"Sister Qin!" Zhang Aniu was anxious: "You said you were going to give me a chance, how can you ......?"

"Ah Niu, you're too young." Xiaoqin looked at this immature face and sighed lightly: "We are not suitable." ”

"Who said it wasn't appropriate! I say it's right, it's right! Zhang Aniu shouted: "Anyway, I like you, I want to marry you as a wife!" ”

Things have come to this point, it is basically a difficult journey to pursue love in the New Year, but the biggest problem between Zhang Aniu and Xiaoqin is not the relationship between each other, but if the two really come together, how to face the eyes of the whole village?

The village is closed, and something in itself will be spread as soon as possible. Of course, good things are no problem, hello, hello, everyone, but if it's this kind of thing, in the face of pointing fingers in person or behind your back, maybe it's okay in a short time, but you can't stand it after a long time. So in the end, this matter went directly to the left and right.

"Ah Niu likes Xiaoqin?" Hearing this news, Zuo Xiaoyou was a little surprised.

"He seems to have an iron heart." Zhang Ayi was very embarrassed: "We can't control it, brother, what do you say about this?" ”

"It's easy." Zuo Xiaoyou said: "Tell Ah Niu that if he really marries Xiaoqin, he will definitely be criticized by the whole village, and then they will not be able to live in the village, if he thinks that he can take Xiaoqin's mother and daughter to live outside, let him marry Xiaoqin." ”

Speaking of this, Zuo Xiaoyou said lightly: "It is said that you can work hard for love, so let's see Ah Niu's determination." ”

……

The next day, Mid-Autumn Festival.

In the morning, Zhang Ayi and Zhang Acai took their mother and Zhang Aniu to Xiaoqin's house, roughly repeated what Zuo Xiaoyou said yesterday, and then looked at Zhang Aniu and Xiaoqin: "That's the thing, if you want to get married, you must leave Liangshan Village and live outside." Without the benefits of Liangshan, I am afraid that you will have a hard time outside. Even so, if you still choose to get married, we support you; If not, this is the end of the matter. ”

Xiaoqin immediately shook her head: "I won't leave the village, and I said yesterday that I won't marry Ah Niu." After a pause, he turned his head to Zhang Aniu and said, "Ah Niu, it is impossible for me to give up a comfortable life in the village and leave with you." You're still young, you're bound to meet better girls in the future, so there's no need to put your mind on me. ”

Zhang Aniu was silent, a thirteen-year-old boy with no skills, he could still make a living by farming in the countryside, but if he left the countryside, he had no ability to survive at all. Unless you steal, rob, or engage in other illegal things, this is actually the case with many bastards in society. I don't have the ability to live well, and I have no choice but to break the law.

Maybe some people succeed and become people who are feared by everyone, but many more people die on the way to becoming people. Once you have achieved a thousand bones, you only see the glamorous one, but ignore the risk of dying on the road. It is precisely because many people have this kind of luck mentality that the lives of these people will become very miserable and disgraceful.

With Zhang Aniu's current situation, there is a two-story small building at home, a money-making industry, and two sisters to help him, as long as he doesn't die, he will definitely be very happy in the future, but if he leaves the village and the two sisters don't help him, what will he do to make Xiaoqin's mother and daughter happy?

He does have feelings for Xiaoqin, but a large part of this affection is based on 'pitying' the other party, and at the same time, it is also based on his ability to support the other party. After all, how can he live well in this situation in the village, which gave Zhang Aniu the courage to pursue Xiaoqin, but without these, his courage would be gone.

For those young men and women who have good family conditions and a bright future, if they elope with a poor bastard, Zuo Xiaoyou will also applaud them, desperate for love, it is indeed true love.

But if you can't give up your privileged life and don't have the courage to elope with each other, then this relationship is nothing more than that.

It's nothing more than excessive hormone secretion, and I want to find a person of the opposite sex to roll the sheets. And there are many people of the opposite sex who can roll sheets, and there is no need to hang yourself from a tree. Looking at Zhang Aniu's reaction now, this is basically the case for him.

Zuo Xiaoyou has lived for so many years and read so many books, although he has not read psychological books, but his grasp of people's hearts is very accurate. He just knew that Zhang Aniu was a person who loved himself more than everything, to put it simply, it was a 'rationality is greater than emotion', and it was difficult to say that he was a selfish person, so he put forward such a temptation and let Zhang Aniu choose by himself.

The result is obvious, although a selfish person has feelings and emotions, but everything he does must be based on 'not hindering his own interests'. To put it simply, if on the basis of not affecting the quality of life, he doesn't mind taking out something that he can't eat for others, but it affects his quality of life for the sake of others, then I'm sorry, I still have something to do, so I'll go first.

Some people may feel that this kind of person is selfish and unworthy. But on the contrary, it is this kind of person who understands how to live a good life, and in today's society, such people are definitely the mainstream group.

Ask yourself, can you put your family out of the way for the sake of others' well-being? If you're really open-minded, your family will be unlucky to follow you.

On the premise of not paying attention to the national righteousness, do you choose to let your friends praise you, but you can't eat enough and don't have enough clothing? Or do you choose to say hello to few friends, but live comfortably with your family?

Pick it!

To put it mildly, Zhang Aniu is a person who is more rational than emotional, he can make more rational choices, as long as he doesn't die, a woman can basically live well if she marries him. But if Zhang Aniu really eloped with Xiaoqin desperately, then he is a person who is more emotional than rational, and his brain is easy to heat up, and when his enthusiasm is exhausted and he faces the hardships of life, Xiaoqin's mother and daughter will only suffer a lifetime of sins with him.

Love and bread are a dilemma, of course it is good to have both, but if you have to make a choice, I am afraid that most people will choose bread! Without bread, love is in the air. Usually read romance novels, it is enough to have a psychological satisfaction, don't bring it into life, unless you would rather starve to death than pursue ethereal love.

If you want to pursue love, you must first have bread, and love is always based on material foundations.

In this way, the problem between Zhang Aniu and Xiaoqin has been solved, but when this happens, there is also an invisible estrangement between Zhang Aniu and Xiaoqin, and when the two meet again in the future, I am afraid they will become nodding friends.

When Zuo Xiaoyou heard the result, he still had some regret in his heart. Although Zhang Aniu is a selfish person, after all, he is only thirteen years old, which is the age when he is hot-blooded and careless, Zuo Xiaoyou actually hopes that Zhang Aniu can make a desperate choice, so that when Zhang Aniu looks back on his youth when he is old, he will also know that he has also been desperate for love.

And being desperate is often synonymous with youth, but now it seems that Zhang Aniu is unlikely to have youth.

Of course, there are regrets in this way, but it is not necessarily bad, at least the pursuit of a peaceful and stable life is the foundation of all marriages and families. No one gets married to pursue excitement, and if they still pursue excitement after marriage, this marriage will not be good.

Of course, the forest is big and there are all kinds of birds, some men and women just like to pursue excitement, even after marriage, they have to pursue excitement, so if you can find a like-minded marriage partner, you have to congratulate you, because people like you can live smoothly and casually when they get married, and it is really not easy.

"Ah Niu has nothing to worry about here, but Xiaoqin is only in her early twenties and is a widow, and she is an orphan and widow, so it's really not good to have no man in the family." Zuo Xiaoyou said: "There is no suitable object in the village? ”

"Nope." Zhang Ayi and Zhang Acai shook their heads together: "The people in the village are superstitious, and they believe that Sister Qin is Kefu's life, even if she is a single, she doesn't dare to touch her, and now that life is good, everyone who can get married is married, and there are few singles in the village." ”

"Why do you have to find a single?" Zuo Xiaoyou said: "Xiaoqin's conditions are good, and there are a few families in the village who have died and have not remarried men, can't you find them?" ”

"It's still that problem, if Kefu's problem is not solved, no man in the village will marry her." Zhang Ayi said: "It is difficult to count on men in the village, unless you find men in other villages. Now that our Liangshan Village is rich, there are many people from other villages who want to come in. ”

"The village won't accept men." Zuo Xiaoyou shook his head: "Even if you want to, you can't get involved." ”

Now the thinking of the villagers in Liangshan Village is very simple, you didn't come when I was poor like that before, but now that my life is good, you are here, how can there be such a good thing in the world?

So Liangshan Village has been built for more than a year, although there are people from other villages who want to live in, but they are all driven out by the Liangshan villagers headed by the village chief, and let it go, women can marry, but they can only let women come, and women's families will not accept them!

Although this policy eliminated many unrelated people, there were still many women from other villages who married into Liangshan Village. First, Liangshan Village gave a lot of dowry, and second, the living conditions of Liangshan Village are here, and those who have daughters in other villages are willing to marry their daughters, and the daughters themselves are willing to live a good life in the future, so in the past year or so, in addition to newborn babies, more than a dozen daughters-in-law from other villages have also been added.

But the oldest of these daughters-in-law was sixteen years old, and the youngest was thirteen.

Thousands of years of tradition in the world's mountain villages, Zuo Xiaoyou doesn't want to interfere too much, anyway, he is a doctor, after strengthening the villagers' understanding of physiology and hygiene, the villagers will have their own judgment, what is the best marriage and childbirth?

If he sees those young daughters-in-law who are not yet fully developed, he will temporarily block the fertility of this little daughter-in-law, and when she grows up to a safer age, he will lift the birth restriction for her.

Of course, there is a lot of knowledge in it, so I won't repeat it here. (To be continued.) )