But what are you doing now? Grand Master Li kept a straight face, thinking in his heart, wasn't he just reprimanding them? Well, his father's punishment hasn't come down yet, but I'm helping him to punish him first? Isn't this forcing the guards to be separated from themselves?!

Not advisable, not advisable...... Li Dagongzi's heart was full of thoughts, he already had some regrets in his heart, now this result is not what he wants, and what he wants is not the kind of fear, dare not speak, and hide a trace of resentment when the guards look at him now, what he wants is their obedience.

Scratching his head, Li Dagongzi was determined not to let the scene continue to be so deadlocked, since the matter was caused by himself, he should also have the obligation to solve it......

"Ah, I don't mean that, everyone has done their best......" This regret emotion must not be expressed too obviously, and it is not absolute to please, otherwise it will make the other party think that he has a lot of capital and can force Li Dagongzi to make concessions for them, which is not the effect he wants to achieve, after all, what Li Dagongzi wants is to let the other party work for himself, and in the future disputes that may arise, obey his own leadership, in case he is soft, Let the other party feel that they can bully, but it is putting the cart before the horse, and they will definitely be on their side in the future.

Therefore, speaking openly, what to say, and what the other party's psychological activities are, these are all arts, which require very skill to perform, and they are not things that can be decided by Li Dagongzi himself with a pat on his head, but fortunately, these things account for a large proportion of the education he has received since he was a child, so that he can use it at this moment, and there will not be too much lag, or a sense of rustiness - this art, the course he has learned, the name is very simple, very vivid, very vivid, and to the point, People will not have the slightest unexpected association, that is, "how to make inferior people".

Sure enough, as soon as the tone of Li Dagongzi's side opened his mouth, which was much more docile than just now, he let the guards around him who had just accepted his saliva offensive like a spring breeze, and suddenly forgot how people insulted them just now, how they lost their temper, and one by one from the bottom of their hearts they had feelings of support and love for Li Dagongzi, Li Dagongzi glanced at their expressions lightly, and he breathed a sigh of relief in his heart. It wasn't so easy for him to do, and it took him a certain amount of mind and energy to be so perfect.

"I'm like this, I'm straight-tempered, if I look at something unpleasant, I'll say it directly, and then I can't control my temper very much, I'm really sorry for you, I'm sorry, today's thing, I was the first to get dirty, it's me who is wrong, if the brothers are angry in their hearts, even if they come to me!"

Grand Master Li added another sentence decently, which immediately made the guards around him feel grateful, tears welled up in their eyes, and the feeling of admiration for him in his heart deepened.

This also makes sense, first throw the pot to your own character, personality, this thing is brought out of the mother's belly, who has a way? In the tone, it is important to make the other party feel a kind of self-blame thoughts and feelings, and the feelings of frustration and remorse for not being able to control their temper must be sincere, and responsibility is easy to backfire.

Secondly, it is to retreat as advance, first use the apology as an introduction, and then let the other party vent to themselves if they want to, so they dare to vent? The identity gap between everyone is here, do they dare to do this to him? If you dare, you will definitely wear small shoes to death in the future, and anyone who has had social experience knows the standard answer to this question.

But this statement is very important, if it is accompanied by a certain sincere attitude, I am afraid that no matter what your identity is, you have to bow down at the feet of the person who raised this question, no way, the gap between everyone's identities is too big, and people have already said it to this point, what else can you do, what else do you dare to think?

At this time, you should be grateful to Dade, glad that you met a good master, know how to take care of your emotions, and then follow the attitude of superficial support, and then continue to work hard! The guards are very good, and everyone's thinking is as easy to control and operate as Li Dagongzi expected before, and even the effect is not much different.

Looking at their expressions, Li Dagongzi breathed a sigh of relief, the pressure in his heart disappeared, and sure enough, there was no guess wrong, these people are all the same, these tricks, he has long been widely used in the army, otherwise even with the power of his family, he would not have been able to ascend to the throne of the regiment commander at such a young age, not to mention that in the army, a large part of the people subjectively reject the children of rich families to join? Because they feel that it will cause injustice.

In fact, unfairness exists objectively, everyone can see it, but everyone has no way to deal with it, everyone can only lament and accept his arrangement, no matter what, like those young people who are the same age as Li Dagongzi, is it possible for them to compete with Li Dagongzi who started to work hard?

No way! Needless to say, the educational environment and private teachers enjoyed by Li Dagongzi are consciously achieved by every big businessman family, the best education, the best environment, and the ability of the next generation are too important, which is not a difficult logic for businessmen to understand.

The second is the appointment of seniority, the promotion of positions, with the money potential, there is no way, a lot of it is sprinkled, in the official office, there are always people in the army who like it, under the same conditions, or even slightly inferior conditions, between Li Dagongzi and competitors, it must be Li Dagongzi can be born, as long as the money is enough.

Finally, it is easy to treat subordinates, excellent family background can easily make people have the illusion of a strong background and a good family education, and the same is true for their subordinates and those big soldiers. People are like this, a commander who is also from a civilian background is good to a soldier, and their feelings are not too deep, but if an officer from a rich family is good to a soldier, his reputation will immediately be spread by the people who are curious to the north and south of the river, inside and outside the Great Wall, and the promotion role played by him on his own promotion road cannot be small, nor will it be small.