Chapter 367: Good Suffering
When it can save the family's energy, Shen Weiguo will never let the family make more effort.
Xiao Bei reunited to win three points, and at night, after Ning Ning fell asleep, the couple naturally had an intimate relationship. Shen Weiguo was slightly aggrieved and thought about his daughter-in-law asking for more, telling him what he missed, which made Wen Juan deeply feel the source of power for his enthusiasm and longing.
The school started in September, and there is no doubt that the two children, An An and Lele, will directly enter the second grade with excellent results. Of course, in this school season, the Shen family has another big event, that is, Ning Ning, who is almost three years old, can enter school and it is time to go to kindergarten. Although, in real terms, following Wen Juan's enlightenment teaching, Ning Ning now has much more knowledge than children who graduated from kindergarten, but Wen Juan feels that children still need to have an environment for children to grow up, and they should not be in a hurry.
Ning Ning is a quiet and detached character, after An An and Lele went to school, she was the only child, she was used to it, and she needed to return to the collective. Wen Juan decided to send Ning Ning to school, not expecting Ning Ning to learn too much knowledge in kindergarten, she wanted Ning Ning to take advantage of this to feel the collective, feel the joy of children of the same age, and feel what the world of normal children is like...
This is also a small freshman after Wen Juan sent Ning Ning to the kindergarten on time and age, and insisted on sending Ning Ning to the kindergarten after An An and Lele entered. Wen Juan's purpose is to let Ning Ning feel the collective, even if it has been three years, Ning Ning has basically not learned anything, but as long as Ning Ning can successfully feel the so-called collective... That's worth it, too!
After Ning Ning also went to school, Wen Juan was completely idle, so she put more energy into work. At that time, she had Ning Ning, and in order to take better care of the child, she applied for early graduation and put more energy and time on the child. An An and Lele went to kindergarten one after another, and then elementary school, Wen Juan had less than half of her worries, and now she settled Ning Ning and sent her to kindergarten. In a blink of an eye, more than three years later, Wen Juan could finally breathe a sigh of relief and be light.
Wen Juan's most important work in recent years is still in the collation and research of pharmacology, which is also something that Wen Juan has been studying carefully in recent years. How can all kinds of prescriptions and various medicinal effects be more concrete, how can they be made into Chinese patent medicines, and how can they be turned into powders that can be handled at home at will, so that Chinese medicine can be simplified, this is their goal.
It is precisely because they have a goal that Wen Juan and Deng Chonglou have never stopped researching, cold medicine, stomach medicine, and gunpowder medicine over the years... All kinds of common Chinese patent medicines began to enter thousands of households in China, so that more people recognize the effect of this brand, there is such a foundation, and the fastest means to intervene in, almost monopolizing the declaration of the market, this time, they are the uncrowned king, naturally, profit is more and more objective. Of course, making profit is not the ultimate goal, Wen Juan and Deng Chonglou's ultimate goal is to let Chinese patent medicine completely replace the position of Western medicine and become the first choice of patients.
They are not charities, businessmen are talking about business, and they must pursue profits. But in the pursuit of profits, price is still the benchmark, and quality is naturally the benchmark, so that the people can spend the least money and drink the most effective medicines, which is what Qin Feiyang is worried about.
After the three children went to school, Wen Juan's footsteps were gradually not limited to the home, she was at home before, because of the needs of the children, but now Ning Ning is also in kindergarten, and there are no children to hinder her steps, she can move forward, forward, and forward.
They have a lot of children, whether it is the wife of the son who goes to the daughter-in-law, or Ning Ning's dowry in the future, what they need is for them as parents, and they must prepare it properly for them in advance. This is the tradition of the Chinese people, for Wen Juan, she wants the children to lay a foundation for perseverance, so that the children can step on their shoulders, can go higher and further, every parent is willing to pay for the child wholeheartedly, but Wen Juan in some aspects, more unrestricted to spoil the child.
Wen Juan's bottom-line requirements for the three children, in official terms, are to ask them to be positive, love life, and not break the law and commit crimes. In layman's terms, as long as the child is healthy and lives a serious life, Wen Juan is enough. The goal of her and Shen Weiguo's efforts is not to make the family live a better life, so that the children can step on their shoulders and see higher and go further.
In this society, sometimes it is very realistic, with a good foundation, how to do it in the end, it is undoubtedly easier, there is an easier way to succeed, why choose a bumpy muddy path, stained with sludge! Wen Juan is not the selfless and self-inflicted guilt, the most important thing is that the children are healthy and happy. Being a parent is not a simple sentence, and children are not puppets that can be manipulated by others, they can do whatever they want according to their thoughts.
Those of them who are parents can only say that they should make more thorough preparations, so that their children have more opportunities to calmly face the progress of the times and society, and find the life, work, and even their lovers and families that they really like and really want. To use a popular word in later generations, they want to be the first generation, so that their children have the opportunity to stand on their shoulders to be the second generation, it can be said that in this regard, Wen Juan can be called a doting child.
It's just that children are good children, how can they not love them and not prepare them more thoroughly? Of course, Wen Juan is busy, not that she doesn't worry about three children. It's just that the direction of her worries ranges from ordinary food, clothing, housing and transportation to the education of her three children. The personalities of the three children have been revealed, and what Wen Juan is doing now is to guide the children appropriately according to their personalities. Respect children's nature, and give them a certain bottom line constraint.
After all, in this world, no matter what, it is impossible to be free from any requirements and constraints. The so-called freedom is just a relative thing, Wen Juan and Shen Weiguo try their best to give the children space for freedom, but sometimes, some necessary rules and requirements are the best protection for them. Human beings are always social animals, and it is impossible to leave the eyes of the outside world, so they can not put those eyes on themselves, but they must also keep themselves clean and not give other people a reason to attack. As a parent, the so-called good intentions are nothing more than this.