The dinner of the Zhang family ended quickly, and Gu Nuannuan's grandfather continued to go back to make his pucao fan.

The weather is already hot, and the fans at this time are particularly good to sell. It's almost to the point where demand exceeds supply, so my grandfather will take advantage of his leisure time to knit fans every year.

After the meal, the two uncles went out of the courtyard directly, and they didn't know where to go in the village. Grandma led her mother and two aunts to start the division of labor to clean up the dinner table and other aftermath things.

At this time, even if the two aunts will inevitably cheat and cheat when they work, they are still good on the whole.

Gu Nuannuan didn't try to go over to help with the work, because her grandmother didn't allow it. It's not just her, because of her grandmother's doting on her grandchildren, even a few cousins and cousins have hardly done much work at home since they were young.

In her opinion, spoiling children like this may not be a wise move, but Gu Nuannuan doesn't want to question her grandmother because of this, and to be honest, that's not something she can question.

The more she grew up, the more Gu Nuannuan found that even the most intimate and loving family living together often had disagreements and even huge deviations in concepts.

In fact, even if there are only two simple people living together in life, they need to tolerate each other and give in to each other. And it is not easy for a large family to live together for several generations, and there are actually more trivial things that will be encountered. Often, even a tone of voice is wrong, and any inadvertent sentence may provoke a "war" without gunpowder......

It's too hard to change a person's perceptions and ideas. Rather than wasting energy all day long trying to force others to fully agree with your own point of view, it is not satisfactory to produce all kinds of contradictions. It's better to learn to be tolerant, as long as it doesn't touch on issues of principle, tolerate other people's ideas, and don't interfere to make yourself and the people around you live freely and comfortably.

Isn't what people want most in life is freedom, a life where they can live according to their own ideas without being pointed at and interfered with by others, even the closest people?

Unfortunately, the most difficult thing for most people to do is not to interfere with others, tolerate, especially the closest family members around them, and allow others to have their own different ideas.

That's why there are so many loves, easy to get along with.

It was getting darker and darker, and after taking a bath, Gu Nuannuan began to yawn one after another, but she still couldn't wait for her uncle and aunt to come back, but she saw that her grandparents didn't show a panicked look on their faces, and she knew that this was probably normal.

It's a pity that I probably won't be able to see my uncle tonight.

Without waiting to be urged for the second time, Gu Nuannuan obediently followed her mother into the room that her grandmother and mother had spent an afternoon cleaning up, which was said to be before her mother got married.

Lying on the bed, she looked curious about the baby and asked, "Mom, why haven't they come back so late, what are they doing at my aunt's mother's house?" ”

"Don't ask so much, children, hurry up and go to bed, you have to get up early tomorrow." Zhang Minzhen closed her eyes and wanted to sleep, Gu Nuannuan pulled her reluctantly, she opened her eyes and said helplessly, "It's not that your aunt's maiden nephew is about to get married, and the woman asks to build a new house." So during this time, your uncle and aunt will go over to help whenever they have free time. ”

"But the two families are quite far away, and my uncle usually has to go to work, so it's so tiring to run around during the break. Mom, I really feel sorry for my uncle. Why don't you persuade your grandparents and grandmothers not to let your uncle run around like this? ”

Gu Nuannuan sighed secretly in her heart, knowing that it was probably useless for her to say this, but she still tried to make a small effort to ask her mother to mumble to her grandmother in private, to see if she could stop her uncle from going to her aunt's maiden house to help again.

"Hehe, it's really a little ghost, a little sycophant. I know that I feel sorry for your uncle, and I make people happy. Zhang Minzhen smiled and pinched Gu Nuannuan's little face to change her serious tone, "But I won't say this, and you are not allowed to mention it again in the future." ”

Alas, I knew it would be so.

Gu Nuannuan showed disappointment.

Zhang Minzhen saw that she was not at ease like this, and she didn't sleep anymore, so she sat up and patiently explained to her in a whisper: "What do you know about children?" Do you think your grandmother doesn't feel sorry for your uncle? But no matter how distressed you are, you can't say it. In the early years, your uncle was in the army, and your aunt at home has been doing her best to serve the elderly and take care of the children, and one can be used for your second aunt and third aunt. Although your uncle doesn't say it, he understands in his heart that he has always been sorry for your aunt.

This time, your aunt's mother's family had something to do, and he rushed over to help with his rest time, but in fact, he also had the intention of making up for it to save face for your aunt. This is to ask her mother's family to see, your uncle still takes your aunt very seriously. Even if the people from your aunt's mother's house saw your son-in-law running back to help diligently, it was also very face-saving among the neighbors. So not only can't you say that, I can't say it either, and your grandmother can't say it.

As soon as I say it, I'm afraid that not only will I not be able to stop your uncle, but you must know that although your uncle is filial, he is not stupid, as long as he thinks he can do something, he will insist on doing it. So I can't say it, if I say it, it will make your aunt feel uncomfortable and have a pimple with your grandmother. Isn't this nothing to do? ”

"Mom, I know, I won't say those words again."

Gu Nuannuan also sat up when her mother sat up, the moonlight spilled in from the window and shone on her mother's face, and she saw the envy that her mother revealed.

Gu Nuannuan's heart suddenly soured, she knew that when she was a child, she never showed up when she came to her grandparents' house to have something, so her mother was actually envious of her aunt in her heart, right?

She unexpectedly remembered Luo Hongyi in her heart, once her mother had something, as long as she screamed, or even more often she didn't have to speak, he was always very active, and even more careful than her. Back then, she laughed at and even jealous him for his special ability to pat on the back, so she knew that she coaxed her mother-in-law around, and she was even closer to her son-in-law than to her own daughter......

She stopped breathing, enduring the bone-crushing heartache and forced herself not to think about it any longer...... Anyway, she will never have anything to do with that person in this life anyway......

"Then hurry up and go to sleep, or tomorrow it will become a panda eye." Zhang Minzhen finally put her mind at ease when she got her daughter's promise. She is really afraid that because of her daughter's ignorant words, her sister-in-law, who is now polite to her mother and daughter, will also have a grudge against their mother and daughter.