Chapter 2 The child will be handed over to you to raise
"I won't hide it from you, originally Qianbin meant to give it to the sixteenth and sixteenth daughters-in-law to raise, after all, the ring under the knees of the sixteenth couple is also small, and they happen to be companions with An'er. Old Madam Tao said in a low voice, "And the sixteenth couple is not very valued, An'er raising them under their knees is less eye-catching than raising you and nineteen." But...... I advise her to leave it to you! ”
"Because I don't want Qianbin's only bone and blood to be wronged again!"
Mrs. Tao suffered a great blow due to the death of Xiao Tao, and when she stood by the cradle and said these few words, she felt tired, and she walked to the edge of the couch and sat down, before continuing, "The sixteenth daughter-in-law is a smart person, but it's a pity that her life experience is ...... Sixteen is far less proud of the brothers than nineteen. An'er raises them, and they can treat An'er well. However, if others want to be embarrassed, they may not be able to stop it. You know that our family is very important, especially the Yuan Match! It is impossible for you starlings not to remarry, and An'er will inevitably hinder his stepmother's eyes in the future, I think about it, I want him to grow up in peace, and it is definitely better to give you and nineteen to raise than to give it to sixteen couples! ”
The old lady didn't say why Xiao Tao asked to hand over his son to his uncle to raise before he died, and this reason doesn't need to be said at all - not to mention the consistent chaos in Jiangyadan's backyard, just say that the ladies outside the side who have "ask to enter the door" written on their faces are enough to prove the danger of An'er's situation!
If this child is put in the backyard of Jiangya Dan to be raised, it is estimated that someone will be sent down to be the companion of Xiao Tao in a few minutes!
And Xiao Tao is the eldest daughter-in-law of the fourth room, and her son wants to ask someone to raise her, so she is naturally considered from the two younger uncles in the fourth room.
In the mind of Mrs. Tao, it is well known that Jiang Yashuang is the grandson who is most valued by Qin Guogong, and Qiu Yulan is notoriously spicy. Both of these couples are recognized as not easy to mess with, and with their tempers, if they raise Xiao Tao's son, Jiang Yadan's stepfamily will definitely not end well!
But Jiang Ya Zhu and his wife ...... But there is no strong confidence.
However, An'er was handed over to Qiu Yulan and his wife to raise, although it was very beneficial to An'er, but it was not necessarily for Qiu Yulan and his wife.
Mrs. Tao also did not shy away from saying: "It is very troublesome to raise such a young child, you have not given birth to it yet, even if you have the help of mothers, you will definitely be in a hurry." And if you are not your mother, no matter what you do, it is inevitable that someone will pick and choose and think that you are not dedicated enough, and this is only now; When you have your own children, there will be more gossip by then. With nineteen talents, in the next four rooms, only you starlings begged you, and without you begging him, raising this child would not have any affection in front of your starlings! So, it's reasonable that you don't accept him! ”
Qiu Yulan bit her lip: "Grandmother said it here, and granddaughter-in-law won't go around in circles with you!" The eighth sister-in-law's worries and granddaughter-in-law are also clear, and the granddaughter-in-law is very willing to share the worries of the eighth sister-in-law! ”
paused, "It's just that my granddaughter-in-law has never been a mother, and I'm worried that I won't be able to raise An'er!" ”
This is the truth - she has never raised a child at all, and the premature mortality rate of children, especially boys, has remained high these days, and she was simply stunned when she suddenly handed over An'er to her!
"As long as you are willing to raise him, I will solve other things for you!" Old Madam Tao rubbed her forehead and said flatly, "After all, I won't ask you to do your best...... What do you think? ”
Qiu Yulan pondered for a while, and resolutely bowed her head: "Granddaughter-in-law will do her best!" ”
“…… Go ahead, tell Nineteen about this! Old Madam Tao breathed a sigh of relief and waved her hand, "He should agree, but I have to say no?" ”
After Qiu Lulan left, Mother Hu quietly entered the inner room and asked in a low voice, "Have you told the Nineteenth Young Lady about this now?" The old slave felt that it was a little early. ”
"How can it be early?" Old Madam Tao, who was staring at the cradle, frowned.
"The nineteenth young lady has never given birth yet, where would she raise such a big child?" Hu's mother persuaded, "Especially if it's not her own child!" Even though I thought of the love with the eighth young lady and took Sun Gongzi over, but the children are noisy and noisy, and it may be annoying to come a few more times! It's better to raise it with us, so that it is easy to take it, and then give it to her! ”
Old Madam Tao shook her head and said, "You don't understand! Feelings come out of place, and the old saying says that there is no grace in raising grace, and this is the truth! An'er will be handed over to her to raise within a few days of landing, even if she is annoyed in the middle, she will naturally forget when the child is sensible in the future! If you get a good belt with me...... Even if it's just a full week - you want to spoil her so much at nineteen, she doesn't even have a concubine, and she's been married for almost two years, maybe there will be news in a few days...... How could An'er still send it over in that case? ”
Then when she gives birth and has her own child, even if she takes An'er over at that time, her attention will be on her own child! How much care can An'er have when it's his turn? ”
"So I have to leave it to her now - save up her feelings while she doesn't have a child of her own and can take care of An'er wholeheartedly! In this way, even if she has her own flesh and blood in the future, she will not treat An'er poorly! ”
Mother Hu still felt that it was a little early: "But it's not all the nineteen young ladies over there, and the nineteenth young lady is watching - the nineteenth young lady has always respected the eighth young lady, and he will never watch the eighth young lady's blood and blood be wronged!" The old slave is afraid that the nineteenth young lady will not be able to bring Sun Gongzi. ”
"Nineteen has to be on an errand, maybe he watches the children in the backyard every day?" Old Madam Tao smiled bitterly, "Otherwise, why do I know that An'er will be raised by their husband and wife, as long as I mention this to Nineteen, he will agree!" But he still obtained the consent of the nineteenth daughter-in-law first and asked her to notify the nineteenth? Even if Nineteen takes An'er over, the main one who takes care of An'er must be the nineteenth daughter-in-law - as for saying that she won't take care of the child, you don't have to worry about this, the mother Zhou in her marriage is Princess Ruan's nursing mother, that is to bring up Princess Ruan and her old man, will she bring An'er well? ”
sighed, "Qiu Jinglan is used to this sister like something, do you think that he will forget to care about the care of his nephew after he is born far away in the western frontier?" If he hadn't had confidence in this Zhou's mother, he would have already looked for good people to arrange for him to enter the house! So if the nineteenth daughter-in-law can't bring An'er well, it means that An'er's blessing is not enough, it's not that she can't bring it, or she doesn't do it wholeheartedly...... Do you understand? ”
Mother Hu saw the warning in her eyes and bowed her head: "The old slave is guilty!" ”
"Nineteen and his wife are not stupid, they have no benefit in raising An'er, but they are both worried and responsible, and they have to explain to Xiaoba when they go back!" Old Madam Tao said tiredly, "If you pay so much and are still chewing your tongue behind your back, anyone will be unhappy!" Especially An'er was begged by them on behalf of Qianbin, if you know that we all doubt whether the nineteenth daughter-in-law will raise him well...... Do you think she can not turn her face? What should I do if I cry in front of Nineteen and complain about my grievances, so I simply treat An'er badly in private? ”
Qiu Lulan is not An'er's own mother, Xiao Tao, and has the quality of an excellent daughter-in-law who is obedient. If she knew what Mother Hu said, Mrs. Tao would definitely not give up!
Mrs. Tao easily planned a future for An'er, but she didn't want to be disturbed by Mother Hu's confusion!
Mother Hu knelt down sweatingly: "Old slave...... The old slave didn't dare anymore! ”
"Get up and talk!" Seeing that Mother Hu had been beaten enough, Mrs. Tao said lightly, "Xiao Ba will have to continue sooner or later, and I have to send An'er to the knees of the nineteenth couple as soon as possible, otherwise the newcomer will pass the door and pat Xiao Ba in front of him, and things will be difficult to handle - in the end, Xiao Ba is An'er's father, and he is the most qualified person to support him." How can I hand over An'er to the nineteen couples without hurting the face on both sides, and the total number of good lives will be ......"
The reason why An'er was raised by Qiu Yulan and his wife was finally determined to be an ethereal life problem: this child's life is inherently unsuitable for biological parents to raise!
In order to prevent his stepmother from carrying him back after entering the door, and in order to solve Qiu Yulan's worries, Mrs. Tao was ruthless and asked the person who gave her life to add a sentence that was almost a curse: If this child is forced to be hugged back to his parents, he will definitely not be able to raise it! Give it to your uncle and aunt to raise, and there is still a glimmer of hope!
In this way, no matter how much the future stepmother wants to show her closeness to Yuan's sister-in-law, she has to go around him, otherwise she will be suspected of deliberately wanting him to die! And Qiu Lulan can also put his mind at ease to raise his nephew, because An'er is only a glimmer of life when he is handed over to his uncle and aunt to raise - so it is a big life to feed him, and it is his own life to raise him to death, not that his uncle and aunt did not raise it well!
Qiu Yulan has no opinion on this, she is busy decorating An'er's house, preparing to take over the raising of her nephew. It's too late to ask Sheng Shuishui, Zhou's mother and others all day long, how can I have the time to take care of other things - anyway, Mrs. Tao promised that she would solve it, and she was very relieved about the old lady's methods.
Jiang Yashuang felt a little inappropriate: "Grandmother, won't it be difficult for An'er to meet with Starling in the future?" This is their father-son relationship? ”
"Your starling is very busy, how many of his heirs can see him often?" Old Madam Tao said lightly, "And the nature of father and son, will your starling still deny him because An'er is raised under your knees?" "It's good to meet Jiang Yadan less! That kind of gentleman, don't teach a good child badly when you see too much!
Mrs. Tao wished that An'er would not have too much contact with her biological father in this life, and that learning from her uncle Jiang Yashuang was the right way!
Jiang Yashuang couldn't say anything about the old lady, but she was uneasy, so she went to Jiang Yadan to explain-but Jiang Yadan really didn't feel angry that she couldn't see her sister-in-law often, and patted him on the shoulder and grinned: "I was thinking that your eighth sister-in-law is gone, and it's not a matter for concubines to raise sisters-in-law." Grandmother is old again, and it is impossible to keep her grandmother with her, so you and your brother and sister can be regarded as solving a problem for me! ”
Without waiting for Jiang Yashuang to speak, Jiang Ya Dan said to himself, "I'm just such a sister-in-law, it's just right to bring you down." It's better to let him learn from you than from me - it's okay for a person like me to have one or two in a family, and if there are too many, then you will have to follow in the footsteps of the Tao family! ”
He himself spoiled the gift of God, and let it go. , but he is not so confused that he is indifferent to his son's future, and he still hopes that his son can become a talent.
Speaking of this, Jiang Yashuang didn't pretend to him: "Then An'er is raised by us, if the starling thinks about him, come and see him alone, it's convenient to go at any time." He deliberately bit the word "alone" and reminded Jiang Yadan that his husband and wife were wary of his undetermined continuation!
In this way, An'er was carried to the knees of Jiang Yashuang and his wife - the Jiang family was clear about the internal reasons, and they all sighed that Xiao Tao's life was hard, and he had been bullied and wronged for many years because he had no children, and it was easy to have a son, and he actually went!
If it weren't for the protection of an old lady Tao, if she went by herself, this son might not be able to survive for long!
Now that it is handed over to the uncle's room, there is Jiang Yashuang's teaching and supervision, and he should be promoted in the future, right? This can be regarded as comforting the spirit of Xiao Tao's in the sky.
An'er's matter gradually subsided with Xiao Tao's burial, and on this day, Qiu Yulan was still struggling to learn the course of taking care of the baby, and the people outside the door hurriedly came to report: Jiang Qizheng is about to give birth! ()