Chapter 76: The way of getting along with mother-in-law and daughter-in-law

"Mom and Dad, why are you here?" Li Yan and Dong Xuezhan greeted each other with a smile, "Have you eaten?" Let's eat together. ”

"Grandparents, my mother cooked fish soup today, it tastes delicious, you can stay and eat together." Dong happily jumped over and hugged Grandma Dong's waist all of a sudden, her parents both worked, she was almost brought up by Grandpa Dong and Grandma Dong when she was a child, and the relationship between grandparents and grandchildren has always been very good.

"Yes, Mom and Dad, I was about to send you some shortly after it was cooked. It just so happens that you will sit down and have a drink together, and it will save us another trip. Li Yan smiled, what she said was not polite.

Grandpa Dong and Grandma Dong also live nearby, and the two are less than five minutes away.

Although Dong Xuezhan is an only son and has only two sisters, Grandpa Dong and Grandma Dong don't like to live with their son and daughter-in-law. I feel that it is far fragrant and smelly, and it is better for everyone to get along with each other at a distance, so they have been living separately all these years. Because her son and daughter-in-law both go to work, Grandma Dong, who usually feels idle, not only helps bring up her grandson and granddaughter, but also comes over from time to time to help her son and daughter-in-law clean up the house.

When the in-laws are so considerate, they help but will not interfere in the internal affairs of their own small family, that is, the two eldest sisters occasionally complain and ask their in-laws to block the words of complaint to prevent those complaints from coming to themselves, Li Yan is not the kind of person who doesn't know what to do, and he is naturally grateful to such in-laws, so he also knows how to be a man, usually as long as he does something delicious, he will remember to send a copy to his in-laws. And in addition to the festival gifts, as long as you see and feel that your in-laws are in need all year round, everything you eat, use, and wear will be bought and sent over, which also provokes Grandpa Dong and Grandma Dong to praise their daughter-in-law outside. A virtuous circle, so for so many years, the eldest grandson of the Dong family has gone to high school and lived in school, and the family has always been in harmony, not to mention the contradiction between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

"We've already eaten dinner, but it's good to have a bowl of fish soup. Yanyan's fish soup is boiled well, not only does it taste but also has no fishy smell, your dad likes it the most, he still talked about it a few days ago and didn't eat it for a while, thinking about it. Grandma Dong responded with a smile.

"Where? It's obvious that you are greedy and rely on me. Grandpa Dong blushed, and he was very ashamed of his wife for revealing his bottom.

Li Yan was very comfortable in his ears when he heard it, so he laughed happily: "Dad, Mom, it's too late for you to like me, it's so easy to buy fish now, people in the countryside often salvage it and send it to the town to sell." There are many benefits to eating fish, even if you suddenly want to eat it one day, it is not too troublesome to open your mouth directly. ”

"That is, what do you see with your daughter-in-law? If you're afraid that she will trouble us, then next time we want to eat it, we can buy it ourselves, and then deal with the fish and keep it for Yanyan to come back from work. ”

Grandma Dong and her daughter-in-law are not polite, and after getting along all these years, there is no dirt between the two of them, and it is not possible to say that she is 100% satisfied with her. But in the end, there will be some contradictions in anyone getting along, she will still have a little opinion about her son and daughter, let alone her daughter-in-law. But after a long time between people, basically what kind of person the other party is, and what kind of temper is almost touched, she is generally satisfied with this daughter-in-law.

She herself is also very self-aware, and knows that the requirements for her daughter-in-law cannot be as high as those for her sons and daughters. If it is too high, it will inevitably be disappointed, and if you are disappointed, will it be a trivial matter that will intensify the conflict? Therefore, she has always insisted that there must be a degree of talking and doing things between each other, the most important thing is that everyone can get along with each other, and the bottom line that cannot be crossed must be kept, and the relationship is maintained by the two of them.

In this way, the son will not be embarrassed if he is caught in the middle, and the whole family will be harmonious and beautiful.

"Mom, why do you want to be so troublesome?" Li Yan laughed when she heard this, she has been influenced by her mother-in-law over the years, and she is also well versed in the way of getting along with her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and she feels that her in-laws get along with her like this.

"Don't bother, you all go to work, we are usually idle when we are old, and now we can do a little more for you when we can, and when you are old, you will not be tired of moving. It's hard to say that we took advantage of it. ”

"Mom, it's easy to say anything else, but I'm not willing to ask you to take 10,000 of it for this cheapness. You're all good, how nice it would be to be able to go out for a walk together at the age of ninety. ”

"Hehehe, it would be nice if it was as you said." Grandma Dong laughed happily, even Grandpa Dong, Dong Xuezhan and Dong Xinran also laughed vigorously.

The meal has already been ready, and after the commotion just now, it has been cold for a while, not hot, just in the mouth.

Sitting down around the dinner table, Grandma Dong repeated the old words: "Why did you make such a mess at home just now?" The two of us were walking outside after dinner when we heard that there was movement in your house, and we thought something was going on, so we came over to take a look. ”

In fact, someone specially came to tell them that their son and daughter-in-law seemed to be fighting at home, and they were not bluffing at that time, and they came in a hurry.

"Mom, if you ask Xinxin yourself, it's all a good thing that she provoked. Just now her father chased her and beat her to teach her a lesson. Li Yan brought the fish soup to the table, and filled another bowl for the two elders, and then glanced at Dong Xinran angrily.

"Did you hit Xinxin? The child is looking like a big girl and is about to face it, what can't you say well, how can you still fight with your hands? ”

Grandpa Dong and Grandma Dong were immediately anxious when they heard this, Grandma Dong glared at Dong Xuezhan with dissatisfaction, stretched out her hand and slapped him hard, and went to pull Dong Xinran's hand distressedly, "Where's the fight?" ”

"yes, where's the fight? You tell Grandpa, and Grandpa helps you call back. Grandpa Dong was also ruthless, he was naturally distressed about his granddaughter who was single-handedly pulled, and he drank the fish soup with angry eyes, "If he can beat his daughter, then I can beat my son." ”

"It didn't work, I ran away, and my dad couldn't catch up with me." Dong Xinran hurriedly clarified, and was a little proud.

Didn't I really chase it, but I really won't be able to catch up? Dong Xuezhan was a little dissatisfied with his daughter's statement.

She stuck out her tongue a little weakly, feeling that she was much happier than Gu Nuannuan, her grandmother disliked her for being a girl, but looking at herself, her grandparents not only didn't dislike her, but also hurt so much. In this way, why is she confused for a while, and wonder if she is biological?

"Ran away? Haha, good run, my granddaughter is clever. Grandpa Dong laughed.