Rural women in the 80s, especially in remote mountain villages like poplar trees, were feudal and backward, and people's ideas were relatively conservative.

For example, a woman, marrying someone is a lifelong thing, divorce will be laughed at, after marriage, life is the family member, death is the family ghost.

This is a habit that has been cultivated since childhood, and it is a tradition that is deeply ingrained in the bones, and it is not something that can be changed by someone who says change.

Chu Yulan doesn't have three heads and six arms, she can't change Wu Xiuying, she can only guide her well, let her know that she is actually paying for Chu Chengye by doing this, so Wu Xiuying will not resist from her heart and agree to her opinion.

"Second aunt, are you okay?" After she went home yesterday, she didn't see Chu Qianqin, and she didn't know what was going on, but what was certain was that she was beating Wu Xiuying's idea.

"It's good, my mother went home early this morning, she saw that she couldn't persuade me, so she scolded me twice, and then went back, I must have broken my mother's heart." Wu Xiuying doesn't walk around with the people in the village on weekdays, her personality is more introverted, and her mother-in-law doesn't want to see her and doesn't give birth to a son, so there are not many people in the village who can talk to her.

As soon as Chu Yulan came, she said all the words she was holding in her heart, who would have thought that as soon as she said two sentences, tears fell again.

"Don't cry!" When Chu Yulan saw Wu Xiuying's tears, her eyes were red and her nose was sore, so she was about to cry, so she couldn't help herself from crying, and shouted loudly.

Wu Xiuying was frightened by her voice, and didn't dare to shed any more tears, but just looked at her pitifully, Chu Yulan wanted this effect. Not only did she not let her cry, but she also wanted her to laugh, Wu Xiuying was inexplicably irritable when she cried, she was so adult, she only knew how to cry when she encountered something.

"Second aunt, crying can't solve any problems, in the future, except in front of my second uncle, no one is allowed to cry in front of anyone under any circumstances! Don't hide alone and cry secretly! Chu Yulan stared at her eyes and said word by word.

"Hmm." Wu Xiuying seemed to be bewitched, and nodded mechanically.

"Your life is your own life, whether it is good or bad, happy or painful, only you know best, and what my grandma or others give is just opinions. It's what they think, it doesn't matter, what matters is what you think, how you do it, what you want to protect, what you want to get! Chu Yulan grabbed ~ her hand and comforted her, wanting to change is not something that happens overnight, and it often takes a lot of hardships to do it.

Most people don't understand and live all their lives, they don't know why they live, they always subconsciously consider the opinions and opinions of others, but they never know what they want.

This is the first kind of person.

A very small number of people have lived in a daze all their lives, and when they are dying, they have a complete understanding, and they all understand the rights and wrongs, grievances and grievances of the past.

This is the second type of person.

Only a very small number of people, from the very beginning, can know what they want, clarify their direction, follow the right path, and move forward.

This is the third type of person.

Chu Yulan belonged to the second type of person in her last life, she only understood everything when she was dying, and after being reborn, she wanted to be the third type of person, and Wu Xiuying has always belonged to the first type of person.

"Yulan, what should I do, what should I do, Yulan, you tell the second aunt, what should I do next?" Wu Xiuying seemed to grasp ~ a life-saving straw in despair, and grabbed Chu Yulan with all her strength, wanting her to give her guidance.