742 Gao Meng's words woke up the dreamer

Later, Zhou Pang told us about his affairs carefully, the woman is in a village in Henan, last year's National Day, came to our barber shop here as a shampoo girl, Zhou Pang went to get a haircut when he met, the two days of the New Year, Zhou Pang also accompanied the girl back to Henan, met people's parents, although the other party's family is very poor, but the family looks very good, so people on both sides have no opinions, if nothing else, this year will be the marriage.

Seeing that the people around me are getting married or preparing to get married one by one, the pressure in my heart is getting bigger and bigger, fortunately I don't have relatives now, and I won't be like other older single men and women, there are parents and grandparents who are urging me to get married every day in my ears, and I have a lot more freedom in time, but at the same time, there is no nagging and urging from adults, and there is less feeling of family, I also thought about me and Su Ya, and now we are talking about marriage, it is really too early.

But when I went back to chat with Su Ya that night, I told her about my friends getting engaged and getting married, and asked her if she had considered when she would get married.

She replied very simply, saying that she is still young now, don't think about this, I said that you should at least have an approximate age range in your heart, such as how old you are before you consider getting married, she said that it should be after the age of twenty-four.

Her answer made me speechless, according to what she said, I have to wait at least four or five years, I will be in my thirties by then, it is indeed a little too late, at my current age, when I see other children or something, I think it is cute and I want to hug it, let alone a few years later, I am afraid that I can't wait.

I said, then you didn't think that I was so old, and I would get married early in the future? She still replied like that, saying that she was too young to think about these, she said this, I don't know what to say, after all, people are really young, it's too early to say this, and the two of us have just dealt with each other, feelings or something, and we haven't reached that yet, I'm a little anxious to say this, and then I changed the topic and talked to her about something else, but I drank a lot of wine today, and I fell asleep in a daze after a long time of talking, and I didn't say goodnight or anything to Su Ya.

I woke up the next morning and found that Su Ya had missed a call, and she texted me after the incident, asking me if I was angry, I was a little confused, thinking about what she was doing with this text message to me, and then I got on QQ, and I saw the message she sent me to understand, I drank too much last night, I fell asleep in a daze, so I didn't reply to Su Ya's message, she thought I was angry and deliberately ignored her, so I called and texted.

I hurriedly replied to her, saying that I drank too much yesterday and fell asleep, I was not angry, and I didn't deliberately ignore her, and then she sent me a message, saying that she thought I deliberately ignored her, I didn't sleep well all night, and I felt uncomfortable to death, seeing these messages she sent, I was happy in my heart, I felt flattered, I really didn't expect her to care so much about me, as long as she has this heart, what am I afraid of?

Because I was more happy in my heart, I said a lot of sweet words when chatting with her this time, anyway, the atmosphere of the chat was very good, and then she asked me how much I missed her, where I missed her the most, I don't know why, I suddenly remembered the scene when she picked peaches before the monkey, so I simply jokingly said to her: "Anyway, I miss you very much, especially the thing in the crotch of the pants misses you the most, without your sudden tugging, it is very uncomfortable!" ”

When I sent these words, I felt that I was a little too shameless, I used to think in my heart that I couldn't defile Su Ya, and I couldn't chat with Su Ya like this, but now that I am slowly familiar with her, my shameless nature will be shown again, but Su Ya She will not be angry because of this, but will echo me, she said: "Is it? Then come here, I'll drag you every day when you come! ”

After posting this paragraph, she seemed to feel that she was a little too much, so she sent me a sweaty expression, and then said, "How did I find that I was becoming more and more shameless?" Really, I'm bad with you! ”

I said that you are shameless, and you still have to blame me, she sent me a goodbye emoji, saying don't let her see me, otherwise I will know that I am wrong, to be honest, joking with Su Ya like this, it makes me feel as if I am many years younger, like a child, I hope I can always maintain this state, but is it possible?

Qingming Festival I only gave myself three days off, to the third day, I was going to go back to the provincial capital, before leaving I went to Gao Meng's studio, her current studio is actually a big warehouse, although the outside looks simple, but the inside decoration is still quite beautiful, quite the atmosphere of the pink girl, working in her studio, all are girls, the age is basically between eighteen and twenty-five, I also made a cute joke, said I envy her, I also want to have a studio like this, Be your own boss.

Gao Meng said that this is still quite simple for me, it depends on whether I can do it, she also said that she has been more inspired recently, designed a better looking ring, said that if I need a ring or something to get married in the future, I can ask her to order it for me, it is absolutely beautiful, I said that I will use it when I get married, and then I asked her about Chen Yajing's engagement, she said that she also got the exact news, Chen Yajing was indeed engaged on May Day, and the date was set anyway, but I don't know if it can be successfully engaged on that day.

I said that there is no success, the days are set, basically no run, I really can't imagine that Chen Yajing is going to marry a boy who is two years younger than herself, Gao Meng also said that Chen Yajing is really in a hurry, in fact, she can wait a few more years, find a good one she likes, and now with Ding Hao, I feel a little improvised, I said I talked to Chen Yajing before, Chen Yajing said that the reason why she chose Ding Hao was also chosen after careful consideration, and I think it is more suitable for her, It's not all because of improvisation, Gao Meng pouted and said, "She was fooling you, you don't think about it, after so many years since you were a child, have you seen Chen Yajing fall in love?" ”

I shook my head and said I hadn't talked about it, Gao Meng said it was wrong, and she continued: "What does the reason why Chen Yajing doesn't fall in love? It shows that she treats her feelings very seriously, and she will not fall in love with others casually, if she wants to talk, she has to talk about what she likes very much, especially if she is very suitable, otherwise she will not be single all the time, and she is so much more in love, so she should not be more cautious about such a major event as marriage? But now? Ding Hao's expectations obviously did not meet her requirements, but why did she get engaged to Ding Hao? The bitterness in this, the grievances in it, maybe only she knows it, alas, the hearts of our women, sometimes you men really don't understand! ”

Gao Meng's words can be regarded as waking me up, if she doesn't say this, I really can't think of it, in fact, I also understand that Chen Yajing is more or less dissatisfied with Ding Hao, but I think she is older now, she should have her own considerations, such as compromising with reality and compromising with herself, this is a normal situation, after all, no one can guarantee that everything will be smooth sailing, all according to their own wishes, I really don't know how aggrieved and bitter Chen Yajing is, otherwise I will oppose her marriage.

But even if that's the case, what can I do? Now that the news of people's engagement has spread, the engagement is also a sure thing, and this kind of thing, only the parties have the right to choose, I am an outsider, can I control her? In what capacity can I influence people? After all, I have Su Ya now, and I shouldn't get involved in other people's emotional affairs.

Now I feel quite conflicted in my heart, after chatting with Gao Meng back this day, the more I think about it, the more uncomfortable I become, I especially want to find Chen Yajing to come out and have a good chat with her, and ask her if she is willing to be with Ding Hao, I don't feel very wronged in my heart, but I took out my mobile phone for a long time, but I didn't dare to make this call.

Just when I hesitated, my mobile phone rang, and it was Chen Yajing calling.