896 Getting Married?
When Chen Yajing was sent to the door of her community, she happened to meet her mother, her mother didn't know that we were back, and she was very excited to see me, at that time, her mother had a few aunts of about the same age, and they all asked her mother who I was, and her mother also generously introduced me to them, saying that I was the object of Chen Yajing, and there was an aunt who made Chen Yajing's jokes, she said: "Oh, it's a pity, I also like your family quietly, and I have always wanted to introduce my son to your family Jingjing, now it seems to be too late!" ”
Chen Yajing's mother smiled and waved her hand, saying, "It's late, it's late, there's a master!" Then these aunts also asked me about my specific situation, such as where I worked, where my home was, etc., I basically didn't talk much, it was all Chen Yajing and her mother who said next to me, anyway, they praised me all over again, saying that I started my own company, and how many years I was a classmate with Chen Yajing, and the relationship was very deep, etc., I was a little embarrassed to say it.
However, Chen Yajing's mother introduced me to these aunts, which made me very happy and comfortable, probably because the people I used to deal with were some peers, and now I have a very wonderful feeling with these elders in the chat office, I originally planned to send Chen Yajing back to it, but her mother asked me to eat at home at night, I thought about it, let's just talk to her mother about marriage tonight.
The last time I came to Chen Yajing's house for dinner, her uncle and other relatives were there, this time except for me, there were only her parents left, although there were fewer people, but the level of tension in my heart did not weaken, because there were many people that day, I basically didn't have to deal with Chen Yajing and her father, and now there are four of us at the dinner table, and it is inevitable to talk to others, I have never been so scared before, but since I liked Chen Yajing in my heart, I saw her father a little empty, I don't know why.
When the meal was almost finished, we talked about business, that is, marriage, Chen Yajing's mother was very anxious anyway, saying that she wanted to get married as soon as possible, and asked us if we got married at the end of this year, if we had any opinions, I and Chen Yajing had not spoken, and his father opened his mouth to say that the end of this year is a little too early, and next year is more suitable.
When her mother heard her father say this, her face fell, and she said angrily: "Our daughters are so old, why is it early?" When Lao Ding talked to you about his son's marriage to Jingjing, why were you so positive, and now, do you think it's a little early? You ......"
Chen Yajing's mother's words didn't say it, because Chen Yajing and her father glared at her, and then he explained: "Isn't it because of the trouble with Lao Ding's family, so I can't do it this year, otherwise what do people outside think of our family, we got engaged to this person in the first half of the year, but married another person in the second half of the year, aren't you a joke!" ”
Her mother snorted and said angrily, "What do you care about what others think?" Our daughter got married to live for herself, is it for others to see? You just love face too much, how much money can that face be worth, is it more important than our daughter's happiness? Anyway, this time, I am in charge, and I will do it at the end of this year, the sooner the better! ”
Chen Yajing's father was still a little unhappy, he said: "Then marriage is not such a knot as yours, you can't get engaged before marriage or something?" It's December now, and it's time to get engaged and married at the end of the year? You don't ...... either."
Before he finished speaking, he was interrupted by Chen Yajing's mother, her mother said: "What kind of marriage, don't get engaged, just tie the knot, if you are ashamed, we will save any ceremony, and don't go to the hotel to do a big deal, just let the two of them simply get a certificate, as for relatives or something, invite them to dinner, I think it's good!" ”
As soon as her mother's words came out, Chen Yajing hurriedly answered with a smile, she said: "Yes, yes, my mother is right, I also hope so, it's good if you don't do it, anyway, my dad also thinks that there are more people from relatives and friends who are embarrassed, so I like to get married quietly!" ”
As she spoke, Chen Yajing squeezed her eyes at me and said, "Yes, you also want to get married quietly like this, right?" ”
Speaking from the heart, it doesn't matter to me how I get married, after all, I don't have parents now, and I don't have relatives or anything, some are these brothers around me, and they really get married just to marry themselves, not to show anyone, and they don't have to care about what the scene is, so I can accept such a simple marriage, as long as Chen Yajing is happy, but now that she and her father are more serious here, I naturally can't stand on her side, otherwise I won't offend the future father-in-law.
So I smiled and said, "It's okay, I'm not in a hurry to get married, and I'll be fine next year!" ”
Chen Yajing probably didn't expect me to say this, she was stunned for a moment, and then she glanced at me and muttered in a low voice, saying that I was not promising, her mother probably understood that I was a little afraid of her father, so she said to me: "Tong Tong, don't be afraid, I'll call the shots for you, I have the final say in this matter, you don't have to be afraid of your uncle, if you want to get married early, let's get married early, the matter is settled, and my heart will be steady, otherwise I worry about this and that every day, I'm too tired!" ”
I smiled, I don't know what to say, maybe silence at this time is my best choice, as for how to get married, we didn't talk about it in the end, and then when I came out of Chen Yajing's house, Chen Yajing also gave me a way, on this part of the road, she sent me a bunch of complaints, saying that she came to her house today to discuss marriage, and I didn't say a few words throughout the whole process, nor did I express my position, and marriage is not her business alone, I don't express my position and don't speak, how can this be called discussion.
I smiled and said, "Before discussing with your parents, I think it's better for the two of us to have a unified opinion first, and if our opinions are unified, your parents will be able to talk about it, otherwise like today, we don't agree with each other, and we can't talk about it!" ”
Chen Yajing glanced at me and said, "Okay, just do as you say, let's discuss it first, what are you planning, you tell me!" ”
I said I can do it, anyway, my career is stable, my age is up, and I can get married at any time, Chen Yajing said that I didn't say it, and then she asked me, is it this year, or next year, I give a quasi-word, I asked her if she wanted to be this year or next year, she didn't think much about it, she said very simply this year, and jokingly said: "You said that you hook up this and hook up that every day, if I don't get married with you early, then you run away with someone, so it's better to get married early, just this year!" ”
Chen Yajing is obviously lowering her value, she can joke like this, it still surprises me, I said don't you bury me, what you said is like I want to run away, she pouted, I can't say for sure, she said, she also asked me to quickly answer, how about getting married this year.
Seriously, I don't care what, but it's already December, if you get married this year, there won't be much time, it's really a bit too sudden, I'm not ready yet, I told Chen Yajing is it a little too sudden, saying that if you get married, you will really get married?
Chen Yajing heard me say this, snorted with a smile, and said, "I'm just casually talking about testing you, to see if you are nervous, if you don't want to, then next year!" It's okay to get married next year! ”
I hurriedly said that I didn't want to, and I have no opinion on getting married this year, and I jokingly said: "As long as you want, now the two of us can go to the Civil Affairs Bureau to get a certificate!" ”
Chen Yajing sneered, she said: "Whether what you say is true or not, but I feel so comfortable and happy when I listen to it!" ”
I said look at what you said, I must be sincere, she scolded me for swearing, saying that it's all over now, and I'm going to the Civil Affairs Bureau, isn't this teasing her, she told me to go back quickly, let me think about it tonight, and talk to her about marriage carefully tomorrow.