Chapter 217 Seeking Advice (Asking for Pink Tickets)

Mingyu's marriage should indeed be prepared, Ming Fei looked at Tang Sheng without a trace. A sixteen-year-old boy already has a furry beard around his lips, his eyes are clear, his demeanor is solemn, and he looks very pleasing to the eye, but he doesn't know what his character is. It doesn't matter if you love to read and read, but if you become an idiot, you may not be a good candidate for your husband. This kind of man, the peaceful and prosperous times are smooth sailing, if there are any twists and turns, I am afraid that I will not even be able to get food in my mouth. Her little jade can't be handed over to the flowers in this kind of greenhouse.

Tang Sheng and Chen Zhi said goodbye and left, Chen Da*'s grandmother looked at Ming Fei and said in a low voice: "My nephew has been showing off since he was a child, if he can go to the capital to take the exam one day, I hope that Brother Ling will take care of one or two." Although your uncle and aunt are in Beijing, they are elders, not as young as your brother, and he has just passed the palace examination, so he can give him some guidance. ”

Ming Fei smiled heartlessly: "It's rare that my aunt doesn't dislike it." I'm afraid that my brother is stupid and mistakes the cousin of the Tang family. "If you really have the heart, it's good to go to the capital, and you can let Cai Guangting observe and observe.

Chen Da*'s grandmother said: "Where, where." Your brother is the best man in their life, and if he is stupid, he is no smarter than him. Seeing that although Ming Fei was smiling brightly, she didn't seem to have any other thoughts, so she couldn't help but sigh secretly. It seems that what Chen said is true, Mingyu's marriage, these two brothers and sisters are very demanding. Although his nephew thinks it is good, others may not be able to see it.

Grandma Tang saw it on the side, knowing that the other party did not take her son in her eyes, and she was very uncomfortable. But Mingyu is the most suitable daughter-in-law candidate selected by her and Chen Da*Grandma after many times. In the past, I just heard others talk about Mingyu, but today I saw Mingfei's appearance and demeanor, and I was very satisfied, and I felt that my sister was like this, and my sister must not be much worse. Such a suitable candidate, if you give up casually, it is really not cost-effective, and the more cautious the other party, the more it means that the woman is good. Then he stepped forward and said with a smile: "Then it's decided, don't shirk the big * milk when the time comes." ”

Ming Fei smiled and agreed, and everyone got into the carriage.

Chen Da*ma asked Tang Da*ma: "What do you think?" "My mother's family has been getting worse and worse over the years, and I urgently need a daughter-in-law who is good in all aspects to boost her spirit. So picking and choosing, the nephew will not be married at the age of sixteen.

Tang Da * said: "I see that her manners are very good, and I think she will not be bad as a girl." But I feel that she doesn't seem to look down on our Sheng'er...... If you still can't look down on it in the end, isn't it delaying our Sheng'er? ”

Chen Da * smiled and said: "Sheng Er is going to take the township test next year, and it will not be in the past two years." The child is still young, they are so picky, they can't settle for a while, if they really have a suitable candidate, the Chen family's aunt and grandmother will tell us in advance, and it will not be too late for us to make plans. What's more, Sheng Er will participate in the township examination next year, if she can stand out, she will have to take a high look, and then let the Chen family's aunt and grandmother say a few kind words, it may not be impossible. ”

Tang Da * Grandma thought about it for a while, and this is also the reason, so she thought that she had to make Ming Fei's impression of her better first, and then borrowed Chen Da * Grandma's hand several times to ask Ming Fei to go out to play, and the two sides strengthened their understanding without mentioning it.

The group arrived at Cui's mansion in a mighty way, and Cui Min's wife came out to greet everyone. Ming Fei raised her eyes and saw that the old lady Cui, who had been widowed for many years, was only in her early fifties, wearing a dress made of dark red woven gold makeup and satin, wearing a golden phoenix hairpin, showing off her eyes with majesty, standing there steadily, with a kind of momentum, looking like a person who was not easy to fool.

In places where there are many female dependents, there is also a lot of gossip about right and wrong, and after taking a seat, someone in the crowd whispered, "Old Mrs. Cui didn't buy that Miss Shoufu in the past, and I'm afraid she won't be satisfied with this Miss Sun of the Hanlin family." ”

"Today's happy event is simpler, it is better for the Song family to marry their daughter-in-law last month. Their family is still an official, and the Song family is still just a people. ”

Someone said disdainfully: "Can this continuation be compared to the original match?" ”

While speaking, a shout came from outside: "The sedan chair has entered the door!" Everyone's attention was diverted, and the gossip focused on how old the bride is, what she looks like, how her family is, and so on.

In the midst of the complexity, someone pulled Ming Fei's sleeve, Ming Fei turned around, but it was Cui Min's beautiful concubine, who saluted her with a smile and said, "Our eldest lady asked the cousin of the Cai family to go to the back to talk." ”

Ming Fei told Aunt Xue that she took Danxia and the little concubine to the backyard. It's lively in front, and it's quieter the further back you go. Cui Jiji wore a plain blue dress, sat under an osmanthus tree, held a baby in his arms, surrounded by Zhang's mother and others, and a group of people were laughing. Seeing Ming Fei coming, Cui Jiji handed over the baby in his arms to Zhang's mother, and quickly stepped forward to greet Ming Fei: "Cousin, I'm really sorry to delay your meal." ”

Ming Fei thought that her mother died and her father married another, and Cui Jiji was about uncomfortable at this time, and she thought about how to comfort her, but seeing Cui Jiji's calm and natural expression, she didn't mention the past, and cooperated with Cui Jiji to say some words.

Cui Jiji was going to ask Ming Fei about her childhood, and after saying the polite words, Zhang's mother smiled: "Our young lady wants to ask my cousin for advice." ”

Cui Jiji shyly pulled the sleeve of Lazhang's mother** and whispered: "Mom......"

Is there anything about himself that Cui Jiji wants to learn? Ming Fei pondered for a while, then smiled: "I'm afraid that I am only a shallow learner and can't solve the eldest lady's doubts." ”

Cui Jiji pinched his handkerchief and said with a smile: "I heard that when my cousin first entered the door, my cousin was also the same age as me?" I also heard that my cousin and my cousin have a relationship like a biological mother and daughter, and I would like to ask you how you did it? My grandmother said that when people get along with each other, there is a lot of knowledge in it, and it is not easy to make mistakes in big things, and the small things in ordinary times are the most likely to have dislike with others, so how can we make everyone happy? And to satisfy the wife, and to satisfy the grandmother, and to make the father happy, and not to be wronged? ”

To try your best to satisfy everyone, and to make yourself happy, is indeed one of the compulsory courses to enter the court. This teacher is not easy to be, facing Cui Jiji's serious expression, Ming Fei was a little nervous, and after thinking seriously, he said: "I have nothing to teach the eldest lady, I have only remembered one thing over the years, it is impossible to satisfy everyone, there is basically no perfect thing, then, I just need to grasp the most important thing." Small things are tolerable, big things are not allowed, think more about the benefits of the other party in everything, think more from the other party's point of view, don't grasp a little mistake and don't let go. ”

Cui Jiji pondered for a moment, nodded and said: "Small things are bearable, big things are not allowed, think about it from the other party's point of view......" A flower bloomed on his face, and he smiled: "I know what to do, Cousin Xie advises." ”

Although she smiled brightly, Ming Fei felt that she smiled like a little fox.

Zhang's mother reminded Cui Jiji in a low voice: "Miss, it's about to start outside." ”

Cui Jiji waved his hand, and a maid took out an open brocade box, which seemed to be two strings of beeswax bracelets. Cui Jiji smiled: "Cousin, you have to remember, this is what I gave you to play with your sixth cousin, a meager gift, not a tribute, and I hope my cousin will not dislike it." ”

Ming Fei thanked him and let Danxia accept it.

Cui Jiji said sincerely: "I originally wanted to wait for the family matter to pass, and then invite my cousin and cousin-in-law to come to the house for a light meal. But yesterday I learned that my father was going to leave the day after tomorrow to accompany his wife to Shuicheng Mansion to return to the door, and he might have to live in Shuicheng Mansion for a while, and there were only two people at home, my grandmother and me, so I asked my cousin to forgive me. ”

Cui Min was so busy that he couldn't go to Shuicheng Mansion to pick up Yuan Mei'er, but he wanted to live with Yuan Mei'er in Shuicheng Mansion for a while? Ming Fei Min ... [This chapter is not finished, please click on the next page to continue reading!] ］