Chapter 148: Degree
Aifei Automobile Factory, the original No. 3 assembly workshop, suddenly appeared in the R&D workshop.
The moment this figure appeared, a ball emitting purple light instantly appeared above the originally empty pool.
"Mr. Bai, I know you're definitely coming to me." Brad said with a smile.
Poplar looked at Bo Ruide speechlessly, and couldn't help but complain in his heart: "Although you are indeed very powerful, can you be modest and low-key?" ”
"Do you know what I'm here for?" He asked with a wry smile.
Bo Ruide floated down from the pool, floated not far in front of Bai Yang, and said with a smile: "Of course I know, you came to me because of Miss Liu Yan's problem, am I right?" ”
Poplar smiled bitterly and nodded, although he wanted to deny it, but finally chose to admit it.
"Mr. Bai, in fact, it is not difficult to get along with Miss Liu Yan, but you are too restrained to let yourself go." Brad explained with a smile.
"Boyde, you said I was restrained, I could feel it, but I didn't know how to let go of what you told me to let go." Poplar shook his head with a wry smile.
"Mr. Bai, can you swim?" Brad asked with a sudden smile.
Poplar touched his nose, knowing that the other party was about to start giving examples again.
"I can swim a little, but not very well."
"Do you know how to backstroke?" Brad asked, smiling.
Poplar smiled bitterly and nodded, if you can't even swim in the backstroke, can you still swim?
"Do you think your muscles are tight and you float faster, or do you float more easily when your muscles are relaxed?" Brad asked, smiling.
"Of course, it's when the muscles relax." Poplar replied without even thinking about it.
Bo Ruide smiled and said: "In fact, the contact between people is not much different from swimming, if you are in a tense state, it will make you lose affinity, in the water, you will not be able to walk an inch, when getting along with people, it will also invisibly increase the estrangement between people, so if you want to get along with people, you need to relax yourself, not only physical relaxation, but also mental relaxation, only in this way, can you more easily integrate into the emotional world of others." ”
Bai Yang said with a bitter face: "Bo Ruide, I understand all these big truths you said, but I don't know how to relax myself, especially when I stay with Liu Yan, every time I stay with her, I feel very nervous, and I don't know why this is happening." ”
"Actually, it's normal, the reason why you're so nervous is because you care too much, and when you care too much about something, you will have a psychology of gain and loss, and this psychology will make you nervous." Brad explained.
"Brad, that's not what I want to hear, I just want to know what I can do." Poplar said with a smile in his eyes.
"Mr. Bai, do you care about your family?" Brad asked, smiling.
Poplar couldn't help but be stunned, and couldn't help but think of the unhappiness that happened between himself and his mother last time.
Originally, he always thought that he cared about his family very much, but at this moment he hesitated in his heart, he didn't know if he really cared about his family, if he really cared, would he abandon his family because of a small conflict?
"I don't know." He said in frustration.
"Do you care about your sister?" Brad asked again.
Bai Yang's mind couldn't help but think of Zhao Yingying's cute round face, although they are not brothers and sisters, but to be honest, after getting along for more than ten years, he has already regarded each other as his own sister.
When do you really care? He still couldn't get an answer in his heart, which made him feel a little confused.
He shook his head again in frustration and said, "I don't know. ”
"Then do you care about your apprentice?" Brad asked again.
"I don't know." He still shook his head.
"Then do you care about your master?"
"I don't know."
"Then do you care about your friends, just like Shangguan Nantian, Wang Yangming, and Wu Yi."
"I don't know."
"Actually, you care." Breed said.
"Ugh." Poplar raised his head in surprise, he thought that the other party would continue to ask, but he didn't expect such a sentence to come.
He asked with a wry smile: "Where do you see that I care, half a month ago, I even had a fight with my mother, when I was in S.H.I.E.L.D., I didn't even think that I didn't have a sister, my apprentice and them, is this also a concern?" ”
"Of course." Brad said with a smile.
"Although you have a fight with your mother, if your mother is sick, will you feel distressed, will you want to show up with her immediately to take care of her? If your sister or your apprentice were kidnapped, would you feel nervous and worried about them? If something happens to your friend, will you be anxious about them? Brad asked rhetorically with a smile.
Poplar frowned, and although he didn't like Brad to use his family and friends as examples, he had to admit that he would be very worried if such a situation did occur.
"Is that what you care about?" He asked with a frown.
"Of course, that's what it is, because your relationship with them is sublimated, not just ordinary emotions." Brad confirmed with a smile.
"But why don't I get nervous when I come into contact with them?" He asked, puzzled.
Bo Ruide smiled and explained: "That's because the degree of care is different, if you have to rank among these people, then the person you care about the most is Liu Yan." ”
"And after that?" Poplar asked with a frown.
"Your mother." Breed said.
"And after that?" Poplar frowned and asked again.
"Your master." Breed said.
"Ugh." Baiyang couldn't help but be stunned, and asked with some puzzlement: "Why not my sister?" ”
"This is my analysis from your behavior and personality, between your sister and Master, you are more likely to choose Master, of course, your choice will be different in different environments, after all, your Master is not an ordinary person, so even if you encounter the same danger, you are more likely to save your sister first." Brad explained.
Although Bai Yang disagrees, but since this is just an analysis, he can't refute it, after all, he can't analyze who he cares more about between his sister and his master, although he thinks that he will care more about his sister, but who knows if he will drop the chain at a critical moment.
"And after that?" He continued.
"Your apprentice." Breed said.
Bai Yang was speechless, if he said that he might choose a master between his master and his sister, but between his sister and his apprentice, how could he choose an apprentice, as far as Lu Feng was concerned, I am afraid that the importance to him may not even be comparable to Wu Yi!
"I see if there is a problem with your analysis method, where will the proportion of this guy Lu Feng in my mind be high Yingying!" He retorted dissatisfiedly that he had already decided that the situation analyzed by Brad was very unreliable.
But No, Bo Ruide smiled and explained: "If you analyze it from the perspective of emotions alone, the proportion of your apprentice is indeed far inferior to your sister, but you ignore one point, your apprentice has another identity. ”
Bai Yang couldn't help but be stunned, and was reminded by Bo Ruide like this, he remembered that Lu Feng was still his brother-in-law, uh, it really makes a little bit of sense in Bo Ruide's analysis.
"However, even if he is my brother-in-law, can the two identities add up to surpass my sister, if so, isn't my sister also my apprentice?" Still a little unconvinced, he asked.
Braid smiled and shook his body, looking like he was shaking his head.
"It's different, the proportion of feelings is not just a simple addition, subtraction, multiplication and division, it has a weight value, just like your sister, although she has another identity, but that identity does not matter to you, her main identity is still your sister, this identity accounts for more than ninety percent of the weight, and your apprentice, his other identity is Miss Liu Yan's favorite brother, this identity is his main identity, accounting for more than seventy percent of the weight, plus his sister's influence on you. Let his overall weight score be one level higher than your sister's, so in a group of cases, your apprentice's proportion in your mind is far greater than your sister's. ”
Hearing Brad's explanation, although Bai Yang was still a little unconvinced, he was frustrated and found that he really had no reason to refute, just like Brad said, Liu Yan's influence on him was too great, if these two fell into the water at the same time, and the two of them couldn't swim······
Forget it, don't give this example, if you really encounter this situation, it's better to call the police, the biggest possibility for him to jump down is that someone didn't save him and put himself on it.
He shook his head, not going to ask any further, feeling that there was no point in asking.
"Boyde, even if what you say is right, what's the use of this, I still can't find a way to get along with Liu Yan." He said in frustration.
"Mr. Bai, do you need a way to get along with your mother?" Brad asked, smiling.
Uh, Poplar was stunned.
It's a strange feeling, yes, everything seems to go naturally when he gets along with his mother, and he can't help but feel a little frustrated when he thinks about the last time he quarreled with his mother.
"It seems that I really don't get along with people very well, if it was replaced by Puppet One, there must be a way to gain my mother's trust at that time, right?" He couldn't help but think to himself in frustration.
"It's because there's no way, so didn't I quarrel with her last time." He said with a wry smile.
Brad smiled and explained: "It's not useless for you to quarrel with him, people don't need to get along with people, but if you want to get along, you need a certain amount of skill." ”
"Tricks?" Bai Yang couldn't help but be stunned, and after reacting, he couldn't help but ask with a wry smile: "Is there any difference between skills and methods?" ”
"Of course, you need to learn to get along first, and then you need to learn how to use techniques to capture people's hearts and soothe conflicts." Brad said with a smile.
"But how do I learn to get along?" Poplar touched his nose and asked with a wry smile.
"It's very simple, you just need to relax, treat Miss Liu Yan as your family, your friend, don't let yourself think too much, and let yourself be in an extremely natural state." Breed said.
Don't think too much about being a family member and a friend? Bai Yang couldn't help but reflect in his heart: "Have I never regarded Liu Yan as my family and my friend?" "It's a little unacceptable to him.
If so, then what did he take her for?
"That's sir, I'll show you how No. 1 and Miss Liu Yan have gotten along in the past month, and you may be able to get some inspiration." Seeing that Poplar was in a state of confusion, Brad said again.