Youzi said: "The use of etiquette, harmony is precious." Pen ~ fun ~ Pavilion www.biquge.info the way of the king, Si is beautiful; If you can't do it, you can make peace with it, and if you don't use etiquette, it can't do it. ”

January 13, 2019, Lunar Laba, Sunday.

After eating Laba rice in the morning, Zuo Xiaoyou explained the Analects to Sweet Orange in the study. 》

"At the opening ceremony of the 08 Olympic Games, there was a sentence in the performance of Confucius's 3,000 disciples: 'Harmony is precious for the use of courtesy.'" This is where this quote comes from. ”

"Brother-in-law, I haven't seen the opening ceremony of the Olympics, and I was not born at that time!" The floor heating at home is very hot, in winter, but in the house wearing summer clothes, left and right is a short coat and shorts, sweet orange is a short dress, because the house is too hot, the two even opened the window to 'enjoy the cool'.

"I wasn't born when I had the Analects, but that didn't stop me from studying." Zuo Xiaoyou smiled slightly: "It may be a bit subjective to say this, but throughout the history of the Olympic Games, there is no opening ceremony more exciting than the 08 Olympics." We have learned this first in today's Analects, and then our task is to watch the opening ceremony of the 08 Olympic Games. Write a reflection after reading it. ”

"Hmm." Sweet Orange closed the Analects and asked, "Brother-in-law, where are we looking?" ”

"There is an opening ceremony of the Olympics on the Internet, and when it is connected to TV, I will find a Japanese version." Zuo Xiaoyou said.

"Why the Japanese version?" Sweet Orange was puzzled.

"Because the domestic version is too disgusting."

After a while, when Bai Coral heard that he wanted to watch the opening ceremony of the 08 Olympics, he also moved a small bench to watch the excitement.

The Japanese version found by the left and right has Chinese subtitles, otherwise the two women would not understand.

Seeing the familiar picture of the opening ceremony of the Olympic Games, Bai Coral misses it very much: "When I first watched the Olympic Games, I was only twelve or thirteen years old, and I was old in the blink of an eye. ”

"If Liu Tianxian hears this, he will be beaten to death." Zuo Xiaoyou smiled faintly: "Besides, you will always be eighteen years old, how can you be old." ”

"Sigh for a moment!" Bai Coral snuggled up to his right side and pillowed on his shoulder: "Even if the appearance will not change, the heart will be old, and I feel much older during this time." ”

The big hand gently stroked the white coral hair: "It's all over, and the days will be long." ”

"I also feel old." Little Sweet Orange came to such a sentence very abruptly, which made Zuo Xiaoyou and Bai Coral laugh and scold in unison: "People are small and big." ”

After an hour, the performance of the opening ceremony of the Olympic Games was over, after which the entrance ceremony of the athletes was omitted, allowing Sweet Orange to watch the process of lighting the Olympic flame.

After reading all the content, Zuo Xiaoyou asked Tiancheng: "What do you think?" ”

"It's beautiful." Sweet Orange was a little excited, and her little face was flushed: "My heart is pounding, it's so beautiful." ”

"Then go back and write me a reflection." Zuo Xiaoyou smiled and said: "Write carefully, and write the words better." If you want to be an idol in the future, your own literacy must be sufficient, so that it can last for a long time. ”

"What is literacy?" Sweet Orange asked.

"Vegetarian is quality; Raising is upbringing. Zuo Xiaoyou said: "All in all, it is a good habit that is usually cultivated." After a pause, Zuo Xiaoyou asked, "What kind of talent do you think are liked?" ”

"Cute." Sweet orange comes when she opens her mouth.

"......" Zuo Xiaoyou looked at her and smiled: "Then how can people be admired?" ”

"Old, educated." Sweet Orange thought for a moment and said.

Zuo Xiaoyou shook his head: "I'm old, but I went to ask for food; is educated, but has a bad stomach. How can this kind of person be admired. ”

Sweet Orange blinked: "Then how can you be admired?" ”

"First of all, you must be physically and mentally right." Left Xiao Right said: "If the body is not right, the shadow is oblique, and if the heart is not right, it is evil." ”

Let Sweet Orange stand up, stand up straight, and smile left and right: "It's like standing and walking, you are standing right, take two steps and show us." ”

"Let's go!" Sweet Orange walked back and forth in front of the two of them with light steps, and turned in a circle: "Don't lean it!" ”

"Not bad, not bad." Bai Coral smiled and nodded: "I have practiced dancing for a few years, and my body is very upright and my body is also very good." ”

Zuo Xiaoyou nodded with a smile: "Standing has a standing phase, walking has a walking phase, these two points are good, but there is a sitting phase, and when you sit in the future, you must also have a sitting appearance, otherwise it is easy to get myopia in a small place, and you are uneducated in a large way, which must be paid attention to." ”

Sweet Orange thoughtfully, walked to Zuo Xiaoyou and sat down, her upper body was straight, her legs were together, her hands were placed on her thighs in a proper manner, and she turned her head and asked, "Brother-in-law, is this right?" ”

"Good." Zuo Xiaoyou nodded with a smile: "You have mastered the positive aspect of the body, you must continue to maintain it in the future, don't relax." ”

"Hmm." Sweet Orange nodded and asked, "Then how can you be right?" ”

"Have a good heart, not afraid of evil, and have a right heart." Zuo Xiaoyou said: "To be a man, you must talk about conscience, and with conscience, you can have good thoughts, but this is not a good heart." Because he has a conscience and has good thoughts, if he is cowardly and retreats in the face of trouble, he is still not upright. Only when you have a good heart, and you are not timid in the face of things, and you are rational and calm, can you be regarded as initially achieving a righteous heart. ”

Sweet Orange lowered her eyes and thought for a long time, and asked, "But what if something bad happens to me?" ”

"Then ask for help." Zuo Xiaoyou said: "Courage is due, but not reckless, if you encounter something that you can't solve, you must not rush forward with your own strength, not only can you not solve the problem, but you will also put yourself in." Therefore, in this situation, we should try to stabilize the situation as much as possible and ask for help. ”

After a pause: "For example, if you encounter a thief stealing something, the thief is tall and strong, and you can't solve it, so quickly call the police, if you can't wait for the police to come, try to see if there is anyone taller and stronger than the thief nearby, and try to see if you can get his help?" ”

"And what if that person doesn't want to help, and the thief runs away when the police come?" Sweet Orange asked.

"If you have done your best, even if it backfires, you will have no regrets." The big hand gently stroked the sweet orange hair: "When the manpower is poor, it is enough to be worthy of my heart." ”

Sweet Orange blinked and hummed, "I see." ”

There was a pause: "So that I will be admired?" ”

"This will only make people respect, but to make people admire, you need to improve your self-cultivation." Zuo Xiaoyou smiled and said, "You say, what kind of person will be admired?" Adore? ”

"Celebrities are quite adorable." Sweet Orange Road.

"Heh......" Zuo Xiaoyou smiled and shook his head: "Celebrities will only be worshiped by brain-dead fans, aside from brain-dead fans, how many people will worship a star?" Especially nowadays there are so many chaotic stars, do you worship them? ”

"That'...... What about teachers? Sweet Orange said uncertainly.

"Do you worship your teacher?" Zuo Xiaoyou asked.

Sweet Orange thought about it, nodded, and shook her head again: "Some teachers worship, and some teachers don't." ”

"Oh?" Zuo Xiaoyou smiled and asked, "Then which teachers do you admire?" ”

"The teacher who taught me to dance." Sweet Orange Road.

"Anything else?"

"It's gone." Sweet Orange shook her head.

"......" Zuo Xiaoyou asked: "You don't worship other teachers?" ”

"Hmm." Sweet Orange nodded.

"Why?"

"I can't say why." Sweet Orange thought for a while and said, "I just don't worship them, sometimes it's a little ......"

Seeing that Sweet Orange suddenly stopped talking, pursed her lips and muttered to herself, Zuo Xiaoyou smiled and said, "Sometimes it's a little annoying, isn't it?" ”

Sweet Orange was startled, looking at him with big eyes, blinking, as if surprised how he knew?

"Heh......" Zuo Xiaoyou smiled: "This can't be helped, teacher!" Preach and teach and solve doubts! A large percentage of the teachers in schools now can't do that, and it's normal for you to hate it. ”

"Uh-huh." Sweet Orange nodded again and again: "Although I don't understand what my brother-in-law said, I think it makes sense." ”

“……”

"Little naughty." The big hand as white as jade pinched the sweet orange face: "If you don't understand, just ask, don't pretend to understand." ”

"Then ......" Sweet Orange was still pinched and asked, "What is preaching, teaching, and solving doubts?" ”

"To preach, to teach the right ideas, that is, the principles of life; Teach and impart what you have to learn; Solve doubts, ask the teacher if you don't understand, and the teacher will naturally tell you why. "In ancient times, knowledge was a very valuable resource, and it was basically controlled by those big families, so if a knowledgeable person saw a material that could be made, he would definitely teach the disciple very carefully, and the disciple would respect the teacher very much when he was taught by the teacher." This is called respecting the teacher. ”

"But today's teachers don't impart knowledge because they like a certain student, but because teaching is his job, because it is work, and it is batch assembly line work, which will naturally make teachers more and more neglectful of their work."

Speaking of this, Zuo Xiaoyou sighed: "In the past, teachers could still teach students with their hearts and minds, but since there were various tutoring classes, teachers have put their minds on holiday tutoring, and they are no longer attentive enough in class." ”

"Why?" Sweet Orange blinked: "It's all classes at school and tutorial classes!" ”

"Because tutoring classes make more money." Zuo Xiaoyou shook his head and said, "Okay, this is not something you should know at your age." But you should know by now that not all teachers deserve respect and adoration, right? ”

"Hmm." Sweet Orange nodded and asked, "Then what kind of people will be worshipped?" ”

"Actually, this question varies from person to person." "But in general, as long as they are physically and mentally upright, people who can make outstanding achievements in related fields are worthy of worship and admiration." ”

After a pause: "For example, the comics you like to read, those cartoonists who draw comics, do you worship them?" ”

"Worship!" Sweet Orange's eyes lit up.

"Reverence or not?"

"Respect!" Sweet Orange nodded repeatedly: "I especially want the cartoonist's autograph." ”

"Heh......" Zuo Xiaoyou chuckled: "So people who have made outstanding achievements in related fields will always be admired." But these people will only be admired by a part of the group, and if you want people from different fields to admire together, you need to have the following points. Zuo Xiaoyou said seriously: "You must remember this, as long as you remember these and do what I say, one day, you will become a character admired and loved by the whole world." ”

Sweet Orange nodded again and again: "Brother-in-law, say it quickly!" ”

"Okay." Zuo Xiaoyou smiled slightly, sorted out his thoughts, and said, "First of all, you have to be a literate person. ”

"Now there is a saying: no culture, how terrible. From this sentence, it can be seen that an uneducated person is not liked. And a literate person, maybe you won't like him either, but at least you won't be disgusted. Is that right? ”

Faced with this question, Sweet Orange thought carefully and nodded: "Hmm." I don't hate literate people. He quickly added, "Except for some teachers." ”

"Heh......" Zuo Xiaoyou smiled and said: "We only stand on an equal footing and say that in a certain situation, when you want to know something, but don't know what to do, at this time there are two people around you, one is the same as you, or even inferior to you, and they don't know anything about it, while the other is full of wealth and armor. Then you will rely on the person who doesn't understand anything? Or the one who understands everything? ”

"Of course you know everything!" Sweet Orange answered without hesitation, this is the most normal answer.

Zuo Xiaoyou nodded with a smile: "So it's important to be a literate person." ”

Zuo Xiaoyou watched a 'talent show' a few years ago, which was held by an uneducated national husband with a group of even more uneducated 'women who want to be popular', but in the link of testing the cultural level, those simple questions that are almost common sense are actually answered by these uneducated women who want to be popular.

Although these women are as beautiful as flowers and youthful, everyone who watched the video sneered at these women and despised them.

And this incident has also told many people that it is a good thing for a woman to be beautiful, and it is not a problem for a beautiful woman to be uneducated, but don't show it just because you want to be popular. It's enough if you don't have the culture to know yourself, but if you want to take it out and embarrass people, it will only ruin your reputation, and you will be hated at the worst, so why bother?

"Hmm." Tiancheng felt very reasonable: "Brother-in-law, I will definitely study hard in the future, make progress every day, and be a cultured woman." ”

It's also a 'woman', the little girl is good, quite a ghost.

Zuo Xiaoyou smiled and said, "It is appropriate to be educated, but you must be clear." Cultured people are not necessarily highly educated, and those with high education are not necessarily educated. ”

"Why?" Sweet orange dregs have a pair of big eyes full of questions: "Isn't it true that the higher the education, the more educated you are?" ”

"Not necessarily." Zuo Xiaoyou said: "To give the most realistic example, for example, me, my education is only high school graduation, but after I graduated from high school, I have learned a lot of knowledge by myself; And although your cousin graduated from college, she has ...... knowledge reserve."

"Hate, what do you say I'm doing?" White Coral thrashed him with a pair of pink fists. (To be continued.) )