[165] Reason

"I won't force you to get married before you are thirty years old, so you give me careful consideration for marriage, and I can't ruin other people's daughters."

"If you don't get married at the age of thirty, just wait for the lonely old age, I don't plan to get married in the first ten years, and I definitely don't plan to get married in the future." Su Jimin said coldly.

"Hey." Su Bai was a little depressed by his father's warning.

What does it mean not to get married before you are thirty years old? Isn't it okay for him to meet someone he likes after he is thirty?

It's like their head of the regiment, who only met the sister-in-law of the head of the regiment in his thirties, can't he?

"Dad, you told me not to get married if I didn't get married at the age of thirty, and you didn't plan to hold a grandson?" Su Bai looked at his father in surprise and said.

"You're not the only one who gives birth to a grandson, Lan'er is also my grandson, and Xiaomei is also my grandson. I don't lack grandchildren, if you really don't get married and don't have children, I will teach Lan'er or Meizi's children as heirs, and it can be regarded as passing on our Su family. Su Jimin said with a smile.

Su Bai was shocked by his father's words.

This kind of thinking is really ahead of its time.

Su Bai didn't say anything wrong with his father's thoughts, his father wouldn't force him to get married, of course he would feel less pressure.

After all, he is now obsessed with medical skills, and he has no plans to get married, and if he gets married, he will not be able to take care of his wife, and he will definitely be the same as when his father was young.

Su Bai relaxed, and Huo Qu, who was listening to the father and son on the side, also relaxed.

He didn't know why, after hearing Su Jimin say that he would not force Su Bai to get married, he was in a very good mood and relaxed.

The Su family is in a good mood, and Su Bai is also in a good mood because of her mother's remarried husband, and she is also in a good mood after thinking that her mother's future life will not be wrong.

Su Mei is still a little awkward, she feels that her mother and her father are her relatives, and her mother has remarried, and she can't turn a corner.

She thought that her mother and father were divorced, and her mother was still her father's wife, and she never thought that her mother would remarry.

"Okay, your mother can get married again, and with your Uncle Zhou's protection, your grandpa and grandma won't bully her, okay?" Su Jimin rubbed the top of his daughter's head and asked with a smile.

"Uh-huh......" Su Mei muttered, nodding after a moment.

Uncle Zhou also knows that he is a powerful person, if her mother remarries Uncle Zhou, grandpa and they will not be able to get any benefits from Uncle Zhou.

Uncle Zhou won't follow them, and Uncle Zhou's situation is not like the Su family, so Uncle Zhou won't feel inconsequential like his father, so he occasionally is filial to the Yue family.

Although Su Mei thought so, she was still a little awkward in her heart, she was awkward all night, and ran to her sister's house early the next morning to talk to her sister.

When Su Lan learned that Su Mei came over because Lan Guiyun had remarried, she smiled a little awkwardly.

She had already punished Lan Guiyun, and in the time before Lan Guiyun lost her memory, she must have been tortured by nightmares to the point of almost going crazy.

So after Lan Guiyun lost his memory after getting married, the people of the Lan family would think that Lan Guiyun was crazy.

In fact, it is nothing more than the effect of nightmare potions and amnesia potions.

Lan Guiyun should have mental illness, from the beginning, her husband's coldness, to the possibility of prenatal or postpartum depression after pregnancy.

Although Su Jimin is a doctor, he doesn't understand the problem of mental illness, and he was too young at the beginning, and the experienced Grandpa Su was also very busy, so he ignored Lan Guiyun.

Lan Guiyun's depression was not so serious after giving birth to her son, and in fact, her depression worsened when she gave birth to Su Lan.

Depression coupled with a complete explosion of patriarchal psychology, Lan Guiyun's illness became even more serious.

People with depression are fine with mild symptoms, moderate and severe with hallucinations and various symptoms that are unfavorable to themselves and others.

Lan Guiyun had complications like paranoia at the beginning.

So over the years, Lan Guiyun's bad treatment of her daughter is indeed due to her preference for sons, but most of it is due to her mental illness.

Now that she has been tormented by nightmares for so long, and then lost her memories for twenty years, maybe the depression has not been cured, but with Zhou Dachuan's happy marriage, she may not be able to get sick again.

As for Lan Guiyun's revenge for killing the original owner?

It was she who got the bargain, so she didn't want to use high-sounding reasons to retaliate against Lan Guiyun.

I can only hope that the original Su Lan can cast a good tire and live a better life in the next life. As for Lan Guiyun, she has lost her memory and has already started a new life, and if she doesn't provoke her in the future, she won't kill them all.

People experience different things, and they develop different personalities. Perhaps Lan Guiyun, who has lost his memory for twenty years and only has memories before the age of sixteen or seventeen, can develop a different personality after marrying Zhou Dachuan and will not relapse from depression.

This is the last thing she did as a daughter for her mother.

After all, the original owner was not killed by Lan Guiyun, the original owner just accidentally fell down the mountain when he went up the mountain, so I don't know if he really died or was taken away by Su Lan. Lan Guiyun is not the culprit, right......

Su Mei came to Su Lan early in the morning to tell her about her mother's remarriage, and by the way, she had breakfast with Su Lan and the couple.

And today, Su Bai and Huo Qu are back in the army, and their vacation is not as long as Chen Yuanchao.

Su Bai also moved the family visit leave accumulated in the past two years to the day of Su Lan's wedding, which happened to be about a week, and Chen Yuanchao's vacation was the previous ten years' vacation, and now it is marriage leave, so Chen Yuanchao's vacation is a little longer.

After breakfast, Su Lan and the others sent Su Bai and Huo Qu to the train station in the county seat.

This time, the people who saw them off were Su Lan and his wife, and Su Mei and no one else, Su Jimin and Grandpa Su did not follow.

They are all big men, and they won't be sticky when they part, so neither Su Jimin nor Grandpa Su came over to see Su Bai.

Su Bai didn't feel sad or anything, anyway, there were his two younger sisters to send him off, it was enough.

However, Su Bai also has a lot of things to bring, such as all kinds of bottles and jars are dried meat, dried meat, canned fruits, preserved fruits and other foods tossed out by Su Lan and Su Mei.

Of course, there are also Su Mei's best pickles and pickles, which are all brought to Su Bai to eat.

In addition, there are some medicinal materials and medical books, which are all passed on by the Su family, and Su Bai also needs to learn more traditional Chinese medicine.

At ten o'clock in the morning, Su Bai and Huo Qu got into the car. Su Mei also made Su Bai rice dumplings, steamed buns, pancakes and other convenient foods for them to eat on the road.

Of course, Su Lan also gave Su Bai some fruit seeds, so that he could eat fruits by himself when he wanted to eat them in the future.

Su Lan gave Su Bai seeds such as strawberries, watermelons, grapes, and of course, tomatoes and cucumbers, which could be eaten as fruits, and Su Lan also gave Su Bai the seeds.