I don't shy away from tragic things happening, but I hate that some people use other people's tragic things as a talking point for talk.

It's not that I hate tragedy itself, tragedy happens every minute and every second in this world, but I hate from the bottom of my heart the attitude of using those tragic tragedies that happen to others as a piece of news to talk about, as a story that can be happily shared with others.

Since the tragedy has happened, in this era of extremely developed information, the tragic things that happen to everyone will be infinitely expanded and disseminated, but this kind of communication can bring a wake-up effect to people, and it is not a proper excuse for people to discuss and publicize this incident as news and talking points.

What I hate so much is not the incident itself, but the attitude of the uncompassionate and unethical attitude of taking the tragedy of other people's pain as the humble pleasure that arises when you are talking to people in pursuit of information asymmetry.

I think that if people's pleasure comes from the discussion, the most basic point is that the information is not equal.

If I tell you something you don't know, your look of surprise, or the desire to get you interested and gossip, I think it will give me a very high and deep pleasure.

This kind of pleasure is very basic, and I call it the satisfaction of information asymmetry.

In this era when everyone has a mobile phone and everyone can access a lot of news, what kind of things can earn the most eyeballs, and tragedy can catch people's attention the most.

I also watch the news, and I don't object to the basic carrier role of news dissemination of information itself, but I hate it very much that someone has no compassion and says in front of me: "There is such an incident, there is a three-year-old little girl, because she jumped back to play when she got off the elevator with her mother, and fell down, and the force of the elevator scissors cut off the little girl's fingers......"

That elated look disgusted me from the bottom of my heart!

And if I think about it, what I am disgusted with is not that this thing has been spread by word of mouth, nor that he is elated when he says these things, but what I make unbearable is the indifference he felt from the bottom of my heart when he said this, exchanging the misery of others for a sense of pleasure and satisfaction for himself.

Someone else's tragedy should never be your talking point!

When I argued with him, he actually said to me, "Shouldn't this kind of thing be told to others as a wake-up call?"

When you talk about him, you don't think it's something to wake up to, it's just a new thing for you, it's just fun!

I hate that you don't know how to be merciful, that's not what I want you to be!

The saddest thing for me is that this disgust actually overrides other emotions, no matter how abundant and strong other emotions are, this disgust is completely above all of them, and it is more of a disappointment in human nature!

If you don't cultivate virtue and have no compassion, what's the use of making more offerings?