directly refuses, so Chen Qiang needs to find a reason to reject the other party!

This is a more tedious job, among the people who need to refuse, there are department leaders, distant cousins, classmates and friends, everyone comes for a different purpose, and Liu Changfei's intimacy is also different!

Chen Qiang needs to be ready to refuse the other party for about ten reasons at any time!

Some distant relatives who want to come over to set up relationships to do business, Chen Qiang will generally treat them politely and refuse tactfully, but he can't agree anyway! Some have to wait in the office, Chen Qiang will also text message to remind Liu Changfei, and in the end, Liu Changfei will decide how to deal with it!

Some department leaders see that the time for the change of office is up, and want to come and walk around, Chen Qiang will generally judge whether it is within the visible range according to the work relationship, if there is no reason to meet, Chen Qiang will help Liu Changfei block it!

If classmates and friends ask to see, unless Liu Changfei tells them alone, Chen Qiang will all refuse politely!

Chen Qiang felt that Liu Changfei was sometimes a little unkind, but he felt that if he didn't refuse, he would have more trouble in the future!

Chen Qiang is a little worried about his future!

It's that I'm already a little unkind, at least I haven't had a party with my classmates and friends for a long time!

Is it Chen Qiang who is afraid of being troubled, or Chen Qiang really doesn't have time, or is he afraid that he won't be able to resist the pleas of many people and end up violating his principles! Chen Qiang can't say clearly!