Chapter 60: The Thorny Problem of Parenting
Chang's mother came over because after the aftermath of Empress Minrou was over, although the new monarch remembered her to serve Empress Minrou for a while, and intended to make a decree to let her go back to the family to enjoy Qingfu, but she has followed the queen since she was a girl, and the master and servant have been together for decades, and she is almost the same as her blood relatives.
The queen went very abruptly, and Chang's mother couldn't accept it emotionally until now, and she really couldn't make up her mind to go home, so she proposed to continue to serve the descendants of Queen Minrou - it happened that the East Palace was newly established, and the identity of the children in the East Palace changed, and the children of the Hui Wangfu and the Jingwang Mansion needed to be replenished.
She is an old man like her who has no problem with loyalty, has experience, has experience, and has qualifications, Qiu Yulan is lacking, of course, she will not push outward, and she talked to her very humbly, and decided to let Chang's mother replace Zhou's mother and take over the care of Jiang Jinglang.
Although this arrangement gave Chang's mother enough face, and gave Jiang Jinglang a loyal servant who was enough to calm the field, so that Qiu Lulan could worry less about her eldest son being pitted by the close attendant in the future, but for Zhou's mother who was replaced, it was inevitable that it would be embarrassing.
However, Qiu Yulan had already calculated, invited Zhou's mother to come to her, and told her from the bottom of her heart: "Mom is the lost concubine, and I have been busy for most of my life. Now that Su He also has a child, if you follow me again, I really don't want to go! ”
Zhou's mother has a relative of Su He, although Su He is married in Beijing, she can usually visit when she is free, and Su He will come to see her when she is free, but in the end it is not as convenient as living together and seeing each other every day.
was said by Qiu Yulan, thinking about the little princess who grew up is now the crown princess, and the children under his knees are complete, there is really not much need for his own place, and he will go back to enjoy a few days of happiness, and there is nothing to worry about. So Qiu Yulan persuaded a few words, and she agreed.
Of course, Qiu Yulan would not let her henchmen go empty-handed, and deliberately went to the table to ask her father-in-law for Zhou's mother to ask for a seal - when she was on the table, she thought that her father-in-law should not refute her face in such a trivial matter, but she didn't expect that Xinjun would be more generous than she thought, and she directly asked people to send Fengyin over: "Your Majesty said that now there is no owner in the harem, and the crown princess Niangniang is a mound woman, so she can follow the example of Queen Minrou back then and take this seal on her behalf!" ”
This is also true, the new monarch has a lot of opportunities, how can he have the kung fu to get old enough to approve such a trivial matter as sealing a small edict?
But for a large number of people who covet the emptiness of the harem, it is really not good news - following the example of Empress Minrou, when Empress Minrou was the crown princess, Empress Tao was there for a while. But Fengyin has always let Empress Minrou hold it, because Empress Tao is old and in poor health, so she has never been able to take care of things.
Now that the new monarch mentioned Empress Minrou, could it be that after he became filial piety, even if the harem was enriched, the phoenix seal was still held by the crown princess?
Since the East Palace has been established, those who are interested in investing in the new monarch's harem think that it is unlikely that the new monarch will succeed him. But it doesn't matter if you don't have a descendant identity, you can be pampered and can blow the pillow wind.
But now that Xinjun has given the phoenix seal to his daughter-in-law, it is obvious that even if he accepts more people, he will not be too promoted. This emperor is not young, but he has not yet reached the time of old and confused, since he has made such a decision, it is not easy to change his mind by beauty.
This made the people who were looking forward to the stars and the moon looking forward to the filial piety of the new monarch so that they could send their beautifully dressed daughter to the palace were very disappointed.
And Xinjun's support for the prince and his wife is not only reflected in the disposal of Fengyin - the end of this year, the spring of the following year, and the change of Yuan Jianjia.
Jiang Tianchi, who was renamed Emperor Jianjia from the new monarch, made the pretext of sharpening the prince and ordered Jiang Yashuang to supervise the country, although he still went to the court to listen to the government, but rarely expressed his opinions, and most of the recitals were transferred to himself after the prince read them.
In this case, even the most sluggish people have reacted, a few years ago, Emperor Jianjia favored King Huijun - now it is the real reason for King Hui: "The common disease of the founding monarch can share hardships but not prosperity." He also wants to save face, and refuses to directly bear the reputation of mutilating heroes, so he uses his heirs to play a trick, and when he kills everything he wants to kill, he will naturally show his true colors. It's a pity that the people of King Yongyi have been played around, and it is difficult to close their eyes until they die! ”
Of course, the death of the Yongyi King and the exile of 3,000 li, no one is interested in talking about them in this part of the capital. The most regrettable thing about the whole thing is King Hui: "The average son-in-law, King Hui is still the eldest son!" Even if he is not as angry as the prince, but if he didn't have the loss that King Hui suffered in the hands of King Dun back then, how could Lord Zhaode learn a lesson and protect His Royal Highness the prince from wind and rain? ”
"The predecessors planted trees and the descendants took advantage of the shade, the eldest son and eldest daughter have always been the ones who suffered, and His Royal Highness King Hui is really hard!"
The public always sympathizes with the weak - when Emperor Jianjia favored his eldest son and suppressed Jiang Yashuang's family, although many people did not dare to associate with them because of this, secret public opinion has always been inclined to them. The mainstream opinion is that Emperor Jianjia is confused, how can there be a reason to let the young son who is both talented and good-looking, both civil and military, not stand up, and set up the eldest son who is full of notoriety in the government and the opposition? Does this still need the foundation of Daqin's thousands of generations?!
Now Jiang Yashuang has officially canonized the crown prince, and his position is becoming more and more stable with the support of Emperor Jianjia. Although Jiang Yadan was also crowned the king and was very courteous, unconsciously, public opinion was biased towards him again: "I heard that King Hui's sons and daughters are now raised in the East Palace?" ”
"It is said that because of the filial piety of Empress Minrou, there is no hostess in King Hui's mansion now, and the crown princess takes pity on her nephews and nieces, not only King Hui's sons and daughters, but even King Jing's sons and daughters have been taken to the East Palace to raise."
"It's a good calculation! These two mistresses of the palace died a strange death! After the contact, eighty percent of them are inseparable from the crown princess! But these two have their own flesh and blood left, and it is really difficult to rest assured that they don't look forward to watching them grow up! ”
"Isn't it? Especially the concubine of King Hui, who was raised by His Majesty and Empress Minrou. In terms of ranking, it is still before the eldest son of Donggong Yan! If such a nephew doesn't look under his nose, I'm afraid that the prince and his wife won't be able to sleep......"
"King Hui's life is miserable! He was used as a pretense and stepping stone by his brother, and the princess of the county back then went unclear, and even this only Yuan match concubine, it seems that it is difficult to say what fate it will be in the future - if you are interested, let the eldest son of the East Palace return it, otherwise it may be in the footsteps of his biological mother or stepmother! ”
Of course, Donggong wouldn't know about this kind of thing, and Mu Hibiscus trembled with anger: "Check! Must be thoroughly investigated! This bastard! Which one of the benefits of the black heart and liver was received, and the rumors were spread here to slander the mother's kindness! I don't want to think about King Hui's Mansion and King Jing's Mansion, which house doesn't have a little messy people! Among the two princesses, the eldest Shou'an County Lord is only ten years old, and they all need to be taught. ”
Mu Lian and the others were also excited: "Even if you wait until the new princess passes the door, will you definitely treat the prince and the county lord well?" Look, eight out of ten of these words. Nine is the family that wants to marry the two royal mansions, that is, I wish our mother would send people back, so that they can fall into their hands, so that they can seek to win the title! ”
Qiu Yulan's malicious speculation about the outside world doesn't matter in itself - the general trend has been decided, what can she do with a few mutters?
Besides, Jiang Huihuan, Jiang Jingkun, Jiang Huibao, Jiang Jingzhui, the four nephews and nieces she is raising with all her heart, and in a few years, the children have appeared more, and she is not afraid that no one will turn around and praise her that the princess is really a typical virtuous aunt.
What she was really worried about was the problems of the children themselves.
So I took advantage of these rumors to discuss with my husband: "There are a lot of such things out there now, and I don't think about it." Thinking that there was no one to take care of the two brothers, the queen mother's affairs were taken over as soon as they were over. I didn't tell the two brothers very carefully, do you think you can explain it again? ”
"What's there to explain? The starling brother and the sixteenth brother both nodded, and they didn't have to take it to heart when they muttered a few words to outsiders! I went to talk to them seriously, but I saw the outside. Besides, the two sisters-in-law are gone, the queen mother is no longer there, and this sister-in-law can't be called an aunt to take it, and if she doesn't take the East Palace to raise her, that's why we are not authentic! Jiang Yashuang shook her head, "Don't you want other children to say, Huan'er is ten years old this year, and when we are filial to our mother, she has to be twelve years old, and she will start to discuss marriage!" Even if the sixteenth brother continues to be filial as soon as he comes out, how old do you think this girl is suitable for marriage? ”
Take Qiu Yulan herself as an example, she came out of the cabinet at the age of sixteen.
"At that time, my stepsister-in-law will be three or four years older than Huan'er, what can I understand? I'm afraid that I have to be busy learning how to be a princess, how can I teach Huan'er? Huan'er is ignorant and understands how to leave the pavilion, even if she has the identity of a sect girl, but if she doesn't know anything, she secretly suffers a loss and doesn't know - how can she not take us by your side and let you teach well? Since you have taken her, how can you favor one over the other, regardless of An'er, Bao'er, and Gui'er? ”
What's more, "They grew up in the East Palace, and they get along with Lang'er day and night, not to mention that everyone is very compatible, it is always a friendship!" This is something that will be hard to change when you grow up. It's a big benefit for the kids in the future! ”
Although he said that he did not have a good relationship with his cousins of the same generation, he still had the blessing that they could be like brothers and sisters for the next generation - in this regard, Jiang Yashuang was not exempt.
"Why don't I think so? I was afraid that these words would reach the ears of the starling and make him uncomfortable. Qiu Yulan sat down next to her husband's bookcase, hesitated, and finally said the words, "You know that although An'er was brought by us earlier, he was raised by his father and queen mother, and he is Lang'er's brother. Now the rumors say that we are afraid that he will compete with Lang'er in the future, and I don't know what to do at this time? ”
She has always raised Jiang Jingkun as her own flesh and blood, and she was pregnant on Chinese New Year's Eve, not sure whether it was her son or nephew who was struggling in the lake, but she still jumped without hesitation, which shows that the status of this nephew in her mind is actually no worse than Jiang Jinglang - from childhood to adulthood, Jiang Jinglang has it, and Jiang Jingkun will also have it.
And according to the righteousness of filial piety, the order of the eldest and younger, the good ones are often Jiang Jingkun's. The same thing is also for Jiang Jingkun to pick first.
But the throne is different.
Under the flow of the death of the father and the replacement of the son, Jiang Yashuang is not without a son, if he passes the throne to his nephew, not to say that the courtiers will oppose it, just say that Jiang Jinglang and other brothers can be willing?
Isn't the Jiang family's lesson in this regard enough?
In the past few decades, how many contradictions and how many cannibalism have the Jiang family, is it not caused by Emperor Zhaode and King Ji's preference for King Dun for decades?
Obviously, I am your own flesh and blood, why should you give all the benefits to your nephew?! Even if he owes his father's love, hasn't he paid it off after so many years?!
- It is estimated that the children of Emperor Zhaode and King Ji have roared in their hearts!
After seeing the tragedies brewed by the last two generations of the Jiang family due to the partiality of the elders, Qiu Yulan now really feels that the attitude of raising Jiang Jingkun is very debatable: "According to my heart, of course, it is the same as before, and it is raised as our own child." Good things are picked by him first, after all, he is older than Lang'er, and he is young and orderly. But don't blame me for being cautious: I thought, was my uncle so spoiled back then? ”