"In contemporary times, although it is still a test for understanding workplace culture based on the number characteristics of the nine personalities in the business culture, the Enneagram has great advantages in the early planning, strategy determination, coaching, and corporate training of the enterprise." Guan Zheng elaborated: "In their 1977 book "Temperament and Development", Dr. Alexander Thomas and Dr. Stella Chase mentioned that we can identify nine different temperaments in babies in the second to third months of life, and David Daniels found that these nine different temperaments just match the Enneagram.

The Enneagram is not only a subtle personality analysis tool, but also provides deeper insight into personal cultivation, self-improvement and experience. Unlike other personality taxonomies today, the Enneagram reveals people's innermost values and focus of attention, and it is not affected by superficial changes in outward behavior. It allows people to truly know themselves and their opponents; It can help people understand their own personality, so that they can fully accept their weaknesses and live out their strengths; It can make people understand the personality types of other different people, so as to know how to communicate and get along with different people, and establish a more sincere and harmonious partnership with others. ”

"So what kind of personality do you think I am?" Dr. Tian asked curiously.

Guan Zheng smiled and said, "How boring is it for me to say? So, I'll talk to you about these nine personality traits, we'll sit down with each other, there's pen and paper, I'll write what I think you and my own personality, and you write what you think you and my personality, and then we'll uncover the mystery together. ”

"Wow, that sounds exciting!" Dr. Tian said, "I'm off work anyway, so I'm happy to accompany me." ”

The first is the perfectionist type, he pursues continuous improvement, is principled, not easy to compromise, often says "should" and "shouldn't", black and white, very high requirements for himself and others, pursues perfection, continuous improvement, and has a weak emotional world. Love to exhort and teach, avoid expressing anger, and believe that you have something to do every day.

You're the quintessential perfectionist, and it's easy to understand. Because you strive for perfection in everything, you rarely speak praise, and many times only criticize, whether it is to yourself or to the people around you! And because you have super high standards for yourself, you put a lot of pressure on yourself, and it will be difficult for you to relax and play and laugh happily!

When an accident happens, in addition to venting anger externally, in fact, I constantly experience frustration and disappointment in my heart. These emotions are not healthy for you and must be dealt with positively. The most fundamental method is not to make yourself better, but to adjust your perspective on everything and face it easily! ”

Dr. Tian thought carefully for a while and said, "This is not me, is it?" ”

Guan Zheng nodded and said, "Then the next one, the all-love type." Pursuit of service, longing for the love or good relationship of others, willing to accommodate others, people-oriented, asking others to feel the need for themselves, often ignoring their own love to report facts, avoiding being helped, busy helping others, denying the existence of problems. I like to help people, and I take the initiative and be generous! Although you are sensitive to the needs of others, you often neglect your own needs. Satisfying the needs of others is more important to you than satisfying your own, so you rarely make requests to others. In this way, your ego is not strong, and many times you have to affirm yourself by helping others. ”

"Well, it's kind of like me." Tian Yuming took this game very seriously, and Guan Zheng reminded: "Don't forget to look at my characteristics. ”

Guan Zheng said: "The third achievement type, the pursuit of results, strong competitiveness, like to recognize prestige, often compare with others, measure their own value by achievements, focus on image, workaholic, afraid to express their inner feelings, love to tell their achievements, avoid failure, and live according to long-term goals." Always motivated because you have a strong desire to win! You like to be challenged and will connect your own values with your achievements.

Type 3 is that you are afraid of intimacy, not that you will not have friends, but when the relationship deepens, you may avoid and run away for fear of being seen. Therefore, intimacy, good friend relationships are not easy to establish for Type 3 because they are afraid of being seen for who they really are, and therefore it is difficult to open up and be honest with others. ”

There is also a type called artistic, the pursuit of uniqueness, emotional, the pursuit of romance, fear of rejection, feeling that others do not understand themselves, strong possessiveness, my own style of life: love to talk about unhappy things, easy to be depressed, jealous, life pursuit feels good. Love to talk about unhappy things, easy to be depressed, jealous, life pursuit feels good.

The type of wisdom and thought, that is, the pursuit of knowledge: looking at the world with cold eyes, withdrawing from emotions, like thinking and analyzing, knowing a lot, but lacking action, not demanding material life, liking spiritual life, not good at expressing inner feelings, loving observation and criticism, withdrawing oneself, and having endless books to read every day.

Intelligent, you are a very calm person, you always want to keep a distance from the people and things around you, and you will not let your emotions go. A lot of the time, you'll be a spectator before you can participate. In addition, you also need to have a lot of personal space and a high degree of privacy, otherwise you will feel very anxious and unstable! You also have a good chance to become an expert, such as computers, comics, fashion, because you are very passionate about knowledge!

This next one is the loyalty type: the pursuit of loyalty and prudence, do not trust others easily, suspicious, like group life, do your best for others, do not like to be looked at, content with the status quo, do not like to change the new environment. Love of peace and discussion, fear of authority, tradition can give a sense of security, fear of achievement, and avoid problems.

LoyaltyYou are a good employee because you are loyal and conscientious. A sense of security is important to you, because when you meet new people and things, it can cause you to feel fearful and uneasy. Based on this fear and anxiety, you will prepare for the worst, in other words, you are more pessimistic and more likely to avoid things. I'm done, have you finished writing? ”

Tian Yuming nodded and said, "It's written, do you want to read it?" ”

Guan Zheng said: "Let's change." ”

Guan Zheng opened Dr. Tian's card, which read: all-loving, intelligent.

Dr. Tian opened the note of the government, and it still read: all-love, wisdom.

Both of them laughed, and Guan Zheng said, "I'll just say that we are destined, right?" ”

Dr. Tian nodded and said, "Yes, what a coincidence." ”