816 broke up

Su Ya's words still surprised me very much, because she I have always felt that her emotional intelligence is not high, and she belongs to the kind of simple and heartless person, and what she analyzed just now is actually right, how can it not surprise me, and at the same time, I am even more panicked, since she has seen it through, it will definitely be useless for me to explain more, so let's quickly admit my mistake and strive for her leniency.

So I didn't explain it later, and said to her directly: "This time I was really wrong, and I don't want to explain too much, but please believe me, I am absolutely innocent with her, nothing happened, and I don't ask you to forgive me now, just please don't be impulsive, don't think about it, don't be too angry, it's most important to be happy!" ”

After these words were sent, Su Ya fell silent again, she didn't send me a message for a long time, the more silent she was, the more anxious I was in my heart, what I wanted to know most was what her mood was now, and what she thought of me.

Anyway, I sent her a lot of messages, and I sent text messages, if she wasn't at home, it would be inconvenient for me to call, and I would definitely have called, but I also knew very well that even if I called the phone, people would definitely not answer.

This situation lasted for almost half an hour, Su Ya sent me a message, she said, "I feel that we are not suitable, let's break up!" ”

I actually had a premonition that she would say this, but when she said it, I was still very panicked and a little uncomfortable, and I said to her: "No, I don't care!" I know that you are angry and say these angry words now, deep down in your heart, you don't want to break up with me! ”

Su Ya sent me a message, and then said, "What do I think in my heart, can you know?" It's not just because of this incident, I've been thinking about it for a long time, and I don't think we're suitable! For example, the question of age, don't you keep telling me that you want to get married early, I'll tell you now, I won't get married before I am 25 years old, that is, you have to wait for me for at least six or seven years, how old are you now? Can you wait so long for me? ”

Su Ya's words directly asked me stupidly, I have considered the question of age more than once before, but I think that when my relationship with Su Ya matures, I can't let her get married just after twenty, in this way, my age is not very big, I can still accept it, but if she reaches the age of twenty-five, then I will have to wait for many years, when the children of Chen Chong, Shang Hairui and Zheng Hu will all join together and start fighting with other children, and my son has not yet been born, this is obviously unacceptable, besides, When I give birth to a child at that time, and when the child is about to get married, I will be fifty or sixty years old, if my son is sensible, it is fine, if he is not sensible, it is a big disaster, when I reach that age, can I still toss with him?

So after thinking about it so much, I also have my own bottom line, that is, I must get married before I am thirty years old, and it is not long ago, and it is impossible to wait for Su Ya to be twenty-five years old.

But at this time, Su Ya has already clearly said this, what should I do? If I insist on my bottom line with her, then the two of us will definitely get more and more quarrelsome at this time, and the problem and contradiction will still not be solved, so I think it is better to avoid this topic first, and wait for her to be angry in the future.

So I said to her, "Let's talk about marriage later, but this time I'll talk about it first!" I know I'm wrong, but it's not a big mistake of principle, a good friend came to me, there are two rooms for one night, nothing, if you break up with me, it's a little too impulsive, and I know that what you say is definitely not true, if you really want to break up with me, then you can continue with me for a month, if you still want to break up with me at that time, then I have nothing to say! ”

Su Ya replied to me very simply: "Why should I wait for you for a month?" I've thought about it very clearly now, and it's a decision I made after thinking about it for a long time, I'm going to break up with you anyway, and you don't have to bother with me so much! ”

When Su Ya sent these words, my heart felt cold, because I have been with her for so long, and she has been angry with me a lot, and she has made trouble many times, but there has never been a time when she has spoken so hurtfully like now, and carefully pondered what she said, why wait for me for a month, don't talk so much nonsense with her, this kind of words, is it she Su Ya said? So I feel that she has changed, is it because she really has an opinion about me in her heart? Have you really considered breaking up with me?

The more I thought about it, the more scared I became, the cooler it became, and I didn't even know how to talk back to Su Ya, what else could I say? So for a long time, I didn't reply to Su Ya, and then she took the initiative to send me a message and said, "Why don't you speak?" If you don't speak, you're acquiescing.,Then from now on.,Let's break up.,That's it! ”

After Su Ya's words came out, I actually felt a little more comfortable, because I thought that if she really wanted to break up with me, after those words were said before, she should not care about me anymore, and now she may be a little anxious when she sees that I don't speak, so she will send me such a paragraph again.

I hurriedly replied to her and said, "Anyway, I won't break up with you, I don't agree, you can't divide it yourself, that's your business, I don't agree!" ”

Su Ya said that she didn't care if I agreed or not, anyway, she had already decided! After sending this, she also sent me another sentence, asking me not to send messages and talk to her in the future, and not to make phone calls.

I thought that she should still be angry now, more impulsive, all I have to do now is try not to quarrel with her, keep silent, and apologize to her when she is a little more emotionally stable, so I didn't reply to her words later, and continued to remain silent, but what I didn't expect was that after being silent for a while, I felt that the time was almost up, so I sent her a message, but at this time the message couldn't be sent, and she had blocked me.

In fact, she blocked me, and I expected it, I tentatively added her a few times, but she was rejected, so I sent a text message to her, telling her not to be unhappy, to be happy every day, I won't bother her for the next two days, let her be quiet.

After the text message was sent, Su Ya didn't reply to me, it is estimated that she will not pay attention to me in the past two days, and then Wang Qiqi suddenly sent me a message, asking me what happened to Su Ya and how I broke up.

I was quite puzzled at the time, how did she know, could it be that Su Ya talked to her about me? No, I asked her why she asked that, and she said that Su Ya said that she was free and relaxed, and she understood that I had two problems, and asked me what the reason was, and saw if she could help me come up with ideas.

I'm in a good mood now, and I'm also bored, and I want to find someone to give me ideas, so I told her about my conflict with Su Ya, Wang Qiqi said after listening: "Maybe I don't have particularly good friends of the opposite sex, so I can't understand you asking people to live with you, but from an objective point of view, you are not too much, not to break up, I think the problem is in that girl, when Su Ya was in school before, she told me a few female friends around you who have a good relationship." , this Chen Hejing is one, and there is a mixed-race child or something, this person Su Ya is more concerned, she said that she has seen others, and she thinks she looks very beautiful and temperamental, she is envious and jealous, so these two people are two landmines in Su Ya, you can't step on it, if it is other girls, I don't think Su Ya will be so atmospheric, but if the two of them, then the problem is serious! ”

I think Wang Qiqi's analysis is very reasonable, I really don't make a big mistake in this matter, but the fault is that this person is Chen Yajing, I asked Wang Qiqi what should I do now, Wang Qiqi said cold Suya for a few days, and after this matter passes, I will apologize to others at that time, as long as I apologize well, and then give people a good guarantee, it is estimated that this matter is not a big problem, and it will not break up anyway.

Immediately afterwards, Wang Qiqi poured a basin of cold water on me, she said that even if this matter is solved, there will definitely be a next time, as long as I keep in touch with Chen Yajing and Gao Meng, then there will always be problems with Su Ya, I said that there is no solution to this matter, I can only choose one of the two? Choosing between a friend and Suya?

Wang Qiqi said that there is another way, but it doesn't work, that is, let Su Ya and Chen Yajing Gao Meng be friends, when the three of them get acquainted with each other, it is estimated that the situation will be better, I said that this is really not feasible, their age difference is too much, and it is not the same place, the living environment since childhood is not the same, and it is unlikely that they will get together.

Wang Qiqi said that it is up to me, anyway, that's all she can help me.

After continuing to talk to me for a while, Wang Qiqi said that she was sleepy and was going to sleep, and I also asked her to help me pay attention to Su Ya's dynamics at any time, remember to tell me if there is a situation, she said that she knew, and the people also joked with me, saying: "You tell me how many times I have helped you, and you have said many times that you will invite me to a big meal, until now I have not eaten a big meal from you, Su Ya is home, I don't know if I will come to school or not, I see that I can't eat your big meal in my life!" ”

I said that I would definitely be able to eat, if Su Ya went to continue going to school, I would definitely invite if I went, if I didn't go, when we got married, I would buy you a round-trip ticket, and you would invite you to a big meal every day when you came, and she said that she could remember these words.

At two or three o'clock in the middle of the night, I heard Chen Chong's room in a daze, just at this time I wanted to pee, I went out of the house, just out of the house, I saw Chen Chong walking towards the door with his clothes on, looking at his posture, he should want to go out, I asked him what he was doing, he wanted to go out, he smiled and said: "I just had a spring dream, now I can't help it, go to the hotel to sleep for a while!" ”

What he meant was to find a Hunan girl, I scolded him twice, telling him to hurry up, he hurriedly pulled the door open and went out, when he returned to the house after peeing, I couldn't sleep, when I took out my mobile phone to play with my mobile phone, I found that the basketball king actually came to my space, maybe I just broke up with Su Ya, this juncture is more sensitive, he suddenly came to my space to make me a little cranky, I think he may have smelled something, or Su Ya chatted with him?

If that's the case, then I can't accept it.

When I woke up the next morning, Chen Chong had already come back, I asked him why he came back so early, he said he was afraid that Lin Ruoyi would video with her in the morning, so he came back after doing it, I said you are really, why bother, I am so tired of tossing, I will live honestly with Lin Ruoyi in the future, he said that he didn't listen to my monk chanting, he was going out, asked him why he was going, he said to find a project, and said that he was going to go to Brother Lei to chat with Brother Lei, to see if Brother Lei could provide him with some good projects, I said that Brother Lei had just come out of prison and had derailed from society, and you asked him to talk to you about the project, which was considered to be the wrong person, and he said that I didn't understand, and I went to wash up when I was done.

When I went to work in the company this day, I was full of thoughts about Su Ya, and when I didn't have a conflict with others, I couldn't think about it a few times a day, but now it's like this, I actually miss her every once in a while, and it's almost noon, I'm going to add her QQ to try it, and a takeaway brother is coming to the company.