"Originally, it was a good thing that everyone was good and I was good, but now I finally understand that it depends on who the object is, not everyone is like you, and he is a person who knows how to be grateful."

Dong Xuezhan sighed and said: "I really want a family to be harmonious and happy, who doesn't want to have more children and more blessings in a few lifetimes?" This is also the hope that parents have always had. But now I can't stand it. You said that you have never been angry with your mother-in-law since you were young all your life, but now you are good, but you have to suffer from your daughter-in-law's anger when you are old. What are we not doing well enough for them? But people don't have the slightest gratitude, but they stretch out their hands and feel that it is natural for them to reach out and ignore us and our parents. ”

He shook his head: "Every time I think about it, I always feel bad in my heart, so, forget it, it smells far and smelly." Since everyone is unhappy together, then they will stay away from it in the future. I can't just think about my own thoughts and be selfish and ignore your feelings, can I? It's just that there is no nursery now, both of them have jobs, and now we just leave our hands and don't care about it, we can't do it if our hearts are not strong enough. So now we have to help those who should be helped. But I told my parents that when their second child can be sent to kindergarten, we will leave our hands and don't care about anything. When the time comes, everyone will live their own lives. ”

Holding Li Yan's hand, Dong Xuezhan's eyes were gentle: "Haven't you always liked to travel and always dreamed of going out for more walks?" For another three and a half years at most, let's take our parents with us, while we are not too old, and while they are still moving, we will leave. ”

“……”

Li Yan's tears flowed down suddenly: "Is what you said true?" Are you coaxing me? ”

"After all these years, when have I ever spoken to you?" Reaching out to wipe the tears on Li Yan's face, Dong Xuezhan asked with a smile.

"But can Mom and Dad agree?" Li Yan remembered what her mother-in-law said to her, 'generation after generation, generation to generation', and her heart beat a little drum, she was not afraid of them, but after so many years of getting along, she really loved them, and didn't want them to be unhappy because of this.

"Mom and Dad see everything in their eyes, do you think they don't feel sorry for you? They are helpless, what if we are not asked to help them in this situation? If you want to say that we don't have ruthless people in our family, but my parents also said that this favor will help until they send their second child to kindergarten, and then we don't care if they have to give birth to the third and fourth children. If you can give birth, you can raise it, we helped their eldest and helped the second child enough. I don't have to tell us to wait until they retire before we leave. ”

Dong Xuezhan said and was a little melancholy: "Why don't you say that we don't have the same blessing as our parents, and we also meet a daughter-in-law like you?" If so, what is there to help them bring their grandchildren? If people are in a good mood, what are they unwilling to give? ”

"Alas, don't say it. This is the first time I can't be happy to hear you praise me like this. Li Yan was also gloomy, "You said that we don't have many requirements for our daughter-in-law, which person doesn't have this or that problem?" But the most basic sense of gratitude must be there, right? She's good that she used to be pretentious when Xinran and I were here alone to help them, but now, alas, ......"

The daughter-in-law became more and more arrogant, and her behavior and language that she looked down on their family more and more in words and actions really made her feel very sad. But she didn't want to say anything more in front of her son, no matter how dissatisfied she was, she always remembered that her mother-in-law never said bad things about herself behind her back, and she couldn't set this precedent but destroyed the feelings and marriage of her son and daughter-in-law, she didn't think about her son, she always had to think for her grandson, right? No matter how dissatisfied with her daughter-in-law is, she always remembers that her own mother is the best for her grandson.

I also felt very disheartened with my daughter-in-law Dong Xuezhan. Especially when he thought of the conversation between his daughter-in-law and her sister who inadvertently bumped into him, he felt that in the future, he and his daughter-in-law should not have any hope for his daughter-in-law.

He shook his head and couldn't help but say, "Forget it, don't think about it, it's just said that if you don't want to, you're just." Speaking of which, our expectations for others are too high, which is not good, but we feel that we have ulterior motives for showing kindness to our children. ”

"Parents have ulterior motives for repaying their children?"

Li Yan exploded when he heard this: "What are you talking about?" Isn't it a tradition to raise children to prevent old age? Something that many generations have agreed on. Filial piety comes first, lambs can kneel and breastfeed, and crows know how to feed. How did it come to the mouth of a person who is inferior to any beast that knows everything that is better than that of a beast? ”

She stared at Dong Xuezhan tightly: "You tell me the truth, did such words come out of her Wei Jinjiao's mouth?" She was so angry that she couldn't care anymore and asked directly

"No, no. Don't worry, don't think about it. I, in fact, I just happened to hear someone talking on the road, and accidentally listened to that ear and remembered it. "How dare Dong Xuezhan tell the truth, didn't he make his daughter-in-law even more angry in vain?

He reached out and took Li Yan into his arms, patted her back and comforted, "Don't think about it, let's not be angry, all diseases come from anger." For the sake of unworthy people, why should we use our own life to be angry with others? If you say that you have no desire, you are just. After the horizontal vertical, we don't have to count on her, and we may not expect her to provide for the elderly. We have sons and daughters ourselves, and we don't call other people's children, so it's always too much for us to call our own children......"

Li Yan didn't struggle in Dong Xuezhan's arms, but his ears didn't seem to hear what he was saying, his eyes were empty, and he burst into tears unconsciously.

Dong Xuezhan said for a long time and found that no one responded to him, and when he found that something was wrong, he looked down and felt distressed: "If you don't get angry, why are you still ...... Alas, it's all my fault, my mouth ......," he slapped his mouth hard, "calling you nonsense." ”

"I don't blame you." Li Yan stretched out his hand to hold Dong Xuezhan's hand and prevent him from beating him again, "It's not our fate to marry such a daughter-in-law." ”

She wiped her tears and said to Dong Xuezhan very seriously: "Xuezhan, can I discuss something with you?" ”

"You say." Dong Xuezhan nodded hurriedly.

After hesitating for a moment, Li Yan: "I didn't just think about it today, I've been thinking about it for a long time." On the son's side, although the house they live in now has the son's name written on it, the money is entirely ours. The house we live in with my parents now has the names of the two of us written on it, and I think I'll leave it to Xinran later. ”