1.

There is a sentence in "Natsume's Friend's Account": "I want to be a gentle person, because I have been treated like that by gentle people, and I deeply understand the feeling of being treated gently." ”

I have recommended this healing anime to many friends, it has no complicated plot, no deep truth, just one simple story after another, but it is enough to move people's hearts.

Many times I feel that this world is simple, as long as you are a beautiful and kind person, as long as you never skimp on every thank you.

In fact, most of us are just small specks of dust living on this huge planet, and the ordinary seems to be a normal thing, and there is nothing special about life. But because of contentment and gratitude, each of us has become different.

We all go about our 9-to-5 life day in and day out, walking past the crowded subway stations in the early morning, past the steaming breakfast bars, past the yawning elevators, and past the nearly closed convenience stores.

None of us is a radiant sun, only a faint light in our own little world, but it is undeniable that although this light can only illuminate ourselves, it can also be more or less warm.

2.

I saw a post not long ago with the theme:

"Tell me why you were moved last time."

Some people say that she is a pregnant woman who is seven months pregnant, and she can't get a taxi after going to the maternity and baby store when it rains, and when she holds an umbrella, she feels that the taxis in the whole city have been taken away by others during the off-duty period. Later, an empty car came, and after she got in the car, the driver said that he had just pulled the passenger to pass by, and saw her standing on the side of the road and thought that the pregnant woman would definitely not be able to take the taxi at this time, so the passenger in the car got off the car not far away, and he went around to pull the pregnant woman. When the pregnant woman said thank you, he said, "You're welcome, my wife is about to give birth." It is not easy to know that pregnant mothers are not easy, you have worked hard. ”

Some people say that this year is the second year that he has come to Beijing to work, and he forgot his 25th birthday, and his mother called him in the early hours of the morning thousands of miles away, and he was a little impatient: "What's the matter, I have to go to work tomorrow morning." His mother said, "Happy birthday, son." ”

...

It occurred to me that I had read a sentence like this: "What kind of person you are, what kind of world you see; The world will treat you as you do to the world. ”

A lot of the time, kindness can be exchanged for kindness. Because you never skimp on every thank you and every warmth, the world is willing to be gentle with you.

3.

Have you ever been treated gently by the world or by someone? Thankfully, I have.

I can't get jet lag because I'm used to not being able to sleep at night. When I used to live in the old community, sometimes I needed to rush the manuscript, so I ordered takeout and ordered two cups of coffee to accompany me.

The hardest thing in the middle of the night is waiting, but the takeaway guy in charge of the coffee shop seems to know what I need most at this moment, he is never late, and always arrives at my door at the appointed time to ring the doorbell, rain or shine.

Once I had to deliver the manuscript to the client's father before dawn, and after I ordered coffee during my menstrual period, I cheekily called the takeaway boy: "Hello, I am the girl who ordered coffee, can you help me buy a bag of brown sugar when you come?" He said yes and said, "Yes." ”

The distance from the coffee shop to my house was never more than half an hour, and my brother was never late before, but he came late that day.

I had been waiting for a long time when I heard the knock on the door, and when I opened the door, I saw him holding a coffee cup in his left hand and brown sugar in his right hand, he said: "I'm sorry to be late, on the way I suddenly remembered that my girlfriend said that girls in the menstrual period are not good at drinking coffee and milk tea, and I helped you change the hot milk." I took a look at this brown sugar on the Internet, and it was boiled with red dates and ginger to warm the stomach. ”

Later, no matter how many takeouts I ordered, I always remembered that little brother, because we had ever met the warmest and most sincere each other.

Then I moved to a new apartment, and the coffee shop was not in the delivery area of my new home, and I never ordered coffee from that shop again, but I always couldn't help but take a taxi to see how their business was doing today.

4.

In this world, behind every gratitude and gratitude that arises spontaneously from the bottom of our hearts, what really touches us is the kind of human touch between people that is getting less and less.

There are many, many little things that happen every day in this world, and many things mostly sound insignificant, but anything that involves human warmth and coldness will always make people's hearts tremble.

The most beautiful thing we can see is never the winding mountains and beautiful water, but the purest human heart, the tolerance and understanding between people, and the warmth from human affection in the cold winter.

Just like a lot of times, it's not difficult for us to say "thank you" to someone, and your "thank you" is also exchanged for gratitude from others. Just as you got the thank you for the takeaway, it was also exchanged for the Baidu takeaway rider's sentence: "Thank you for your understanding and your 'thank you'." ”

Baidu takeaway has always maintained the characteristics of high quality, punctual delivery, good service, and a large number of restaurants, and the takeaway riders are even more rain or shine, and repay you with the fastest and best service: "Thank you for being so fast", "Thank you for your hard work", "Thank you for this thank you." ”

I want to say to all the delivery guys on Thanksgiving: "Thank you for always showing up when I need it most." ”

Fin.

Life itself has no shape, and all the happiness or unhappiness we feel comes from us, because everything is mutual, and you have to give what you want first.

If you want to be treated gently by the world, you must first face the whole world with gentleness.

May this winter, next winter, next winter, every future winter,

You and the people you love can be treated gently by the world.