"Teacher Zhong has been in the past ten minutes, why don't we call and ask Mr. Lin what's going on?" Ten minutes later, Guo Jun took the initiative to ask Mr. Zhong.

"Don't bother you, I'll call him." Now there are many parents who are dissatisfied with Lin Hao's absence, and Luo Junyue, as his wife, has to stand up.

"Lin Hao, what are you doing with Xinxin? Do you know that people are dying? Luo Junyue nagged in her heart while pressing her mobile phone number.

"Wait for Mrs. Lin to stop fighting, Mr. Lin and Xinxin are here." Just as Luo Junyue was calling, Teacher Zhong pointed to the figure in front of him and said.

Luo Junyue's beautiful eyes immediately looked over, and sure enough, Lin Hao and Xinxin held small hands and came slowly.

Lin Hao saw his daughter-in-law's cold and pretty face at first glance, and knew that this little woman must be angry with him.

However, it was not a good time to explain to her, so he had to apologize to everyone first: "I'm sorry everyone, there was a little accident in the middle, I'm really sorry for making you wait for a long time." ”

After listening to Lin Hao's explanation, most people understand, but a small number of people have grievances.

"Mr. Lin, the accident you said couldn't be the flower on your head, right?" Comrade Wang said with resentment.

After Lao Wang said that everyone could notice the flower that Lin Hao had planted, and it seemed that it was quite funny and funny for a big guy to insert a flower, which was completely different from the masculinity of his push-ups before.

"Uncle, this flower on your head is so beautiful, but the flower I picked up just now is more beautiful than this one, but it's a pity that I lost ...... now," the second dog looked at Lin Hao with starry eyes and said.

"You think it's good-looking, little friend, and my uncle thinks so too." Lin Hao touched the flowers and said proudly.

"Uncle, can you give me this flower?" Ergouzi licked his lips and asked greedily.

"This ......" Lin Hao was not reluctant to give the flower to the second dog, but this flower really had magic.

"Hum Zhuangzhuang, don't even think about it! This flower was given to my dad by me, and it is impossible to give it to you. When Xinxin heard this, she immediately stopped in front of Zhuang Zhuang and opened her hands and said, and Zhuang Zhuang was the name of the second dog.

"Ahh It was sent by Xinxin, so I don't want it. Ergouzi said with a low face and a very disappointed face.

"Ergouzi, are you stupid? What's so good about just a broken flower? And all of them must be dirty when they fall to the ground. Ergouzi's hot mom said angrily.

This time, other parents agreed with the hot mother's words, just now their children did not pick up the broken flowers on the ground, and they all refused to them later.

After getting everyone's approval, the hot mom said even more proudly: "Mr. Lin, as parents, we must love our children, but we can't blindly indulge them, you don't urge them when the children are procrastinating when they walk, you look at everyone waiting for you for ten minutes." ”

Teacher Zhong was a little anxious when she saw this, and she didn't know how to resolve it when the parents of the two parties were more energetic.

Lin Hao was not shocked by the hot mother's cold words and ridicule, and still said lightly: "What you said is not unreasonable, but I want to correct a little, I am not pampering the child, I respect the rhythm of the child's growth." ”

"Respect the rhythm of your child's growth?" All of them blurted out at the same time.

"Yes, children are slow to react at small paces, how can we, as adults, ask them to live at the same pace as we do? Besides, it is impossible for them to synchronize with us, all we can do is to slightly reduce the pace of our lives and try to maintain a level with them, so that we can be closer to the children's lives, so Mrs. Wang, children are not procrastinating, this is the rhythm of growth that they will inevitably experience. Lin Hao said eloquently.

This remark immediately resonated with all the parents, and they all entered into contemplation.

Indeed, they demand the same from their children as they do from themselves, such as asking them to wear a piece of clothing, and as long as they see that they are not dressed within the specified time, they insist that the children are lazy and procrastinating, and then scold them.

Calm down and think about it, in fact, the really stupid people are the parents, isn't this just a comparison between the speed of the child getting dressed and the adult, the result is obvious, so the really stupid person is the adult who held this game.

And competent parents are determined by their children, and without children they will never be able to call the shots.

"Actually, think about it calmly, we disrupted their growth rhythm, children, they are not wrong, show you the photos I took with my children just now." Lin Hao smiled faintly and opened the photo album on his phone.

In the photo, Xinxin cooperates with the beautiful background of the picture, this little girl has become a little fairy who does not eat fireworks in the world, and the group photo of Lin Hao and her is also warm and moving.

"Mr. Lin, we can all understand what you said, but wouldn't it delay a lot of things if we let our children do what they love to do? Just like Xinxin in the photo, she wants to see the flowers and the birds, and I'm afraid that no amount of time will be enough for them to squander, right? Tongtong's mother asked sensibly.

Then there are many parents who nod their heads in approval, of course they love their children, but they are more worried that they will be spoiled as bear children, and they will regret it when something big happens.

"Mrs. Guo, you are right, children are children after all, if they will only do things according to their simple ideas, they will inevitably make mistakes, which must be undesirable, how can there be so many things in the world that are satisfactory? Even children can't do it, so we must make sure that they understand some truths and trade-offs while respecting their normal pace of growth. Lin Hao has experienced far more than ordinary people expected, so his feelings are more and more profound.

The issue of raising children has always been a difficult problem for these young parents of the post-90s, and the parents present were heartbroken about their children's naughty things.

Lin Hao smiled at them without saying a word, and gradually came to Xinxin, who was standing near the face of the small swing.

"Shin Shin, what's wrong with you? Do you want to swing? Lin Hao squatted down and hugged Xinxin and asked.

"Yes, Dad, but there are a lot of classmates here, and it won't be my turn until a long time later." Xinxin's face turned a little gloomy.

"Yes, a lot of people, if you didn't pick up so many flowers just now, it should be your turn soon." Lin Hao said according to the meaning of the little girl.

"Ah, is that so? I knew that I wouldn't have picked up so many flowers, Xinxin was stupid, and I would never be so stupid in the future. The little girl said impatiently.

"It's good that Shin Shin knows!" Lin Hao said very gently rubbing Xinxin's little head.

All parents have complicated thoughts in their hearts when they see this, in other words, they have already scolded their children, or laughed at their children for deserving, and used their self-righteous set to force their children to know their mistakes, but how could they have thought that the method of letting children know their mistakes would be so warm and touching?