part 49
"I'm not in a hurry, I just feel like I'm going to catch up with other friends, I'm already a big step behind, I really want to get married, have a small family of my own, I feel so happy when I think about it."
Chen Jianyao didn't say anything more, because Chen Jianyao knew that when the heart of hating to marry was deep in the bone marrow, anyone's persuasion would be useless. It's just very emotional, everyone's life trajectory is different, why do you have to tie your life to others. Marriage sooner or later is not a problem that can be solved in a hurry, and a person can live a wonderful life, the joy of life needs to be found by yourself, not necessarily by others. Even if there is no object, what does it matter, life is so beautiful, there are so many things that can be done at the moment, and improving your happiness index at all times is the most important thing, why be in such a hurry to find others to give, and why do you hate to marry so much.
Chen Jianyao vaguely learned from Liu Yiyi's conversation that it was not a girl introduced by her friend, but Liu Yiyi herself, and the person who hated to marry was also Liu Yiyi, but Chen Jianyao did not say anything.
"Thank you Yiyi for pouring out, in fact, I always believe that love will appear later, but it will never be absent. If you are in a hurry to fall in love and get married, you will find that in the end you are far from what you expected, but it is too late to regret it. As I grew older, I slowly found that there were more and more single older young women around me, but they did not hate to marry and faced all the problems in life peacefully, because they had grown up to be able to bear many difficulties independently, not rely on others, and not seek marriage to save a person's situation. In life, there is always a long way for you to walk alone, and there is always such a person who will eventually meet you. Learn to be alone and live a wonderful life in order to better embrace the world. Life is short, and we should do meaningful things and manage a better version of ourselves. Is it a shame not to be in love and not to be married? When you live a dazzling enough life and cultivate strong enough, you can ignore all worldly judgments and devote your energy to whatever you want to do. Exercise more to make yourself physically and mentally healthy and make yourself better. They say, "If you bloom and the breeze comes." When you bring your own aura, that person will naturally appear. So, girl, don't hate getting married so much, may you be so strong that you don't need to be spoiled and hurt, but lucky enough to be spoiled and hurt. ”
"Thank you, Sister Xiao Chen."
Zhao Feiyu gestured his wrist in front of Chen Jianyao and told Chen Jianyao that the time was up, Chen Jianyao nodded and said: "Thank you for listening on time today Xiao Chen has something to say, although the meeting is short-lived, but fortunately there is next time, the phone in the studio is almost bursting, friends who have not transferred to the anchor room can follow the official Weibo, tell Xiao Chen their emotional confusion and the story between friends, and we may answer your questions in the next live broadcast." Although I am reluctant, I still have to say that we will not see you at 7 o'clock in the evening. ”
Zhao Feiyu switched to the music at the end, Chen Jianyao put down the headset, pressed the off button, and for a whole hour, Chen Jianyao was relaxed at this moment.
Indeed, you don't know a person, don't veto a person because of his external aura, this is Chen Jianyao's understanding of Zhao Feiyu today, Chen Jianyao leaned on the sofa extremely relaxed, closed her eyes and enjoyed the music played by Zhao Feiyu.
It is Deng Ziqi's bubble, and the voice is very special, with a hint of charm and sexiness in the hoarseness.
"I heard you chatting with people before, and it's been half a year since you came to the radio station for an internship? What school did you graduate from? ”
"A big."
Chen Jianyao was a little surprised, opened her eyes to look at him, and then said incredulously: "It's not such a coincidence, right? ”
"I know that you are also a member of the A-University, and you are also an officer of the literature department, and I have read the articles you once wrote." Zhao Feiyu said lightly.
"We've only met for the first time, right? How do you know me so well? ”
"Who met you for the first time?" Zhao Feiyu obviously said with some disdain.
Chen Jianyao was even more surprised, and tried to recall, where had Chen Jianyao seen this relatively handsome boy before? But even if Chen Jianyao thought about it, he couldn't think of where he had seen him? And we also graduated from the same school: "Anyway, I'm your senior sister." ”
"We're on the same level." Zhao Feiyu's voice smashed over again.
Chen Jianyao was even more stunned, Chen Jianyao sat up straight and looked at him: "You are at the same level as me?" No way? You obviously look like a recent graduate, and you just said that you have been interning for half a year? ”
Zhao Feiyu obviously didn't want to say anything, just said: "The first time I saw you, it was when you were debating with the other party at the school literature meeting, I just passed by and saw you, at that time I thought you were very domineering, the second time I saw you was in the studio, the time you impersonated the host to interview Gu Tianyuan, fortunately you appeared, otherwise the live radio broadcast class would have opened the skylight for the first time, and the third time was this time." ”
Chen Jianyao stretched out her hand, and only at this moment did she introduce him so formally: "Hello, I am Chen Jianyao." ”
"Hello, I'm Zhao Feiyu."
originally thought that Zhao Feiyu was younger than Chen Jianyao, and he didn't expect him to be the same age as Chen Jianyao, but looking at Zhao Feiyu's eyes, he felt that he must be a person with a story, Chen Jianyao looked at him with a smile: "You said that the milk tea downstairs is very authentic, I invite you to drink it." ”
"But if you lose weight, it's not interesting for me to drink alone."
Chen Jianyao pushed him: "You don't use my words to prevaricate me, do you want to go?" Give a good word. ”
"Go!"
The telephone operator outside the live broadcast room is still answering the phone, such a hot scene is something I didn't expect, Zhao Feiyu said: "I have to admit that this time it was very successful, my vision is right." ”
"What do you mean by that?" I'm a little puzzled.
Zhao Feiyu looked superior and said, "It's not interesting, you will know it slowly." ”
Chen Jianyao didn't ask again.
The bubble tea shop downstairs was deserted during this time period, Chen Jianyao looked at the dazzling array of tea lists, Chen Jianyao was a difficult choice, compared to so many choices, Chen Jianyao was even more difficult.
"Two cups of snow." Zhao Feiyu seemed to see Chen Jianyao's hesitation, and then said: "Although his milk tea is still very authentic, the fusion of milk tea and ice cream tastes better." ”
"But ......"
"You don't have to be taboo to eat ice cream at night to get fat, in fact, what does it matter if you eat one or two meals, you are just a voice anchor, not facing the camera, even if one day in the future, you are fat, the audience will not see it."
Chen Jianyao hated his poisonous tongue, but after really taking a sip of Xueding, Chen Jianyao was amazed by the feeling of melting on the tip of his tongue.
Chen Jianyao's phone rang, it was an unfamiliar number, and Chen Jianyao picked it up: "Hey? ”
"It's Xiao Chen, I have something to go to a meeting today, your live broadcast can be such a big success for the first time, I sincerely thank you for your willingness to join us."
"Director, you're polite, it's Taili who is willing to let me try."