"To say that there is no is false." Megumi Kato picked up the teacup, took a sip of hot tea, sighed, and said, "Anyway, I'm also an ordinary girl, and there are boys who are willing to do so much for me, how can I not be moved!" ”

"Just impressed?"

"There are, of course, a little bit of other considerations." Megumi Kato: "But at that time, I found that Ying Lili seemed to like An Yijun very much, and Senior Sister Kasumigaoka also had an ambiguous attitude, plus Zuo Jun revealed that meaning to me later, so I didn't think about An Yijun anymore." ”

"So, if it weren't for my appearance, even if Lun had Ying Lili and Senior Sister by his side, you would have competed?" Zuo Xiaoyou asked.

"I don't know." Megumi Kato shook her head: "Because I haven't thought about it so much, and I haven't encountered that kind of situation, I don't know what choice I will make in that situation." After a pause, he smiled: "But An Yijun is indeed a good boy, if I hadn't met Zuo Jun, maybe I would have found a way to be with him!" ”

"And what are you going to do now?" Zuo Xiaoyou looked at her: "After all, you still chose to reject me in this situation." ”

"Because I overestimate myself too much, and I underestimate Zuo Jun too much." There was a hint of gloom in Megumi Kato's eyes: "Actually, I really wanted to agree, but I was afraid that I wouldn't be able to handle the relationship with the concubine in the future, so I chose the strategy of retreating at that time." ”

Zuo Xiaoyou was stunned.

Megumi Kato smiled: "Will Zuo-kun think that I am a scheming girl?" Without waiting for him to answer, Megumi Kato said to himself: "Actually, I'm really scheming, but I think it's a very laborious thing to make changes, so it's not the people and things I recognize, and I don't want to waste time and energy, so on the surface, it gives people a cold feeling of not caring about anything." ”

Put down the teacup: "At that time, I refused Zuo Jun because I hoped that Zuo Jun would compromise with me, and at the worst of all, he would also give me some promises." But I never dreamed that Zuo Jun would find a girl who is so suitable for you with a black cat so quickly. ”

smiled slightly, tears slowly slipped down: "Maybe this is God's punishment for my greed." ”

“……”

After a moment of silence, Zuo Xiaoyou asked, "Then are you willing to be my concubine?" ”

Megumi Kato wiped her tears and smiled, "Zuo-kun is really greedy!" Do you think I will choose to be a concubine after rejecting the position of the main wife? Aren't I too lowly! ”

"I'm sorry." Zuo Xiaoyou sighed: "It's me who is too greedy." ”

"It's okay." Megumi Kato shook her head and smiled, "We'll still be good friends in the future, right?" ”

"Of course." Zuo Xiaoyou nodded heavily.

"Can you stop avoiding me at school then?" Megumi Kato: "If possible, I still want to eat a bento with Zuo-kun." ”

"I can only promise not to avoid you again, but I have to discuss this matter with the black cat when it comes to eating bento." Zuo Xiaoyou with a hint of apology: "After all, I have already established a relationship with the black cat, out of responsibility for the relationship and future marriage and family, I must report to her in the matter of getting along with the opposite sex." ”

"......" Megumi Kato smiled again, but the smile was a little bitter: "Zuo Jun is really a qualified candidate for boyfriend and husband, if I hadn't rejected you at the beginning." ”

……

Soon after, Zuo Xiaoright left. Although this conversation made the estrangement between the two disappear, Megumi Kato repeatedly regretted her original choice, which made Zuo Xiaoyou feel a little uncomfortable.

Once the conditions are talked about, they are no longer related to feelings, but a real exchange of interests. It's like a loving boyfriend and girlfriend during a relationship, once it comes to marital issues, there will definitely be problems such as the garage bride price. It's okay to meet reasonable parents, but once you meet parents whose interests are paramount, even years of relationship will be damaged.

Marriage, in the final analysis, is an exchange of interests. If you still hold on to love, then there are all kinds of trivial things about firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea after marriage, which will quickly make your love warm up. After all, love is an attraction caused by the hormonal secretion between men and women.

When you are in love, how to see how the other party is pleasing to the eye, I can't be sticky with each other all the time, but when the hormone secretion tends to be calm, reason will reoccupy the high ground, and at this time, in addition to seeing the advantages of the other party, what I see more becomes the disadvantages, so in the face of each other's shortcomings, once there is no bonus brought by hormone secretion, can men and women still tolerate each other?

If you can bear it, then congratulations, although you will face some quarrels and bumps in this life, there is a high probability that you will join hands with each other to grow old. But once you can't stand it, it's a pity. You will be hurt because of this relationship and marriage, and then become very cautious and vigilant when choosing the next relationship and marriage, which will give people a feeling that it is not easy to get along with, even if you meet a suitable object, it is difficult to deliver it to the other party wholeheartedly, and you will always find a way to prevent one hand to avoid secondary injury.

So unless the other party really has all kinds of vices and unbearable defects, those who are already married should be cautious about their marriage. Because divorced men and women, unless they are particularly rich or good-looking, it is difficult to find a remarriage partner who can deliver their body and mind, and even if they do, the experience of the last marriage will affect you for a lifetime.

In short, couples in a second marriage are not as simple as couples in a single marriage. Couples in a single marriage may have all kinds of shortcomings, but at least you are each other's first time and it is easy to try to get through together. However, couples who are married for the second time, although they may meet with good luck, it is difficult for most of them to integrate smoothly as they did for the first time.

What kind of person you are, what level of people you will come into contact with, and the people you meet at this level, the difference is not very big, you should also have a preliminary judgment, and you should also have a preliminary plan and psychological expectations for your married life. But don't expect too much, marriage really does not have perfect happiness, it is more about facing various problems in reality. Can you face it together? This is something that needs to be thought about.

Many people just think about themselves and only hope that the other party will pay for themselves, but they rarely think about what they should pay for each other, and are they willing to face each other hand in hand when the other party encounters setbacks?

So it's a very simple thing to fall in love, if you're happy, stay together, break up if you're unhappy, and you're not married anyway, you don't have to worry, and it's easy to start over. But once you enter marriage, you must be fully mentally prepared to face the difficulties in reality. Those who can face it can be called adults who have grown up. And what can't be faced is a child who has not grown up and matured. In short, love is the choice of children, while marriage is the choice of adults. Because children can't carry the burden of the family, while adults can.

Those so-called single aristocrats are actually children who don't grow up. Maybe when you fall in love, you can be full of tricks and make you happy, but once you face marriage problems, they are the most unreliable people. They themselves are not far from taking responsibility, how can they give you a lifetime of happiness!

At the beginning, Kato said that he didn't want Zuo Xiaoyou to take a concubine, which was a sign of immaturity. After all, Zuo Xiaoyou is a nobleman, and he has the legal right to take concubines, and he also has the ability to take concubines, and Megumi Kato blocking him is a choice that he only considers for himself. So Zuo Xiaoyou can only choose to give up, after all, he made it clear from the beginning that he will definitely take concubines in the future, so there is no so-called moral deception. As Megumi Kato said, she was too greedy and was victimized by greed instead.

However, this incident also taught Megumi Kato something and let her know what choice she should make when facing the relationship between men and women again in the future.

……

After a period of time,Zuo Xiaoright's life is not alarmed,Go to school from Monday to Friday,Have lunch with the black cat at noon,After school in the afternoon, accompany the black cat in the multimedia room to write the game,The activity is over,Cook for Sawu at home。 After dinner, I will video chat with Black Cat on my phone or laptop.

The basic thing to talk about is to talk about important things in terms of games.,In this regard, Zuo Xiaoyou is still very attentive to helping the black cat.。 After that, at about ten o'clock in the evening, the left small right will code words for an hour, no more, no less, and rest after the code is finished.

However, since that time when she slept with Samu, Sawu would often pester him to sleep with him, and for this, she would even run out of her room and get into his room.

Although he didn't think it was good, and Sawu seemed to be too attached to him, every time he saw Sawu's crying appearance, he couldn't resist it, so he could only follow Sawu's thoughts.

He could feel that although Sawu had given up being his wife and concubine, he had bet all the chips on the brother-sister relationship. There can be many wives and concubines, but there is only one sister. Don't look at the young age of the yarn, but if you understand the world through the Internet all the year round, your heart will never be pure. The little girl has a lot of thoughts!

When it comes to the weekend, Zuo Xiaoyou's house is much more lively. Not only An Yilun will also run to his house to make games, but the Yamada fairy will also come over to play with everyone. Since she learned that Zuo Xiaoyou had invested in club games, she was very interested, and deliberately took the script to read it, and after reading it, she was moved to tears, and then decided to join the game production team.

Although she can't play any role because the script has been produced, as a creator at the top of the light world, the story in her head is worth investing, so Zuo Xiaoyou temporarily took her under her command, considering that if she continues to make games in the future, her brain hole should have a great effect on the community.

And as the house becomes more and more lively, and the number of black cats comes more and more frequently, the number of times the yarn fog appears in front of people has also increased dramatically. Now Sawu can face guests more normally, but every time she faces the black cat, she will show a kind of hostility, which makes the black cat a little helpless.

But it's just helplessness, after all, for the 'Fallen Sky Saint Black Cat', the hostility of the yarn fog is nothing. She's a woman who signed a blood contract with Zuo Xiaoyou!

The black cat, who has a wealth of experience in taking care of her sister, is very handy in dealing with yarn fog, surrounded by all kinds of gentle means, even yarn fog gradually has no hostility towards her, but in the latest 'dying struggle', yarn fog deliberately broke the red date porridge brought by the black cat for a night, and then the black cat's black aura was fully opened, and the yarn fog was pressed on the thigh and slapped hard, and the yarn fog was beaten into tears, which also made Zuo Xiaoyou stunned.

But the effect is also leveraged.,Since then,Sha Wu no longer dares to beep in front of the black cat.,Even when you see the black cat, you'll be a little scared.,The instructions given by the black cat are also obedient.,It's like an M who was subdued by S.。

However, this also made Zuo Xiaoyou begin to reflect on his past practice of taking care of Sawu, and he summed up an experience, that is, he was too indulgent to Sawu in the past, which developed her wanton character, and often turned a blind eye to the kindness of others. In short, spoiled children.

So when facing the black cat, even if the black cat tried her best to be good to her at the beginning, she still didn't eat that set, but was even more pampered. It wasn't until the black cat was ruthless and physically destroyed that it began to change for the better.

"I see, I'm still too soft-hearted, and I can't get used to the yarn fog anymore."

When Shawu heard Zuo Xiaoyou's words, she almost cried on the spot: "Don't~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~"

And the time unconsciously came to the New Year's Day holiday, in this time and space of Japan, there are still some festival customs known to the left and right, such as New Year's Day is recognized by the Japanese as the beginning of the new year, not the Spring Festival as the Great Song people think. So Japan has a five-day holiday during New Year's Day to celebrate the arrival of the New Year.

On the first day of the new year, I usually visit various shrines in order to get the year off to a good start. The so-called shrine worship is a common way to throw a coin and make a wish in various two-dimensional works, and then draw a lot or something. It's best to get good luck and be in a good mood, but there are also unlucky people who draw bad luck, so they will fold the lot into thin strips and tie it to a branch or something else that the shrine has specially prepared to ward off bad luck, so that the bad luck can be eliminated.

Saying so much is actually a kind of feudal superstitious activity. If the fate of human beings is arranged by God, then what else should human beings strive for? Just lie down from home and wait for something good to come to you.

But it's not interesting to say that, just treat it as a custom, don't seek good luck, just peace of mind.

Before the holiday, Zuo Xiaoyou and the black cat made an appointment to go to the New Year's visit together on New Year's Day, but on the first day of the holiday on December 30, he received a call from Kasumigaoka Shiyu: "Do you want to go to the New Year's worship with the beautiful senior sister?" The seductive voice of Kasumigaoka Shiyu came from the phone: "You can see a senior sister in a beautiful kimono." ”

"Okay!" Zuo Xiaoyou smiled: "But can there be a few more people?" ”