"Mom, what the hell is going on?" Chu Yulan didn't understand, her home was such a big place, why didn't she see any preparations.

"You, your dad is right, it's all used to you, don't worry about these things at home, don't take it to heart." Cheng Fengzhi sat down next to the bed, planning to talk about the bits and pieces to her daughter, but before she could open her mouth, Chu Yulan stopped doing it first.

"Mom, you don't talk to me about anything, you always treat me as a child, of course I don't know anything, I don't know how to worry about it, it's not a blind worry!" Chu Yulan pouted, with a little coquettishness, and said coquettishly, maybe sick people are more fragile, she actually felt that this situation was a bit heartwarming.

"You are so anxious, I don't mean to tell you, why are you ......in a hurry?"

In Cheng Fengzhi's chatter, Chu Yulan learned a lot of customs in Qingyang County, as the saying goes, "Ten miles of different sounds, a hundred miles of different customs".

In Qingyang County, the accent of people's speech, commonly known as "dialect", varies from town to town, and the custom of marriage is even more so.

Let's just talk about the customs of Poplar Village, the first is blind date.

Blind date, generally the matchmaker pre-sets a date and notifies the parents of both men and women, and the parents of the man prepare some gifts according to the preferences of the woman's parents. The location of the blind date is generally the woman's home, or the home of a familiar third party, or the matchmaker's home.

We are a country of etiquette, pay attention to subtlety, and the result of the blind date will not be said directly, but the man and woman will inform their parents afterwards, and then tell each other's parents through a matchmaker. There are also women whose parents do not agree, and may ask the man to take away the gifts on the spot, and most of the gifts left are unintentional.

The blind date is passed, and the second is the fixed date.

After the blind date, the parents of both men and women will pass the matchmaker to leave each other's birth dates, and let Mr. Feng Shui calculate whether the eight characters match. Some superstitious parents will also use the disagreement as a reason to push off this family business, of course, most of them are the days of calculating relatives and marrying.

Before the marriage in Poplar Village, the woman will go to the man's house to see, mainly to see the house and yard where his family lives. After reading it, the woman is satisfied, and the date of the marriage will be determined, and the date of the marriage is set by the woman, and the banquet will be set at the woman's house, and the important relatives of both parties will be invited to participate.

When the marriage is made, the bride price, dowry, cloth, cotton and other things are all taken to the woman's house, and the woman's parents make the bedding. On the day before the wedding, the strong young man of the man's family went to the woman's house to move the dowry, and then moved it to the man's house, put it in the courtyard, and showed it to everyone.

If the two parties do not get married for the time being, the man will provide the woman with four sets of clothes throughout the year, and the appropriate pocket money will be provided if the conditions are good.

After the marriage, the third is to get married.

In the first half month of marriage, the bride price of marriage is sent to the woman, and the bride price of marriage is different from the bride price of marriage, and the marriage should be given a lot more. Unlike most places, the custom in Poplar Village is to return the day after marriage, not the traditional three-day return.

The return door is usually the husband and wife, and the man who served the groom as the best man on the wedding day, most of them are the groom's brother-in-law.

Chu Changfu and Shen Shangxiang are in a special situation, everything is simple, and after the divorce with the Ma family, the Ma family returned the things of the Chu family as they were. The Chu family sent these things to the Shen family again, that is, the dowry of the Shen family in the future, in fact, it was sent by the man in advance.