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I am also fortunate to take advantage of the New Year and the New Year to wish you a happy New Year, a happy family and prosperous financial fortune.

Since I've written it, let's write a little more.

I started relatively late, probably in my third or fourth year of college. Relying on a little literary accumulation in his plainness, his heart is very high, and he can't see others in his eyes at all, and only lives in his own small circle and small world. I also know that there are people outside the world and there is a sky outside the sky, but I don't want to see it in my eyes.

I built a city for myself, and I was the only one in the city, and as a matter of course I became my own lord. I don't want to communicate with outsiders, and I don't need to communicate with outsiders. I think what I'm going to do is the best, even though I'm not the best yet, but in time......

I usually read a lot of books, but most of them look at them with a critical eye, taking the essence and removing the dross, and I think this is okay, it is hard work, and I always explain the effort in this way when enlightening my friends.

I am a very polite person in life, and I will nod and say hello when I see my seniors, but only I know how much is out of etiquette and how much is respect from the heart. I've always wondered, is there anything shining in you? Do you have a skill? Is it charismatic? Otherwise, why should I respect you.

I have read a lot of miscellaneous books, and I think I understand a lot of truths, and I am an assertive, thoughtful, capable and responsible person. But there is one thing that I dare not admit: Ah, it turns out that you also read anyone's books.

Reading someone's book is, in my opinion, agreeing with someone's thoughts, opinions, and works.

I won't say, I will never say, I will just silently buy and watch, and then learn from each other's strengths and weaknesses. I'm afraid that people will say that I grew up eating "100 family meals", and I want to hear how different and unique I am.

However, in this world, I am doing something wrong, very wrong - I have confused the personality of being a person with the personality of doing things, and people and things should be separated.

Being a person can have his own personality, he can be left and right, he can eat all directions, he can be taciturn, low-key and introverted, he can be approachable, he can be arrogant, independent, and he can have a lot of his own small personality.

But you can't do things, you should do things in a down-to-earth manner, lower your posture, and work hard and work hard.

From elementary school to high school, I required myself to study well, and my self-control ability must be strong, and I couldn't go out to play, watch TV, or play games without finishing my homework...... Don't do anything that is not related to studying.

I was proud of my self-control until I went to college, and my rebellious period came belatedly. A person always has a rebellious period, and the better and longer it is suppressed, the more it will rebound.

Fortunately, I didn't react to my strict demands, so instead of having the opportunity to make up for my teenage regret of wanting to be a "rebellious teenager", I lost the most precious quality of my school days, self-control, and learned to justify my laziness.

I once read a book, and after reading it, I posted a Weibo - human nature has so many weaknesses, why can human beings still rule the earth?

It wasn't until a long time later that it occurred to me that the answer to this question occurred to me - because humans are the only creatures that can overcome their own weaknesses.

However, this answer did not shock or shake me much, at least not into action, and I still live a life that I feel very comfortable with. And also to comfort myself that I kept moving forward, just a little slower.

I told myself that one day when I stood in that place, I would stand more firmly and longer because I walked slowly and steadily, and what I achieved would definitely be worthy of my "hard work".

But the opposite is true.

The word effort is really hard to define, and everyone's standards are different. But I think -- if there's one thing that doesn't end up satisfying us, it's that we didn't do our best.

We might say: I really did my best. Then the gap between "best effort" and "best effort" is the gap between us and "satisfactory results".

I saw a sentence in the movie to the effect that we always talk about working hard, but many people don't know what hard work looks like.

I didn't know before, maybe I had a glimpse of "hard work" before high school, but now I seem to understand.

The effort is divided into three layers.

The first layer is that in the eyes of others, you feel that you have worked hard;

The second layer is that you feel that you have worked hard in your own eyes;

The third layer is that your efforts have helped you accomplish the desired goals.

Finally, and most ashamed of all, my city has been floating alone for too long, and it is time to open the gates and get grounded. Respect and recognition of others is also to face up to and improve oneself.

The more we grow, the more we should know how to be humble and humble like a valley, just like the fuller the ears of rice, the more we will bend down.

There is a lot of nonsense, but the most important thing is to do things in a down-to-earth manner, be a man according to one's duty, and be worthy of one's time and conscience. May you all "gain" in the new year.