Chapter 351: Don't forget
To say that among the family, the one who loves Ning Ning the most is probably Shen Weiguo. Although, Shen Weiguo spends the least time at home during the day, but when he is at home, Shen Weiguo takes care of the children's big and small things, and Ning Ning is even more so when he is at home, he is in his arms, when Ning Ning's mobile car, saddles the horse for the little girl, and does cow and horse, without the slightest impatience.
An An and Lele, at that time, he was often on assignments, and in the two years after An An and Lele were half a year old, he was almost always on assignments, and he was not able to participate in the growth of too many children, and he has always regretted it. Now, it can be said that he is holding compensation and satisfying that regret, and he is a delicate little girl like his daughter-in-law, how can Shen Weiguo not hurt like anything, and he participates in the growth of the child with his heart and takes care of her with his heart.
Children's hearts are always the most sensitive, when Ningning learns to walk, it is not without a struggle, children are the most straightforward little things, they will test the reaction of adults, to make instinctive choices, which is very necessary for adults to be able to control.
Ning Ning was very good at asking for help at the beginning, so that a little girl who doesn't like to move, every day her mother has to try her best to practice walking, and she will also seek a backer, but her grandparents and grandparents can't help, so she began to hit Shen Weiguo with her idea. When Shen Weiguo was at home at night, he didn't mention how affectionate Ning Ning's father screamed, which made Wen Juan jealous: "Little Nizi who has no conscience, if your father is her father, her mother is not her mother!" ”
However, in the end, seeing the face of the father has to listen to the mother's words, there is no hope of Ning Ning, can only helplessly cooperate honestly, once this little Nizi made up her mind to cooperate, it is only a few days of hard work, she can be under the traction of adults, walk very smoothly, slowly she also realized the benefits of moving around, without the supervision of adults, but also willing to hold on to the wall or sofa to find their own exploration and walking fun······
When she first stepped into the late autumn, once she saw Shen Weiguo coming back from work, Ning Ning heard the movement, and when she saw Shen Weiguo coming in, she was anxious, so she staggered and jumped into Shen Weiguo's arms without holding on to things, officially announcing that she could walk alone without holding things.
Personally participate in the growth of children, take care of children in person, even if they are busy and tired, but the satisfaction and sense of accomplishment of participating in the growth of children is incomparable, and cannot be replaced by words.
The growth of children, before the age of three, which needs to be accompanied the most, is only a few years, and the wrong time has passed, and time is irreparable regret for life. Wen Juan does not want to leave such regrets, children and family are her most important choices, for the better growth of children, she is willing to suspend her own development, but also to better accompany her children.
Not to mention, it doesn't affect her research on pharmacology now, nor does it affect her to continue studying... Take care of their food, clothing, housing and transportation, personally accompany them to play and study, and personally take them on weekend outings to have fun... Give children of this age the most needed sense of security.
At the same time, Wen Juan also respects children very much, and will not ignore their own opinions because they are small. In particular, An An and Lele, who have a clear sense of self and have their own opinions, no matter what the two children have or want, Wen Juan will first listen to and respect the opinions of the two children, and finally analyze and satisfy and reject them according to the reasonableness of their requests.
Even if it is dismissed, Wen Juan will not use a threatening and scolding tone, as always, to reason with the two children and tell them why they can't. Of course, when the child's requirements are reasonable, Wen Juan will definitely meet them. There is not much content taught in kindergarten, and Wen Juan also added homework to the two children. Every day's big characters lay the foundation of patience, every day's appreciation of ancient texts and small stories, cultivate children's cultural literacy, recently, Wen Juan began to two children, with small stories to tell the 56 ethnic groups in China.
In this process, Wen Juan did not pull Ning Ning down. Big characters or something, Ning Ning is too small, and the hand bones are not fully developed, and that is a schoolwork that will not start until she is three years old. But now, listening to stories regardless of age, Wen Juan originally had the idea of listening to Ning Ning to participate, but who would have thought that Ning Ning gave her a big surprise.
From the Han nationality, which has the largest number of people with a long history, to the hospitable Uyghurs... The middle is also interspersed with the geographical map of China, customs and customs... Wen Juan uses small stories to tell children wittily and vividly, she will also have a little simple sketch, can not draw too delicate things, but simple small cartoon character images, still not difficult for her, she will be talking, in the current time when there is no fixed image picture information, so that children can more vividly understand, this wonderful world.
Whenever the children were at this time, they were attracted by Wen Juan's fascinating narration and listened attentively to Wen Juan's narration. Of course, when the fun edification is understood, Wen Juan will also appropriately throw out some questions to deepen the children's impression. However, when Wen Juan asked for the first time, she asked which ethnic group does not eat pork?
What Wen Juan couldn't think of, the first to answer was not An An and Lele, who still had to recall and think about it, but Ning Ning, who was lying in her arms and was soft and coquettish, only to hear her respond crisply, "Hui!" ”
"Ning Ning is awesome, so which ethnic group wears a cheongsam?" Wen Juan paused for a moment, and then asked again with verification.
"Manchu!" After several small tests in a row, Ning Ning answered without blinking her eyes, and her big eyes clearly stated that she was not talking nonsense, but really remembering and answering without thinking.
"Hehe... Ning Ning is amazing! Wen Juan kissed the little girl in her arms and understood Ning Ning's ability to be discovered by them belatedly, which was simply a cheating ability.
Maybe it's because she has the nourishment in her life, the three children are a little different from the ordinary children, An An and Lele are different from the great power of ordinary children, and now they are properly controlled, and they will also help to protect themselves in the future. Ning Ning's initial performance has always been in the point of sensory acuity, and they have always mistakenly thought that this is the uniqueness of Ning Ning, who knows, only now do I know that Ning Ning's ability is long in memory, and now it can be basically concluded that Ning Ning is almost unforgettable.