Chapter 443: Delusional Thoughts
Yu Shuhui guided Wei Qiang to tell more truths, but Wei Qiang didn't say a word, Yu Shuhui paused for a few seconds, looked at Xu Jiuyan, and said, "Little beauty, are you married?" ”
Xu Jiuyan's mind immediately appeared with Guan Zheng's appearance, nodded again, and said, "It's over." ”
"Wow, it's so early, tell me, how does it feel to get married? Is it really the grave of love? Yu Shuhui's question was very scathing.
Xu Jiuyan thought for a while and said, "No, I think marriage makes love more mellow." ”
Yu Shuhui nodded and said, "Brother, did you hear that?" This girl is still too tender. When we are the age of the two of us, she will know what the grave of love is, right? Think about it, how much your wife hates you? Didn't telling an outsider about you tell you everything you had, do you really still love this woman? Or rather, does this woman really still love you? ”
Yu Shuhui gave Xu Jiuyan a look, and Xu Jiuyan said: "Big brother, in fact, I don't particularly understand marriage and family, but I think it's sincere to love someone, and some things are not something we can control artificially, right?" ”
Wei Qiang liked Xu Jiuyan very much, and said: "My wife has paranoia. She always guesses for no reason, saying that I hit her, that I hurt the child, that I didn't, but I didn't do anything. But this society is like that, they will choose to believe in lying women over honest men. ”
Xu Jiuyan said patiently: "You don't have to care about this, social cognition determines the mindset of the public." The knowledge, experience, and habits formed in the past will make people form a fixed tendency in cognition, which will affect later analysis and judgment, and form a mindset - that is, thinking can always get rid of the shackles of the existing frame and show a negative mindset.
The fixed tendency to know is a habit, and the habit is a form of thinking that follows the pattern. Habits have mastered unthinking reactive and adaptive behaviors, often making it impossible to eat without hunger, to sleep without sleepiness, to roar without being upset, and to overwhelm rational thinking without giving it a chance to play freely.
Let's take a simple example. If you are shown two photos, the person in one photo is handsome and elegant; The person in the other photo is ugly and vulgar. Then I will tell you that one of these two people is a criminal who is wanted in the whole country, and I probably won't hesitate to point out who the criminal is. It's all the same thing, as long as you love her, we don't have to care about these public perceptions, right? ”
Wei Qiang continued: "I'm really tired and tired, but I love her, I love her more than anything, it's her paranoia attack, saying I'm going to hit her, it's her jumping downstairs by herself, I want to grab her, but I'm a step late, it's me who is sorry for her." ”
Yu Shuhui took out a crumpled tissue in her pocket and said, "Man, what are you crying about?" ”
Wei Qiang slowly recalled the past with his wife: "I have been married to her for almost 20 years, she married me at the age of eighteen, we have always been very happy, she is a college student, studying history, and I am an unemployed vagrant who graduated from junior high school, but she is still good to me, she takes care of the family, handles everything well, she will also look at cultural relics with me, appreciate calligraphy and painting." Of course, she didn't know where these things came from.
Then something happened, and I was involved in the six. After the 28th theft, someone tried to take my life, and I ran away, but my wife was on her own, and she lost our twin children, the first and the last. Because the doctor said that my wife could not have any more children, my wife immediately went insane. We've been to various places to seek medical treatment, and they say it's called paranoia, but they all say that the probability of being cured is very small. My wife thinks about Linchuan day and night, because this is her hometown. So I took the risk of bringing her back, changed my name, opened an antique shop here, and barely made ends meet. Including our house, she asked to pretend to be like that, and I had no choice but to obey her. ”
Wei Qiang deeply remembered the bits and pieces of himself and his wife, maybe life brought hardships to the two of them, but the two of them spent all the hardships and ups and downs together happily.
Xu Jiuyan asked softly, "I still want to know, who invited your lawyer?" ”
"Lawyer? I haven't seen a lawyer. Wei Qiang said in surprise.
Yu Shuhui screamed: "You haven't seen a lawyer? Lawyers are all in, haven't you seen a lawyer? ”
Wei Qiang looked at Yu Shuhui and said, "I really don't have it." ”
Xu Jiuyan grabbed Yu Shuhui and asked, "Then who do you think is likely to help you hire a lawyer?" ”
Wei Qiang said: "No one, I have no relatives and friends, and I have no money, who will hire a lawyer for me?" ”
Everyone was stunned, Xu Jiuyan and Yu Shuhui came out of the interrogation room, and found more suspicious points. Xu Jiuyan said: "Let's tell Team Tian first. ”
"Okay."
Tian Yuming said: "What is the source of paranoia? ”
"Paranoia, also known as delusional disorder, is a psychiatric diagnosis that refers to having one or more non-grotesque delusions without any other psychotic symptoms," Xu said. Patients with paranoia have no history of schizophrenia and no significant visual hallucinations. However, depending on the species, tactile and olfactory hallucinations may occur. Despite these hallucinations, people with paranoid disorders are usually functionally sound and do not cause bizarre and grotesque behavior.
The main obstacle is the lack of basic trust in people, which is characterized by the use of negation and extrapolation to deal with their psychological difficulties, which leads to a systematic delusional structure. Sensitive, more selfish, suspicious and vindictive for self-pleasure. Usually the problem is that you can't see the boundaries of yourself and can't distinguish between yourself and others. There are many delusional patients who do have some secrets in their hearts that they personally think are unspeakable, and they are very guilty and afraid that people will know. Lack of ability to recognize one's own motivations and attitudes. Lack of trust in others, always report the concept that "others are always vicious enemies", and the impulse to attack from the inside, so the relationship with others is not good. Some patients develop the disease due to special circumstances, such as being in a different place. In addition to personal factors, delusional content is also affected by social and cultural factors.
And his wife is a delusion of victimization, and the patient firmly believes that the people around him or some gangs will follow and monitor, attack, frame him, and even poison his food and drinking water. Abuse of delusion may include acts such as detention, accusation, escape, wounding, and self-harm. It is more common in schizophrenia and paranoid psychosis. ”